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Girls saying this leave me stumped
I'm 6'4", and where I live (UK) the average male height is 5'11", so I'm pretty damn tall.

So when I'm out in a smoking area for example, random girls will often say to me "wow, you're really tall!"

"Great, she's opened me" I'm thinking, then I realise I have absolutely no idea what to say back. Being approached by girls rather than the reverse is so weird to me that I normally just get really confused and say "yeah, I've had that pointed out for 18 years but thanks for noticing".

Then I'm stumped.

This is a pretty noobish question, but should I just continue from there into a standard conversational thread? Or is there something better I can say than "so how's it going anyway?"

Cheers in advance.

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12-11-2011 08:24 AM
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RE: Girls saying this leave me stumped
"Maybe you're just really short"

"Yeah there isn't much oxygen up here, I feel high all the time"

"You're really _____" (whatever you want, anything but "hot" I think)

"Wow you should come home with me" (Apocalypse lawlz)


w/e

Have fun with it, I love it when girls open me (not that it happens constantly). My favorite response, no matter what they say, is "who the hell are you?"

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RE: Girls saying this leave me stumped
I get the "Hey your really tall" or "How tall are you?" thing as well ( Im 6' 7")
I get stumped on it too, you get so used to people asking you, you just go to the auto response, and dont even realize it as an opener.
Plus you get so used to people looking at you that you become oblivious to chicks checking you out.
You would think taller guys would have it easier but really there are quite a few disadvantages, having a conversation with a woman of smaller stature is almost impossible sometimes in a club since your WAY up there and you end up hunching over to hear what shes saying, since everyone can see you (or you believe they can) you become a bit more self-conscious, and finding clothes that fit you well can be a real challenge.

The response I've been defaulting to:
Her:"Hey how tall are you?"
Me: "On my feet or on my back?"

I haven't figured a good one out for "Your really tall" yet..
12-11-2011 11:00 AM
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RE: Girls saying this leave me stumped
I'm a 6'6 guy and I've got one that works decently: "Yeah, I'm good at changing lightbulbs and reaching into hard-to-get places.".It usually challenges the other person to turn on their game or transition.
12-11-2011 11:58 AM
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RE: Girls saying this leave me stumped
(12-11-2011 11:00 AM)Tripp_six Wrote:  I get the "Hey your really tall" or "How tall are you?" thing as well ( Im 6' 7")
I get stumped on it too, you get so used to people asking you, you just go to the auto response, and dont even realize it as an opener.
Plus you get so used to people looking at you that you become oblivious to chicks checking you out.
You would think taller guys would have it easier but really there are quite a few disadvantages, having a conversation with a woman of smaller stature is almost impossible sometimes in a club since your WAY up there and you end up hunching over to hear what shes saying, since everyone can see you (or you believe they can) you become a bit more self-conscious, and finding clothes that fit you well can be a real challenge.

The response I've been defaulting to:
Her:"Hey how tall are you?"
Me: "On my feet or on my back?"

I haven't figured a good one out for "Your really tall" yet..
Haha, that's classic.

(12-11-2011 10:00 AM)Prowl Wrote:  "Maybe you're just really short"

"Yeah there isn't much oxygen up here, I feel high all the time"

"You're really _____" (whatever you want, anything but "hot" I think)

"Wow you should come home with me" (Apocalypse lawlz)


w/e

Have fun with it, I love it when girls open me (not that it happens constantly). My favorite response, no matter what they say, is "who the hell are you?"

I've tried the "maybe you're just really short one before". Never worked for me, I think it makes me come across as cheesy.

But I'll definitely try those others out, cheers man.

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12-11-2011 12:12 PM
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RE: Girls saying this leave me stumped
I agree. Have some fun with it. Try "Yeah mom makes me wear these platform shoes."

I've read that penis length and girth is directly related to a man's height. I'm thinking that's why they open you. Can you tall guys confirm this?

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RE: Girls saying this leave me stumped
Keep in mind that women see height as a huge attraction factor worldwide, probably No.1 on the list of what draws a woman's attention to a man. So, when she opens you with this "wow, you're tall" line, it is a surefire invitation that she is attracted to you, and wants you to spit your game at her to see if she will ultimately fuck you.

I'd play the cocky-funny role and respond to it in a cool, but confident way while making fun at her at the same time (not insulting her).


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RE: Girls saying this leave me stumped
(12-11-2011 12:15 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  I agree. Have some fun with it. Try "Yeah mom makes me wear these platform shoes."

I've read that penis length and girth is directly related to a man's height. I'm thinking that's why they open you. Can you tall guys confirm this?

As far as I'm aware I'm above average for both, not pornstar big though.

And someone who I went to school with who was 6'7" had a rep for having a big dick.

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12-11-2011 12:52 PM
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(12-11-2011 12:52 PM)dulst Wrote:  
(12-11-2011 12:15 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  I agree. Have some fun with it. Try "Yeah mom makes me wear these platform shoes."

I've read that penis length and girth is directly related to a man's height. I'm thinking that's why they open you. Can you tall guys confirm this?

As far as I'm aware I'm above average for both, not pornstar big though.

And someone who I went to school with who was 6'7" had a rep for having a big dick.

I'm telling you this is something that women discuss amongst themselves. I would play on that. They're doing most of the work by opening you. Introduce yourself and score some digits.

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RE: Girls saying this leave me stumped
There are a million different ways to respond. The bottom line is that you need to improve your conversational skills. Let me guess, you have always been shy and quiet around women? Well, its time to come out of your shell (comfort zone) and start talking to these girls every chance you get. You need the practice.

Open them in line at the store, at the bus stop, on the street, everywhere! Keep it playful and light-hearted.

The sooner you get comfortable and confident talking to girls, the sooner you can just relax and let the conversation flow. Right now, you are thinking about what to say. That's the sign of an inexperienced conversationalist.

With alot of practice, you will know what to say instinctively just by looking at her. The look on her face, her body language, clothes, shoes, the way she speaks and the way she carries herself. These are all clues about what type of person she is and what types of things she is in to.

You wanna get good at anything. You gotta do it a million times. You wanna get good talking to girls, talk to a million girls.

Have fun. Its a beautiful thing for a young man to break out of his shell and become a confident speaker around women.
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RE: Girls saying this leave me stumped
"yeah, you'd probably need to stand on a chair to kiss me..."

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RE: Girls saying this leave me stumped
Bro, she likes you. Be cool, be relaxed, be confident and take it from there.
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RE: Girls saying this leave me stumped
This is so simple, should be in newbie area. I;d say 7'4, 6 '4 from head to toe 12 from base to head
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RE: Girls saying this leave me stumped
Tell her that's because you've got long thick limb. Notice how I deliberately left the word limb as a singular?
If she notices and says: "Don't you mean limbs?"
You say: "Oops, I wouldn't mind if I do" and wink at her.

If she says "ooh aye?"
You should say "Yea since I hit puberty, me leg got very long and thick, giv us the 7 and I'll let you 'ave a gander a bit later on"
Use the British wit to get a bit of a slap an' tickle.
My point is, turn it into some humour directing towards the sexual favours you desire.

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RE: Girls saying this leave me stumped
I just purchased a pair of male shoe lifts from this place:

http://www.liftheightinsoles.com/shoe-li...r-men.html

I am 5'10 (1.78m) without shoes on, and want to actually try these to go up to 6'1 ( 1.87) with shoes and lifts on. I want to see if there really is a difference in that 6' threshold that would get more female positive attention by height alone.


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Mixx you're the man, i am buying this shit. Just a quick question, when i buy it should the size of it (shoe lift) be smaller than my shoes size? My shoes size is 8 (UK), i am wondering if my shoe lifts should be size 7 so it can fit.
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(12-12-2011 11:54 AM)pitt Wrote:  Mixx you're the man, i am buying this shit. Just a quick question, when i buy it should the size of it (shoe lift) be smaller than my shoes size? My shoes size is 8 (UK), i am wondering if my shoe lifts should be size 7 so it can fit.

They come with perforated, marked edges so you can easily cut them with a pair of scissors to your shoe size.


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yeah thanks, just saw it on ebay..jeez..i will finally become 5 ft 9 or even taller Big Grin
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(12-12-2011 12:01 PM)pitt Wrote:  yeah thanks, just saw it on ebay..jeez..i will finally become 5 ft 9 or even taller Big Grin

Cool, keep in mind that these lifts should be worn with boots or high-top shoes, not low-cut shoes.

Want some killer boots that females will go crazy for when you wear them...guaranteed?

here ya go:

marknason.com


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I shouldnt wear it when i am rocking trainers ..why?
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(12-12-2011 12:08 PM)pitt Wrote:  I shouldnt wear it when i am rocking trainers ..why?

I have never used them; this is my first time. However, i read that they are not designed for low-cuts by a user giving them reviews as they would be uncomfortable to wear.

Not sure if he was an isolated incident, but just giving you heads up. You can come back and let me know how they work out with trainers as my intent was to wear them with Mark Nason boots only.

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RE: Girls saying this leave me stumped
"thanks. what's your name?"
her: Jenna
Hey Jenna, I'm Dulst. So what makes you so attracted to tall guys? (smile and raise eye brow to show your teasing her)

then normal convo.
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(12-12-2011 11:46 AM)MiXX Wrote:  I just purchased a pair of male shoe lifts from this place:

http://www.liftheightinsoles.com/shoe-li...r-men.html

I am 5'10 (1.78m) without shoes on, and want to actually try these to go up to 6'1 ( 1.87) with shoes and lifts on. I want to see if there really is a difference in that 6' threshold that would get more female positive attention by height alone.


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Mixx, very curious to here about the results. I'm 5' 11" and I think there may be some kind of subtle threshold that they can sense. I've gotten laid more often in my boots than in my shoes.
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