Post: #1

This chick I pumped and dumped a few times has sent me (see below), and has been sending other girls that friend me/post on my wall similar messages. Although it is somewhat funny, I have since blocked her, but she continues to harass me as well as any other girls I try to have any interaction with. Any ideas short of deleting my fb?

"look, I don't know who you think you are just not responding to any of my texts, but what you said last weekend-- i really thought you meant it..i really thought you were going to make an effort to be in a relationship with me. but you can't..you won't...you ignored me all fucking week, and don't give me excuses, the fact that you make up an excuse just to be away from me is completely ridiculous. i've given up everything to be with you because you make me happy..but its times like these that I second guess myself because you don't care about me enough to answer your goddamn phone. so fine, go have fun, go be blackout drunk every night and hookup with as many fucking girls as you can. I'm not gonna cry over you anymore. you had your chance and you obviously dont care about me and I see that now."

Post: #2

I've dated a girl like this more than once. Crazy, immature, can't handle casual relationships or rejection.

De-friend her and jack up your privacy settings so people who aren't friended can't see your friends. No good can come from having people like this in your life.

Or you can be like me, delete 400 "friends" and leave your closest buddies and family members... login once a month. That's what I do. Facebook is a colossal waste of time.

Post: #3

Did you pick her up through Facebook? ...or did you meet her out in the real world?

I wouldn't facebook a new fuck until I was confident enough she wouldn't cause me headaches like this.

Post: #4

(12-03-2011 08:12 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  Did you pick her up through Facebook? ...or did you meet her out in the real world?

I wouldn't facebook a new fuck until I was confident enough she wouldn't cause me headaches like this.

No met her at a sushi place. Inever pick up girls through the internet. Too sketchy for me most of them are socially inept or have so much baggage its just not worth the headache/investment.

Post: #5

WHOA...that's some seriously vindictive behavior. You must have really laid the pipe well if you got in her head so strongly that she'd try to broadcast your rejection of her to as many women as possible, and to try scare them away from you. The flip side is that it's a good thing you didn't start seeing this chick seriously. She's crazy, and it's better you learned that this way. Hopefully she'll be true to her word and not "cry" over you anymore.

Post: #6

(12-03-2011 07:50 PM)alphamale87 Wrote:  Any ideas short of deleting my fb?

Yeah be a man. You claim to be from your name.

If it is open relationship / casual then make it clear at beginning. Then she can either accept it or walk away.

If she engages in behaviour that is not cool, let her know that its not cool.

In short, be a man. Communicate.

The source of the problem here is you.

Post: #7

I don't know if its just because this is a common rant girls have or not, but this sounds exactly like what some girl was telling me (about other guys) just after she swallowed my load a few months back. Lucky for me passing out was enough for her to stop bitching and leave.

Post: #8

Also this seems like more than just a pump+dump situation. More like you've been bangin' this chick for a while (6months+) and shes wanting some sort of definite commitment from you as opposed to an on an off relationship when other sources of pussy dry up.

My advice is keep her in rotation, if shes a good lay, and continue to bang other girls on the side more discreetly. Harem management my friend. Keep the hamsters spinning the dread heavy and occasionally her happy so you'll keep her in your active rotation.

Post: #9

Be careful if you have a girl saved in your cell and she has you in hers. I have my settings where nobody can even find me by searching my name/email but on the Facebook app, there's new Friend Recommendations. I'm seeing old bitches I fucked pop up on there and they haven't been in my phone for months. Some crazy, old white trash lady that sucked my dick earlier this year was trying to add me and kept sending messages. I asked her how she found me and she said I was a Recommend Friend. I can't even get away with lying to girls about having a fb page anymore with this bullshit.

Post: #10

(12-03-2011 07:57 PM)Gmac Wrote:  I've dated a girl like this more than once. Crazy, immature, can't handle casual relationships or rejection.

De-friend her and jack up your privacy settings so people who aren't friended can't see your friends. No good can come from having people like this in your life.

Or you can be like me, delete 400 "friends" and leave your closest buddies and family members... login once a month. That's what I do. Facebook is a colossal waste of time.

Mine is set up similiar. Ill troll my own page to see what the bitches think. "Getting married 11 Nov. Im so happy." They congragulate, then see comments from other girls. Then I move it to PM. FB has advantages.

Post: #11

Some chicks are crazy but in this specific case I don't think this is all just her being a crazy bitch, it sounds like you said something to make it seem like you might want a relationship with her.