Post: #1

if you had to name one thing that makes you above average or way above average in the bed what would it be?

lasting a long time? how long? or something else?

Post: #2

For chicks, it's how you make them feel. Most women want to be dominated. All women love orgasms. Learn to make them feel good to the point they're still fantasizing about you the next day (and text you about it) and she's yours.

Stamina and finesse is pretty important... but it's how you do it that's critical. Pounding away like a robot won't keep them coming back. Your "love-making" should be visceral and raw. For me, spanking and holding them close... with a lot of position changes works wonders. I take control.

And don't forget to pull her hair, hard.

As for getting there... find a girl and fuck her for a while. Girlfriend, fuckbuddy, whatever... someone you can get comfortable with and experiment on. Once you have a good 100 bangs under your belt you're in a much better place. I recommend emulating what you see in porn. That's what I do, and it works.

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Post: #3

I second GMac. Watch porn to learn techniques, not to beat off.

Some women really get off on being talked to as well. It's more of the "forbidden" activity.

Variety is the key -- fuck her hard, fuck her tenderly, fuck her fast, fuck her slow, fuck her in every position. But do dominate.