Post: #26

(12-02-2011 09:46 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  Mixx nailed this but look, There's a possibility a woman can make you happy. The time you spend hunting her down though is addictive so once you cross the threshold and crave the thrill of the hunt more than the domestication there's no coming back. I seriously believe a lot of guys are here because not only do they want to learn about how to get women naked but truly are hardwired to settle down which is fine. The question is who is worthy of that. We advocate playing the field until you figure it out exclusively.

Now..I saw that Caligula mentioned food heading his way. I haven't asked but I'm almost sure half or what made him happy for a while was that she was taking care of him. My main shit-test with women is all about food. I have dumped many women over just ordering a pizza with the toppings in their favor. It's a sign of things to come and I'm such a total dick that after sex you better be geared the fuck up or in one second or a half mushroom pizza you are gone. I dont like mushrooms and I eat the lions share of a pizza so why should they be touching or on my slices? Even after I say that I detest them and onions girls want to just push. Well ok I will just order a large meatball and bacon and you can just order one the way you want..........Even on my dime it's a problem..Now..I'm not ranting about a couple girls here..Lets try about 60 or more! Same shit over and over. It's all about slow control that starts with things like this that you would not even think about but I've got almost thirty years of dating and fucking under my belt so I'm here to tell you to WATCH what's really going on.

When I was in an LTR, this was one of my biggest pet-peeves. If I made a sandwich for myself, she'd always have to come and try to get one bite in. I even offered to make her her own sandwich at one point so she'd leave me the fuck alone. A friend of mine had the same problem with his girl and they got into a huge fight over it.

Post: #27

"When I was in an LTR, this was one of my biggest pet-peeves. If I made a sandwich for myself, she'd always have to come and try to get one bite in. I even offered to make her her own sandwich at one point so she'd leave me the fuck alone. A friend of mine had the same problem with his girl and they got into a huge fight over it."

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Ahhh yes...that annoying aspect of LTRs where a woman believes you are now one, and you can no longer do the simplest of things without somehow thinking of her. If you make a sandwich, you must share it. If you eat out, we have to order something to share, or she gets to pick off of your plate. They see you as being selfish for having or doing anything that is yours alone.

Post: #28

(12-05-2011 12:33 PM)soup Wrote:  

(12-02-2011 09:46 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  Mixx nailed this but look, There's a possibility a woman can make you happy. The time you spend hunting her down though is addictive so once you cross the threshold and crave the thrill of the hunt more than the domestication there's no coming back. I seriously believe a lot of guys are here because not only do they want to learn about how to get women naked but truly are hardwired to settle down which is fine. The question is who is worthy of that. We advocate playing the field until you figure it out exclusively.

Now..I saw that Caligula mentioned food heading his way. I haven't asked but I'm almost sure half or what made him happy for a while was that she was taking care of him. My main shit-test with women is all about food. I have dumped many women over just ordering a pizza with the toppings in their favor. It's a sign of things to come and I'm such a total dick that after sex you better be geared the fuck up or in one second or a half mushroom pizza you are gone. I dont like mushrooms and I eat the lions share of a pizza so why should they be touching or on my slices? Even after I say that I detest them and onions girls want to just push. Well ok I will just order a large meatball and bacon and you can just order one the way you want..........Even on my dime it's a problem..Now..I'm not ranting about a couple girls here..Lets try about 60 or more! Same shit over and over. It's all about slow control that starts with things like this that you would not even think about but I've got almost thirty years of dating and fucking under my belt so I'm here to tell you to WATCH what's really going on.

When I was in an LTR, this was one of my biggest pet-peeves. If I made a sandwich for myself, she'd always have to come and try to get one bite in. I even offered to make her her own sandwich at one point so she'd leave me the fuck alone. A friend of mine had the same problem with his girl and they got into a huge fight over it.

Cooking and food issues is the main reason I've never been married and my LTRs don't last long.

I go ballistic on women who refuse to cook. I go ballistic on women who cook shit food. I go ballistic on women who don't want to learn how to atleast make a few things decent.

It's done right there. Game over! What the fuck good are you if you can't/won't or care to feed me well.

What baby? Your Trannys slipping? Oh, that sucks! How's my shrimp fra diavlo coming along? What? No good huh?

Post: #29

So true. I've kind of fucked myself over. I was in a LTR with a girl for about 6 months and broke it off when I moved to the UK for work. I banged a handful of foreign women while I was there and now my appetite for new women is insatiable. I did however still keep in contact with my ex and had her fly over to visit me in the UK a few times. I went all beta and slipped back into a LTR. I care about her and in beta fashion can't deal with her being with anyone else. After 2 years I moved back to the states and had her and her daughter move in with me. They left their home in Iowa to live with me in Florida. A week before I came back stateside though I took a farewell Eurotrip hitting Copenhagen, Stockholm, Nice and Dubrovnik. I banged some gorgeous young chicks and also claimed my first (Polish) v-card. Now I'm stuck in a prison of my own making with noone to blame but myself. We have good times. She's very loyal and the sex is good but her daughter is a buzzkill. Why anyone would WANT to raise another man's child is beyond me. I guess I could try and break it off and hope she can scrounge up enough money to move back home but I find it's just more convenient to cheat now. My job takes me away somewhat often so it works out. But yeah the moral of the story is stay single. Fuck bitches get money.

Post: #30

I just got out of a 8 year LTR... the girl was great, good sex, GREAT head, beautiful, cooked, cleaned, let me do whatever i wanted.... but i was still always felt something was missing, i wasnt happy.... So i broke up with her an now shes gone, an i have lost my edge when it comes to talking to women, i used to talk to any girl any where any time, i met my ex in the wal mart prking lot...

i need to get my mojo back... i am about to embark on some worldly travels starting in january

Post: #31

Keep these coming guys cause I feel myself slipping into wanting a LTR... thankfully the girl doesn't really cook and she's a bit messy as well, plus she's not that hot so I got those things to reflect upon so I don't do anything stupid.

Its not like we're single really.... we're in a relationship with ourselves, we love ourselves enough to not do things that are bad for us right?

Post: #32

I'm shutting down the LTR and taking the no-date challenge. I sense a hot-streak. This is why I'm marrying the game.

You're all invited to the bachelor party.


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Great story, bro. This game, like any other, is full of ups and downs. Your sojourn simply confirmed why you're built for this. Keep it up.

Post: #33

Great story, great writing as well.

We don't need any broad to push our wheelchairs when we are older. WE DECIDE when something is over and when we're ready to move on. You became lazy, that was when you should have ended things, not we you were at the point of being fed up.

For all you guys out there that may be worried about the girls feelings and how you says you're her world and everything else. Forget all that, she will have a new cock in her within a few months max and you will have wasted all that extra time you could have been free and enjoying yourself.

Great Job Again

Post: #34

(12-05-2011 08:49 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  I'm shutting down the LTR and taking the no-date challenge. I sense a hot-streak. This is why I'm marrying the game.

You're all invited to the bachelor party.

Great story, bro. This game, like any other, is full of ups and downs. Your sojourn simply confirmed why you're built for this. Keep it up.
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What is the no date challenge?

@Fisto Very true! A few months though? A few days or weeks maybe.

Post: #35

(01-24-2012 05:09 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(12-05-2011 08:49 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  I'm shutting down the LTR and taking the no-date challenge. I sense a hot-streak. This is why I'm marrying the game.

You're all invited to the bachelor party.

Great story, bro. This game, like any other, is full of ups and downs. Your sojourn simply confirmed why you're built for this. Keep it up.

What is the no date challenge?

@Fisto Very true! A few months though? A few days or weeks maybe.

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Emech, there you go http://www.rooshv.com/the-no-dating-chal...te-players

Looks like you're pretty much living that already!

Post: #36

(01-24-2012 04:40 PM)Fisto Wrote:  We don't need any broad to push our wheelchairs when we are older. WE DECIDE when something is over and when we're ready to move on. You became lazy, that was when you should have ended things, not we you were at the point of being fed up.

Agreed. That's where the negatives start to outweigh the positives, when you start to neglect improving yourself.

Post: #37

Great post Caligula, can definitely relate to this right now. Its good to be back indeed.

Post: #38

This story is way too real. I feel like I'm slipping into an LTR and it feels like I'm losing my grip on all I've learned. I think its because I've been focusing so much on school that its drained my desire for new pussy.

Post: #39

I had a bittersweet "nothing compares to the game" moment today:

This cute Israeli chick from class asks me to study for our midterm. I need to study anyways so we meet up w. a few of her friends. During our study sesh I'm noticing some IOIs and she gets all flustered when she accidentally says something complimenting my looks. The room we are in is booked so her friends leave and I say we can study at my place. I know all of the study areas will be full so I go aw shucks we'll have to go to my crib, she gets all flustered again. We go to my place study for a bit, she compliments the view, I show her something on my computer (study related) she keeps touching me etc. Dope. I start building more rapport (we only had classmate report before, serious shyt begins now). We sit on my bed, but shes sitting facing me, but with her legs weirdly crossed so I would have to like awkwardly move myself to kiss her. I really had to piss too, I'm not going for sex when I have to piss this bad, I excuse myself to go to the bathroom. When I get back shes putting her boots on, "oh you're leaving?" her: "yeah remember you said you couldn't study late?" (me: oh fuck i told "main girl" I'd see her tonight") I tell Israeli girl that we're going to have to get celebratory drinks, she smiles and says ok.

I clean up a bit and tell main girl to come over, she does. She is jealous that all of her friends were getting roses and dinner dates. We fuck. I can't stop thinking about how I'd rather her be the other girl. Bad sex, and disappointment.

I realized that I have forgotten the rush of new ass in my bed, I've been blaming school for not going out and actively running game as opposed to some classroom numbers, nights out or the security of a fuck buddy. I can picture in my mind fucking this new girl after we gets drinks and it gets me far more excited than a future of the same old (albeit multiple) pussy. Nothing compares to the game.

Post: #40

Being in a ltr is like being in a job. You get comfotable and think it is better to stay than to look for something else.

Post: #41

I want to settle eventually.
There I said it.

I don't want to be 60 years old and alone.
A family is a beautiful thing if you can find the right woman. And no western woman is the right woman. Seriously.

I'd like to settle down with a Turkish girl that loves me and treats me like royalty, cooks cleans etc.
That's my end game.

I don't know if I'd be able to stop myself from cheating though.

But for now, I'm definitely all for the game

Post: #42

Great story, thanks for sharing.

Post: #43

(12-02-2011 09:46 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  Mixx nailed this but look, There's a possibility a woman can make you happy. The time you spend hunting her down though is addictive so once you cross the threshold and crave the thrill of the hunt more than the domestication there's no coming back. I seriously believe a lot of guys are here because not only do they want to learn about how to get women naked but truly are hardwired to settle down which is fine. The question is who is worthy of that. We advocate playing the field until you figure it out exclusively.

Now..I saw that Caligula mentioned food heading his way. I haven't asked but I'm almost sure half or what made him happy for a while was that she was taking care of him. My main shit-test with women is all about food. I have dumped many women over just ordering a pizza with the toppings in their favor. It's a sign of things to come and I'm such a total dick that after sex you better be geared the fuck up or in one second or a half mushroom pizza you are gone. I dont like mushrooms and I eat the lions share of a pizza so why should they be touching or on my slices? Even after I say that I detest them and onions girls want to just push. Well ok I will just order a large meatball and bacon and you can just order one the way you want..........Even on my dime it's a problem..Now..I'm not ranting about a couple girls here..Lets try about 60 or more! Same shit over and over. It's all about slow control that starts with things like this that you would not even think about but I've got almost thirty years of dating and fucking under my belt so I'm here to tell you to WATCH what's really going on.

I never minded letting them pick, I found the problem was usually that women are too fucking dumb to even know what they want....typical exchange...

me: What do you want to eat?
Her: I don't care
me: Cool, let's go to XYZ.
Her: I don't like/want XYZ
me: Okay, what do you want?
her: I don't care.

Repeat 20 more times.

Post: #44

(08-01-2012 06:50 PM)snoop Wrote:  I never minded letting them pick, I found the problem was usually that women are too fucking dumb to even know what they want....typical exchange...

with that attitude, no wonder you cant get pussy, always visiting a forum to rant why women donl like you.

Post: #45

(08-01-2012 06:50 PM)snoop Wrote:  

(12-02-2011 09:46 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  Mixx nailed this but look, There's a possibility a woman can make you happy. The time you spend hunting her down though is addictive so once you cross the threshold and crave the thrill of the hunt more than the domestication there's no coming back. I seriously believe a lot of guys are here because not only do they want to learn about how to get women naked but truly are hardwired to settle down which is fine. The question is who is worthy of that. We advocate playing the field until you figure it out exclusively.

Now..I saw that Caligula mentioned food heading his way. I haven't asked but I'm almost sure half or what made him happy for a while was that she was taking care of him. My main shit-test with women is all about food. I have dumped many women over just ordering a pizza with the toppings in their favor. It's a sign of things to come and I'm such a total dick that after sex you better be geared the fuck up or in one second or a half mushroom pizza you are gone. I dont like mushrooms and I eat the lions share of a pizza so why should they be touching or on my slices? Even after I say that I detest them and onions girls want to just push. Well ok I will just order a large meatball and bacon and you can just order one the way you want..........Even on my dime it's a problem..Now..I'm not ranting about a couple girls here..Lets try about 60 or more! Same shit over and over. It's all about slow control that starts with things like this that you would not even think about but I've got almost thirty years of dating and fucking under my belt so I'm here to tell you to WATCH what's really going on.

I never minded letting them pick, I found the problem was usually that women are too fucking dumb to even know what they want....typical exchange...

me: What do you want to eat?
Her: I don't care
me: Cool, let's go to XYZ.
Her: I don't like/want XYZ
me: Okay, what do you want?
her: I don't care.

Repeat 20 more times.

The secret is that they don't want to pick. Tell them how it's going to be.

Post: #46

(12-01-2011 01:04 PM)Riker Wrote:  I don't mean to troll.... but I feel like I'm still in the softy camp where I want to have a really strong connection with one really high value girl and the more girls I sleep with the more I lose my ability to have that. Kind of like losing your soul. Still I have to admit that its better than the alternative of not having girls and having them control you.

I feel that way too, quantity isn't all its cracked up to be. The more of them I'm with the more I realize they are all pretty much the same, so I get into a bit of an existential issue of "why give a shit about any of them?"

Post: #47

THIS is Pimp!->

(11-30-2011 11:36 AM)Caligula Wrote:  I sense a hot-streak. This is why I'm marrying the game.

Post: #48

(08-01-2012 06:50 PM)snoop Wrote:  I never minded letting them pick, I found the problem was usually that women are too fucking dumb to even know what they want....typical exchange...

me: What do you want to eat?
Her: I don't care
me: Cool, let's go to XYZ.
Her: I don't like/want XYZ
me: Okay, what do you want?
her: I don't care.

Repeat 20 more times.

This is easy, if it becomes a common occurrence, you gotta use your persuasion skills by offering the worst choice possible first and then by telling her you're going somewhere else (your choice).

me: I'm hungry, let's get something to eat, what do you want?
Her: I don't care
me: Let's go Burger King for some horse burgers
Her: No way I'm not gonna eat that shit
Me: Good I know this nice little Italian restaurant, we're going there.
Her: Ok.

If you'd given her the Italian restaurant as an option first, she'd have rejected it and anything else would have sounded similar. Giving her one of the worst options first makes her feel that the actual choice you made is a way better option, even though it's really what you wanted in the first place.