haywire
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Optimal game venues by player profile
While I think that sublime game can conquer and transcend most scenarios and situations, it is also true that certain game locations are more conducive for players of certain profiles and in some cases the difference is like day and night. For instance, a highly educated, smart and successful scientist with average looks and okay game would have a hard time scoring in loud nightclubs just like a ripped jock type with subpar conversational skills would face problems in daygame environments. A lot of initial noob frustrations and anguish can be simply attributed to gaming at wrong locations. Based on personal and other fellow players' experiences I'm trying to come up with a list of various game locations and the type of player profile that is best suited for them while maximizing the overall ROI. This is not taking the outliers(guys with mad game or extreme good looks) into account as they would have success in most circumstances, but is more from the perspective of a regular guy trying to enhance his game. Also, I'm not sure if my assessments are on point, so please feel free to make corrections/additions.
Bars/Clubs - Minimum requirements: above average looks + average game OR above average game + average looks. Reason being that these places are loud and any halfway decent chick is getting hit-on from all directions resulting in short attention spans, hence you need to create a strong pull to hold their attention. These places are fast becoming good for nothing more than ONS's as unless you make something happen that very night, most chicks won't even remember how many times they gave out their numbers while drunk, when they wake up the next day.
Coffeeshops - This is your place if you can hold a conversation and have a somewhat interesting background. You'd have ample time to build a connection and let your personality/life experiences hit the attraction switches.
Bookstore - Pretty much like a coffeeshop and it would help if you are a book-nerd of sorts.
Street - Must have advanced conversational skills, a good rap and quick wit as unlike a coffeeshop or a bookstore your targets are moving and you gotta give them a strong reason to hang around you for longer. Perhaps it becomes more of a numbers game because "that guy from the street" would probably have less credibility than "that interesting guy from the coffee shop".
Dance Clubs(Salsa, Tango etc) - If you can dance and are good at it, especially at one of the latin dances like salsa then you can pretty much give up other forms of game. Nothing makes the 'gina tingle like the spins and drop-catches of a good male lead. There is zero bitch-shield as they are all there to "dance" and not to "hookup". I've personally seen 5'2 guys pulling 6'0 tall girls at salsa places.
Beach - Surfer types with great bodies, as it'd be a lot easier to get the pussy wet using your 6-pack and cut biceps shining in the sun.
Hotel lounges and bars - If you dress sharp and have a good bank roll.
Online - Another goldmine like the dance clubs, once you have your profile locked down. Although it's true that ALL women(even the fatties) get 100 messages per minute, a well written profile and an interesting message do take you a long way. Shorter guys might be at a disadvantage as she might skip your profile right away after noticing that 5'5 height while completely overlooking the fact that you might be have Harvard MBA and are also the lead singer in a local band.
Social circle - Unless you're not a complete pushover and a doormat, sooner or later you'd be able to bag a chick from your social circle by "just being yourself".
Gentlemens' clubs - ?
Concerts - ?
Game is a necessary evil
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| 11-28-2011 10:40 AM |
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RE: Optimal game venues by player profile
This is a very important topic and we already have a handful of good threads on this issue. The bottom line is that logistics are a significant part of the game. If you have impeccable looks, style, and verbal skills, but you only game in the same bars that are sausage parties, you're probably rarely, if ever, going to get laid. But if you can find a few good venues that get packed with girls at certain times, even an average guy will have great odds.
Roosh had a post a long time ago about how important venue selection is, and it really stuck with me. You need to invest significant time into scoping out the venues and determine which ones are going to be a waste, then move on. If you don't invest a lot of time and effort into venue selection, expect to waste time sitting around with a bunch of dudes and money on overpriced booze that isn't helping you get laid.
One of the best game skills to develop is being able to determine which venues are going to be good spots.
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T and A Man
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RE: Optimal game venues by player profile
(11-30-2011 09:57 AM)haywire Wrote: Quote:Classes that give language lessons. For full effect, you gotta practice outside of class.
It makes an invitation to your pad seem harmless.
Definitely see potential in this. But I'm guessing you're gonna have to follow up the study-session with a drinking-session for something to happen? What's your approach and have you used it successfully?
Yeah, I used to ask foreign asian students to teach me mandarin if they had difficulty with english. So practice each language. But it doesn't have to be restricted to them
Then ask if they are hungry, get your 'guest' crackers, cheese, tomato, sliced meat. Ask if they'd like to have 'just one glass' of wine with that.
One becomes two or more, then close from there. If they are a bit reluctant, then 'maybe we can have a short break after all this study', and try to venue bounce with cool places near your pad. Kino works great to 'let's get back to study some more', to open the door, to help her up the stairs. Try to close once again.
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RE: Optimal game venues by player profile
(06-20-2012 02:02 AM)houston Wrote: Where would be a great venue for a young guy who's seen lots of foreign films? I'm still trying to use it to my advantage. A theater that shows foreign movies maybe?
the only way i could see this working is to pretend to be a film auteur and you're casting an actress or something.
unless you're gaming carla bruni or something, the girl is not gonna be interested in discussing fellini. lol
(This post was last modified: 06-20-2012 08:02 PM by HiFlo.)
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