Post: #1

Just got back spending a few days in Paris. Unfortunately I only went out on my last night, so I don't think that I got a full taste of what Paris has to offer. To sum up Paris, its full of tourists, but the city has a lot of character, and full of beautiful, elegant women everywhere you look.

Before I came, I had contacted a couple chicks from couchsurfing. I had a date set up with a Hungarian au pair, but it seemed to fall through. At the last minute, she said she had to work. It could have been true, or a flake, who knows. So that basically left me without a solid plan. I tried going to a club that looked nice called "Queen" on Champs-eyseylees, but they weren't letting single dudes in, and I really wasn't dressed for it. (lots of hot chicks going inside though).

On my last night there, I planned to "suit up" and attend an Internations event, so I went to the hotel where it was at, but I fucked up. It turned out it was on the night before. I had gotten the date wrong... So I started walking around, wondering what I was going to do. I even considred calling it a night and going home. Just then, I got an SMS from another couch surfing chick asking if I wanted to go out for a drink at the 11th arrondissement .

I had some time to kill before I met up with her and her friends, so I walked into a bar that looked decent. I eventually started chatting up some Irish chicks. One was chubby, but they both passed the "boner test". Things went really well, and we had good rapport...eventually a British couple joined us but then it got a little boring as they started telling stories about their friends..basically stuff I couldn't relate to. I decided that it was a good opportunity to check out the cs chick, with the idea that I could return if need be.

It turned out the cs chick was at a bar around the corner. Two of her friends were chicks, and another was a douchey French dude. They were a little alternative-y for my tastes, (one was pretty hot), but all extremely do-able, thinking my chances were better with these chicks, I forgot about the Irish chicks and decided to stick around. We had some drinks, good conversation. I got rotating my attention between each girl to determine which was most DTF. It seemed to be the main cs girl,so I started focusing on her.

The bar was closing at 2am, and we headed over to club. Apparently some gay magazine was sponsoring the night, and lots of dudes making out with each other...but that was all right, less competition for me. We switched to REd Bull vodkas started getting pretty drunk..., and I started escalting with the cs chick, with light back touches etc...eventually I went in for a kiss, but I was rejected...however she didn't seem to be turned off, and stayed close to me...Eventually she had to go as it was nearing 5am. I told her I would stick around, as my train left at 7am and I was just going to make it an all-nighter... As we said goodbye, we hugged and did the French greeting/goodbye kiss several times..it seemed like she was into me, but I guess I'll never know what the deal was, we got along well, had great rapport......lesbian maybe? lol

Back down in the club, I chatted up another French chick (who I'd been kinda talking to off and on), she was also very receptive to me, I took her on the dance floor and told me, "I just want to be clear. Nothing is going to happen tonight...because French girls are difficult" I was like okay....after a few seconds it sunk in that I wasn't getting anywhere...at least not in the time frame, that I had....I essentially just turned around and left her on the dance floor.. I didn't have the energy.

Barely made it to the train station on time...exhausted and a little disappointed..I probably should have stuck with the Irish chicks

But even so, although I got nowhere, I had a good time. Paris might not be the easiest place to get laid, hell I would have been happy with a kiss... but its definitely full of opportunity...

Post: #2

Paris is not France. Even though there are lots of french people in Paris.

It's the quintessential tier 1 city to avoid.

Post: #3

For getting laid... yes, there are better locations... But its a cool city with a good night life, full of elegant,hot women...somewhere everyone should see once in their life. Although I was unsuccessful in getting laid, it doesn't mean it sucks.... To be honest, the main reason I went was because there was a special on train tickets. €93 round trip... overall it was a good time...

Post: #4

I don't really find French girls that difficult. I had very little problem getting the flag in Paris (3rd day there) even though my French sucked.

Picked her up in a bar. Time from meet to bang about 90 minutes (my apartment was 2 blocks from the bar which made logistics really easy). Basically just vibed with her and invited her back for a drink. Only about 2 minutes of token resistance.

She was 24 years old from outside of Paris (cant remember the town) and told me she spent most of the last 3 years living as a lesbian which was kinda odd. Didn't mind me taking naked pics either though not during the act itself. More of arty nude posing kind of pictures.

Also picked up my Slovakian flag, Greek flag and my Swedish flag in Paris too. I was there for 4 months.

As it's such an international city its a good city to pick up different flags. The swedish chick was an au pair (cliche I know) and the Greek chick was a foreign exchange student. Tons of them there if you know the right parts of town to hang out in.

Also had an English chick throw herself at me during a party at my apt. but I turned her down for a better option on the night (the slovakian). The greek girl was at the party too and got super pissed off with me.

Post: #5

I can't be 100 percent sure, since I wasn't there but it sounds like she just wanted you to flirt. Flip the script and start teasing. It seems as if you were emotionally reactive to the girls "rejecting" your kiss. Or just smirk and kiss her anyway. It seemed like she was into you and really wanted to do something if she stuck around. Anyway, I give you props for escalating. Just another learning experience.

PS did you isolate her?

Post: #6

OMG!! I just fucked yet another French girl!! Bless them all...

French girls on vacation are soooo DTF!!

Mixx

Post: #7

(11-28-2011 08:25 PM)MiXX Wrote:  OMG!! I just fucked yet another French girl!! Bless them all...

French girls on vacation are soooo DTF!!

Mixx

Particularly French 'Au Pairs'. Fish in a barrel.

Post: #8

(11-28-2011 11:28 AM)Lumiere Wrote:  I don't really find French girls that difficult. I had very little problem getting the flag in Paris (3rd day there) even though my French sucked.

Yeah I don't buy into stereotypes of any nationality...I'm sure I just needed to find the right girls. Given more time there I'm sure I could have accomplished more. The problem is that I didn't find the good places to go out until my last night.

You are right. Paris is truly international city and there are all kinds of flags to be had

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Post: #10

Totally agree, way too commercial. When an American decides to go to Europe, their destination is usually Paris.....I f-ing hate tourists. I knew that Paris was known for being crowded with them. However thats also why I went in the off-season..to avoid that shit.

Also right about day gaming....there are do-able chicks everywhere you look....very target rich

Post: #11

(11-29-2011 07:53 AM)klosck Wrote:  Totally agree, way too commercial. When an American decides to go to Europe, their destination is usually Paris.....I f-ing hate tourists. I knew that Paris was known for being crowded with them. However thats also why I went in the off-season..to avoid that shit.

The same goes for Rome which is even more littered with tourists. I go there for the sights. If I was there for game I'd actually target tourists instead of locals.

Post: #12

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I hear you. Nothing says you can't see the sights and work some game into your itinerary... if you've been around Europe, you probably know that the sights of most cities are essentially the same...a statue there, an old building there, ...a museum...so if you're going to be doing that stuff, it can get a little boring... You might as well know about the game opportunities out there...

Post: #13

This may sound like a generalization, but it is not an exaggeration- all of the French girls that I've picked-up or banged were slutty and kind of nuts. Maybe it's just the type that I was meeting, but I can't think of one that wasn't totally neurotic and arrogant. My friend lived in Paris for a few years and he noted that when in France, there's no problem, but when they come to America, they act crazy.

Post: #14

(11-28-2011 11:28 AM)Lumiere Wrote:  As it's such an international city its a good city to pick up different flags. The swedish chick was an au pair (cliche I know) and the Greek chick was a foreign exchange student. Tons of them there if you know the right parts of town to hang out in.

Lumeire, you seem to have enjoyed a lot of success in Paris. How did you crack the au-pair? Also, which parts of Paris did you hang out in? I know there are plenty of threads on Paris but most seem to be geared towards high-end clubs and au-pairs/students are not the types who frequent such places IMO.

Post: #15

France was not that difficult for me at all, I love it. If anything, I found it easier there than here in the US.

I actually went out and started hitting on random women.

Post: #16

(07-04-2012 11:52 AM)capote Wrote:  

(11-28-2011 11:28 AM)Lumiere Wrote:  As it's such an international city its a good city to pick up different flags. The swedish chick was an au pair (cliche I know) and the Greek chick was a foreign exchange student. Tons of them there if you know the right parts of town to hang out in.

Lumeire, you seem to have enjoyed a lot of success in Paris. How did you crack the au-pair? Also, which parts of Paris did you hang out in? I know there are plenty of threads on Paris but most seem to be geared towards high-end clubs and au-pairs/students are not the types who frequent such places IMO.

Capote,


Two small suggestions:

First of all, The 6th & 7th arrondisement are known for having attractive people in Paris. Not coincidentally, the 7th arrondisement is smack in the middle of Paris, and also the most touristy area, with the Eiffel Tower.

1) The 6th arrondisement, right around the where Rue de Buci intersects with Rue de Seine (around the latin quarter) was one of my favorite areas to hang out. Granted, there are still lots of tourists (although not as much as 7th) there BUT it is also where there are a few major universities with tons of both french students and exchange students. This area is almost always very happening, with tons of bars, cafés and generally a great buzz. In addition to the tourists, and students you see a lot of foreigners around this area who are in Paris for work, assignment, or something like that. Generally, I really like the type of person who congrates in this area.

2) Also, in the park grassy areas AROUND the Eiffel Tower, there are people playing frisbee, soccer or something pretty much almost every day and they were almost always open to me when I asked to join in and I met some cool people this way. The groups are usually mixed, so that includes girls of course. Also, allmost every night, around that same area there are young people drinking wine, champagne, and/or smoking hookah, especially students, including particularly exchange students, who are great fun. BTW, a bottle of champagne can be bought for as little as .99 centimes (roughly $1.45).

I think sometimes the touristy areas are often written off too quickly, when in fact they can still be a great source for meeting ppl and girls.

Post: #17

I've traveled pretty extensively through Europe but I think Paris has the most beautiful women. So much variety, beautiful language, etc. I need to find a girlfriend down there so I can escape Deustchland on the weekends. I was hanging out in the Bercy and the 3rd arr. Dimes everywhere.

In my case I'm more into the Arabic/Black/Mixed Parisians. Would anyone have any more info where they tend to congregate?

Post: #18

(07-06-2012 05:19 AM)DomWasHere Wrote:  I've traveled pretty extensively through Europe but I think Paris has the most beautiful women. So much variety, beautiful language, etc. I need to find a girlfriend down there so I can escape Deustchland on the weekends. I was hanging out in the Bercy and the 3rd arr. Dimes everywhere.

In my case I'm more into the Arabic/Black/Mixed Parisians. Would anyone have any more info where they tend to congregate?

Dom,

I share your love for these types. They're found scattered all over Paris but unfortunately, the most bang-for-buck is in the poorer areas. Three suggestions: First, North Paris, around Porte de Clichy will bring you across the more north african arab types. Second, North Paris, around Porte de Clignancourt there is a weekly sunday flea market which also brings you across the same types. Third, if you're willing to venture outside of Paris, the real gold-mine is Saint Quentin just 10kms SW from Paris center which is a hotbed for the West-African francophone types. If you like black girls, holy moly, the bodies you see in the train station alone are more than enough to keep you occupied.

An added benefit is that the University of Versailles has a campus in Saint Quentin as well, which can be a great source for meeting people. Warning: Aside from the talent & university, there is not much else, and it is a somewhat depressing place with modern, uninspired architecture.

Post: #19

(07-06-2012 05:19 AM)DomWasHere Wrote:  I've traveled pretty extensively through Europe but I think Paris has the most beautiful women. So much variety, beautiful language, etc. I need to find a girlfriend down there so I can escape Deustchland on the weekends. I was hanging out in the Bercy and the 3rd arr. Dimes everywhere.

Break it down holmes.

Bust out a Data Sheet.