Post: #26

When i was in Thailand i had a russian girl come over. I spend 3 weeks with her traveling in Thailand. The difference with your story :
I fucked her in russia
I fucked her up the ass when she visited me in China
She paid everything herself and split the bill on all costs. I had to push to pay something for her sometimes.

Things you should do :
- Forget this leech of a girl
- go to bangkok alone
- you want (white) friends ? go to Kao san road, it packed with white people there.
- you want to fuck ? go to local clubs.

You are already implying you can only bang hookers and you will get an std. You're in the wrong mindset dude. You can bang girls for free or even hookers for free. or bang fellow tourists.

read post 11 of this thread : /thread-8351-p...#pid122687 I'm giving a tip how to avoid STD's

This girl is playing you like a deck of cards. You might have a crush on her and fantasize about banging her in bangkok. She might be an incredible bitch, say to you : you're such a nice good FRIEND and fuck the first Aussie surfer boy she meets on Kao San road. You will miserable for the whole two weeks.

Post: #27

(11-24-2011 09:34 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

(11-24-2011 07:57 AM)Patrick Bateman Wrote:  Ok ok..understood, I see what you guys mean. She's over in the States while im in Afghanistan so I couldn't try to bang her first haha. I should've never mentioned to her that I was going to BKK but alas, now to get rid of her..

Are you in the military or contracting? If the latter the ticket shouldn't ding your bank roll to bad. If in uniform I wouldn't even consider dropping that dosh on a maybe. I'm in Afghan right now so we may well be at the same spot. Feel free to PM your station.

Now for the dirty Ali-B spin:

Using logic I would assume being a virgin she is probably timid and probably hasn't traveled outside the U.S., and sounds young by the need to return to classes. Just traveling that far, let alone Thailand, will be shock and awe to her. Now she's off kilter.

Take her to BKK, and share a room. Stock up with Mekhong and Singha. Get her loose while getting ready for the night and look for signs. Go to dinner even. If she's not willing to fuck you then, run her right down Soi Cowboy. She'll see instantly her pussy value just hit the fucking floor. Zero, zilch, nada. Drag her right into a go-go bar and start flirting with the whores. If she even gives you one fucking iota of grief remind her of the months of dick-beating you've had to endure in Afghan.

Obviously she'll be pissed, and want to leave, but where will she go? I bet the Queen's thongs she won't have the intestinal fortitude to take a tuk-tuk back to the hotel alone. Now she's stuck, with the new found realization that her pussy is useless in the land of 1 real smile.

This will force her hand, and the only thing between you and the whores is her ass. She'll give it up gladly. With fervor. Or be bi-curious and you'll have a mega night. Either way you win.

Worse case she goes back to the hotel. Fine. Give it a few hours and enjoy the debauchery. Buy a hooker and bring back to the room, and fuck her in the same bed as your girl. Just take a sharpie and black out the international call instructions on the room phone, so she can't fall back on calling home.

This is what I'd do, if I flew a girl to Thailand. That or get her hooked on opium and pimp her ass for two weeks to comp your trip.

Just another spin on things guys, don't be a hatin'.

I'm Military, over here in Kabul..near the Embassy. Nice post, I'll think about that..getting the ticket isn't much of a financial mistake but it's still a big risk when I can lay my pipe for free in BKK, and she's 19 in college.

I should probably leave this decision up to my brain and not my dick haha

Post: #28

I understand the perspective of the OP... he wants some R&R with a chick he likes in an exotic place. But from a game standpoint it's a bad decision.

Post: #29

(11-25-2011 01:27 AM)Patrick Bateman Wrote:  

(11-24-2011 09:34 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

(11-24-2011 07:57 AM)Patrick Bateman Wrote:  Ok ok..understood, I see what you guys mean. She's over in the States while im in Afghanistan so I couldn't try to bang her first haha. I should've never mentioned to her that I was going to BKK but alas, now to get rid of her..

Are you in the military or contracting? If the latter the ticket shouldn't ding your bank roll to bad. If in uniform I wouldn't even consider dropping that dosh on a maybe. I'm in Afghan right now so we may well be at the same spot. Feel free to PM your station.

Now for the dirty Ali-B spin:

Using logic I would assume being a virgin she is probably timid and probably hasn't traveled outside the U.S., and sounds young by the need to return to classes. Just traveling that far, let alone Thailand, will be shock and awe to her. Now she's off kilter.

Take her to BKK, and share a room. Stock up with Mekhong and Singha. Get her loose while getting ready for the night and look for signs. Go to dinner even. If she's not willing to fuck you then, run her right down Soi Cowboy. She'll see instantly her pussy value just hit the fucking floor. Zero, zilch, nada. Drag her right into a go-go bar and start flirting with the whores. If she even gives you one fucking iota of grief remind her of the months of dick-beating you've had to endure in Afghan.

Obviously she'll be pissed, and want to leave, but where will she go? I bet the Queen's thongs she won't have the intestinal fortitude to take a tuk-tuk back to the hotel alone. Now she's stuck, with the new found realization that her pussy is useless in the land of 1 real smile.

This will force her hand, and the only thing between you and the whores is her ass. She'll give it up gladly. With fervor. Or be bi-curious and you'll have a mega night. Either way you win.

Worse case she goes back to the hotel. Fine. Give it a few hours and enjoy the debauchery. Buy a hooker and bring back to the room, and fuck her in the same bed as your girl. Just take a sharpie and black out the international call instructions on the room phone, so she can't fall back on calling home.

This is what I'd do, if I flew a girl to Thailand. That or get her hooked on opium and pimp her ass for two weeks to comp your trip.

Just another spin on things guys, don't be a hatin'.

I'm Military, over here in Kabul..near the Embassy. Nice post, I'll think about that..getting the ticket isn't much of a financial mistake but it's still a big risk when I can lay my pipe for free in BKK, and she's 19 in college.

I should probably leave this decision up to my brain and not my dick haha

I never went to Thailand before but I refused and lied on a offer from my lizard to go to DR (she even offered to pay for the ticket).
If I had gone there with her, I would have been in deep regret. There was a lot of fanny available that I was very attracted to.
From what I've heard Thailand only gets betterr..

Post: #30

Quote:you want to fuck ? go to local clubs.

Hmmm, that's not a guarantee. He could quite easily do this and not get laid as decent local girls for the most part aren't hooking up with random white guys in clubs for fear of being labelled a whore. It's possible but it's a much better bet to pipeline and sort out a social circle via CS, FB and dating sites before you go or alternatively shore pro's.

Post: #31

What do you guys mean by "pipelining"?

Post: #32

Using the net in advance to line up dates and meet ups, sites like couchsurf, facebook or any popular dating site basically.

Post: #33

Craig from TravelVice documented something similar to your proposal - meeting a young American girl he hadn't banged in Thailand:

http://travelogue.travelvice.com/thailan...ackpacker/
http://travelogue.travelvice.com/thailan...edictable/
http://travelogue.travelvice.com/thailan...g-the-air/
http://travelogue.travelvice.com/thailan...-bungalow/
http://travelogue.travelvice.com/thailand/postmortem/

In summary, it does not go well.

As basically everyone has pointed out, this is the behavior you should expect. Despite what you may have convinced yourself will happen, you're not going to have a nice, romantic getaway vacation with that girl slobbing your knob the second she walks off the plane. You're going to have a frustrating, sexless time with an immature, inexperienced girl.

Post: #34

(11-25-2011 04:48 PM)Soma Wrote:  Craig from TravelVice documented something similar to your proposal - meeting a young American girl he hadn't banged in Thailand:

http://travelogue.travelvice.com/thailan...ackpacker/
http://travelogue.travelvice.com/thailan...edictable/
http://travelogue.travelvice.com/thailan...g-the-air/
http://travelogue.travelvice.com/thailan...-bungalow/
http://travelogue.travelvice.com/thailand/postmortem/

In summary, it does not go well.

I read that. Depressing.

Not only is he a good looking guy with an interesting background but that girl is south of hideous. It's the kind of reptile that waking up next to will produce irrecoverable regret and angst.

It's educational reading however that the OP should take to heart.

Post: #35

(11-25-2011 02:47 PM)Smoker Wrote:  What do you guys mean by "pipelining"?

Smoker, take a look at this thread to get an idea about how to pipeline: /thread-8245.html

Post: #36

Patrick my good man, I don't know your rank but assuming your an E-4 or E-5 with 4 years or less served (my guess bc she is 19), coughing up $1500 just to fly her over isn't exactly pocket change for you.

If she didn't dish out the pussy before you were deployed to a war zone I wouldn't be willing to bet that she would now. Obviously you know the details better than we do, but you are investing heavily in her.

She'll be in the States when you return, Bangkok will not be in the States when you return.

Stay safe and thanks for your service.

Post: #37

We should give the OP some credit. 99% of soldiers go home on their R&R. He is taking the initiative and going forth to explore the world in that small window he has well earned.

Patrick, I'm buried down in the Helmand Province working with the Devil Dogs. Stay safe up there my friend.

Post: #38

Thanks Ali, Helmand Province is rough..stay safe out there. How long will you be out there?


I'm an E-4, so I'd actually rather save that $1500. You guys are absolutely right, I'm glad I seeked some advice. I figured going on leave and bringing her along would be a good way to bang since we're staying in the same hotel room, but thinking about it..she's too young and definitely inexperienced. Plus she's an American..and we all know our feelings on American girls.

Post: #39

(11-24-2011 02:03 AM)Patrick Bateman Wrote:  So I have a dilemma..

I'm going to Bangkok in December and I was thinking of bringing a girl from the US with me who wants to come along..here are the Pros..
Guaranteed Vagina without getting a Pro or fear of STD's (I think she's a virgin). Companionship for the week she's there. She's dependent on me because I'm the one with more money, which equals power.

But there are some definite cons.. Possibly paying for her Airline ticket and her slowing me down..might get tired of her, etc. I'm staying for 2 weeks while she's only staying for a week and flying home for school while I fly back to Afghanistan a week later.

So I need advice..should I bring her along and be somewhat beta for buying her ticket or reject her and remain alpha

What? I'll show you the logics of your question, my friend. What would you say if I told you the following: "I have been invited to a cocktail in a McMansion in Marin County, in which all the guests would be welcomed with the most selects wines, appetizers and food around a magnificient pool, but I don't know if I should bring the luch my mother just fixed to me this morning". What would you think of me?

Post: #40

(11-24-2011 02:03 AM)Patrick Bateman Wrote:  So I have a dilemma..

I'm going to Bangkok in December and I was thinking of bringing a girl from the US with me who wants to come along..here are the Pros..
Guaranteed Vagina without getting a Pro or fear of STD's (I think she's a virgin). Companionship for the week she's there. She's dependent on me because I'm the one with more money, which equals power.

But there are some definite cons.. Possibly paying for her Airline ticket and her slowing me down..might get tired of her, etc. I'm staying for 2 weeks while she's only staying for a week and flying home for school while I fly back to Afghanistan a week later.

So I need advice..should I bring her along and be somewhat beta for buying her ticket or reject her and remain alpha

Just off principle, I'm against bringing sand to the beach, and Bangkok is definitely one place where bringing a chick is counterproductive.

Post: #41

Dont do it...some of the more tortured individuals I have seen on my travels to Bangkok are husbands/boyfriends with there western wife/gf.....you can see the pain in there eyes as they walk the streets of BKK. You really dont want to be one of those guys....trust me

Post: #42

(11-29-2011 07:05 PM)Tully Mars Wrote:  Dont do it...some of the more tortured individuals I have seen on my travels to Bangkok are husbands/boyfriends with there western wife/gf.....you can see the pain in there eyes as they walk the streets of BKK. You really dont want to be one of those guys....trust me

This is a good point. The best I saw was a skinny dude getting literally dragged down the street by his shirt from his big fat Brit/U.S. g/f. She was hideous and he was humiliated. Tourists, hookers, and everyone else was laughing their asses off and taking pics. Only in Thailand.

Post: #43

My first tip would be to get out of military and stop enforcing feminist regimen to patriarchal countries. You create your own women problems.

My second tip would be to do not bring this women to vacation.

People always imagine that a travel together is a good way to make relationships better or move to next stage, but in reality travel is often quite stressful and can easily break relationships if they weren't not solid and sexual before that.

Post: #44

(11-24-2011 03:06 AM)Patrick Bateman Wrote:  

(11-24-2011 02:54 AM)Smoker Wrote:  OMG, no. Do not bring her with you. The pros you listed are in your head only.

a) if she's a virgin, why do you think the vag is guaranteed?
b) you really don't need any companionship in Bangkok. The city is interesting enough to do things alone without getting lonely. If you want company, go to where all the travelers hang out and you'll make new friends in about 5 minutes.
c) her dependent on you? That dependence is only as strong as you're willing to be a complete dickhead. I mean, unless she thinks that not spreading for you means she'll be out on her ass in a SEA city, the dependence won't mean much. The very fact that you would pay for her to go all the way to Thailand without having banged her will let her know that she is the one with all the power.

The cons far outweigh the pros here.

I agree with you..problem is Idk how to politely reject her or have to lie and say I'm not going. I think she's been waiting for the right opportunity to get banged, which I believe I was providing.

Why do you have to be polite at all?

Post: #45

Dude,
Just do what chicks do all the time and that is go awol and remain silent, don't answer any of her emails/calls/texts and go to Thailand ALONE. After you've returned and had a blast there, tell her you were sent in some important mission in the middle of nowhere with no internet connection for a month or something. And voila! Whatever you do, do NOT take her or any chick with you to Thailand. You'd be kicking yourself and shooting yourself in the foot big time.

Post: #46

Well I just told her that I wanted to go alone..basically gave her the "it's not you, it's me" routine. Everyone I know told me to go alone or regret it, I would've been silent and ignore her but I think it's easier just telling her the truth..

Post: #47

(11-30-2011 11:45 PM)Patrick Bateman Wrote:  Well I just told her that I wanted to go alone..basically gave her the "it's not you, it's me" routine. Everyone I know told me to go alone or regret it, I would've been silent and ignore her but I think it's easier just telling her the truth..

This is a great end result and I doubt you'll regret it. But, as a learning experience, you should realize there is no need for you to give her the "it's not you, it's me" routine or justify your actions in such a way here. You should try to understand why this is true.

Post: #48

To my absolute shock, the girl I actually considered bringing to Bangkok messaged this today on FB after I told her she wasn't coming:

" -ps. Not going to fuck with you (literally), u might wanna take that into account , on the other hand Thai whores might not wanna go site-seeing with you ...lol jk "

She says she wouldn't fuck me and goes on to be a smart ass. Am I shocked? Yes, didn't honestly see that coming. I thought this chick was down to fuck but turns out to be a manipulative, dishonest bitch. This goes to show you were all right and reinforces my respect I have for all of you..I was so close to buying her airline ticket, thank god I asked for advice first.

Post: #49

Patrick,
I'd cut all contacts with her but I wouldn't delete her from my FB so she can see all the great chicks I meet around the world (who are probably 10X hotter than her) and the awesome time I'm having doing that so she feels green of envy. Revenge is a bitch as they say.
You'll completely forget her as soon as you step off the plane in BKK believe you me bro. Party on brother!

Post: #50

(12-05-2011 05:34 AM)Patrick Bateman Wrote:  To my absolute shock, the girl I actually considered bringing to Bangkok messaged this today on FB after I told her she wasn't coming:

" -ps. Not going to fuck with you (literally), u might wanna take that into account , on the other hand Thai whores might not wanna go site-seeing with you ...lol jk "

She says she wouldn't fuck me and goes on to be a smart ass. Am I shocked? Yes, didn't honestly see that coming. I thought this chick was down to fuck but turns out to be a manipulative, dishonest bitch. This goes to show you were all right and reinforces my respect I have for all of you..I was so close to buying her airline ticket, thank god I asked for advice first.

Chalk it up to experience my friend. Women are vindictive at their core. The moment they are disappointed in some way, or don't get what they want, they lash out. She tried to disguise it in humor, but she really is angry that you aren't going to pay for her to accompany you sightseeing (she actual thinks that has value to you). Make sure you take some pictures with some actual Thai whores and email them to her