Post: #1

Usually when I'm with a girl I really like I show too much affection and making her more important in my mind than other girls which hurts me in the long run. I've been trying to prevent it from happening but I can't seem to get over it. Do you guys also have the same and do you know how to get over this problem?

Post: #2

Just talk to another chick, a cool one. I find that girls are chillest during the day so do some day approaches. Cool new chick won't let u in on the bad shit about her so when u compare her and another lizard, you'll wonder wtf u were thinking was so great about about the other lizard. Then you'll find cool chicks flaws n u won't care about her either. Then uve reached nirvana.

Post: #3

There is nothing wrong with liking women, I that is the reason why all of us are here after all. However as you said it is hardly in your best interests to let her know just how much.

It sounds like you are a projecting a little to much on to these girls, try and keep things in perspective. You may like this girl more than other girls, but think about the countless other girls you will meet in the future. Chances are there will be many more girls that you are going to like just as much as this current one, therefore any particular girl you might like is not special nor is that situation a one off.

The fact that you do like a particular girl should be your motivation for running tighter game, which includes not showing more affection than she shows you.

To fix this try adhering to Roissy's golden ratio: for every three signs of affection she gives you give her two back.

Post: #4

talk to a bunch of women, then youll be numb to a bitch swagger.

Post: #5

take a look to Roosh's "why you aren't getting laid" list.

it seems your case fits into the "you are still to needy" answer. It applied to me once as well. You need to work on that.

The more you show affection, the less you will receive. My feeling is that you need to work on that, you need to become more independent.

Post: #6

Surprisingly I came across this when I searched for more info regarding my situation...

http://www.rooshv.com/its-okay-to-be-a-beta-male

Looks like the man himself also has this problem.

Post: #7

I did, then enough girls treated me like shit and I learned that they're all the same, regardless of how good they seem.

I also think the higher your own self value is, the less likely you are to have this problem. The better of a man I've become the less and less this happens because I know they aren't worthy of my commitment for whatever reasons, and there's always reasons.

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Post: #8

I show affection all the time, but nothing too serious. It doesn't bother me very much that it hurts my chances of continuing to see them, because I know there is always another girl around the corner. I like to act as I please, the only thing I need to work is not devulging as many details about myself.