Post: #1

I was thinking to myself today, and I reckon that being a tender and attentive lover in bed is a beta behaviour. If you fuck like a selfish animal (which we all are when you take away law and society anyway), you are showing you dont give a shit. Is this a DHV? When compared to putting her pleasure first, which in my opinion is pedestalisation, it seems clear to me that the aggressive selfish fuck method is the way to go, and will probably net you more sex in the long run.

Any thoughts?

And yes I did a blog post on this, don't hate.

Post: #2

I think if you want to fuck the same chick for a period of time, it has to be pleasurable for her. "Lovemaking" in and of itself isn't beta behavior. I think sometimes the occasion calls for you to pound her out, others call for you to be more of a lover. It doesn't have to be either/or when it comes to pleasure though - you can fuck her like an animal, but she may truly enjoy that. Some chicks LOVE it hard like that. If it's a one night stand, you should ALWAYS pound them out. You both are in it just for the sex, no love involved, so it needs to be hard and animalistic. You may fuck her so good that she falls in love with YOU, but that's not your problem!

Post: #3

I do both. Save the tenderness for after crazy sex. You can get away with it then, but be warned they'll get attached faster.

Post: #4

/shrug. I come when I want, for the most part. I personally enjoy taking the time to get her horny as hell first; I just wouldn't enjoy it unless she was. Maybe I'm wired funny, but "putting her pleasure first" gets me more pleasure in the long run, so go figure.

Post: #5

I've always found you can never go wrong if you fuk them like you hate them. Unless you're dealing with a broad with issues.

Post: #6

(11-16-2011 12:33 AM)vinman Wrote:  I've always found you can never go wrong if you fuk them like you hate them. Unless you're dealing with a broad with issues.

Fuck all that slow motion "I love honey,you shit!" Screw them like you're paid per stroke-it GETS THEM ALL OFF,even if they walk funny for a while. Bitches get used to it.

Post: #7

(11-16-2011 03:02 AM)afronoob Wrote:  

(11-16-2011 12:33 AM)vinman Wrote:  I've always found you can never go wrong if you fuk them like you hate them. Unless you're dealing with a broad with issues.

Fuck all that slow motion "I love honey,you shit!" Screw them like you're paid per stroke-it GETS THEM ALL OFF,even if they walk funny for a while. Bitches get used to it.

That's what I'm on, I like to think of girls as prostitutes who i pay with my awesomeness instead of money.

Arrogant? Of course, but it works for me.

Post: #8

dulst, your premise is flawed. It will not "net you more sex in the long run" to always go for the "aggressive selfish fuck method," since some women consider that to be poor form, or being "bad in bed." And if you are bad in bed, you can certainly lose the girl to some other guy who is more of a sex god to her -- and by "sex god" I mean the guy who can mix it up, who eats her pussy, etc, etc. Timoteo has a good post above.

Post: #9

I don't even like kissing girls anymore unless she's fine as fuck. I just fuck the shit out of them so she won't be able to walk the next day.

Post: #10

houston, I think dulst would agree with you on that! But realize that any guy can be an average, insensitive lover who merely fucks the shit out of them, and doesn't eat their pussy or even like to kiss them! Most girls would rather get with a guy with more skillz in the sack than that!

Post: #11

(11-16-2011 10:02 PM)Chaz Wrote:  houston, I think dulst would agree with you on that! But realize that any guy can be an average, insensitive lover who merely fucks the shit out of them, and doesn't eat their pussy or even like to kiss them! Most girls would rather get with a guy with more skillz in the sack than that!

I eat pussy sometimes. But only if its too tight and needs some extra lubrication (spit)

Post: #12

Here's how a woman summed it up:
http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sea/561877622.html

Bottom line: Be a man and F her good and hard.