Post: #1

So the other day I was in a club and things were going well. I had approached a girl who was already an aquaintance, and things had progressed to the point where we were making out and grinding on the dancefloor. She was even grabbing my dick through my jeans which was nice.

Now here's the problem, I already have a fuck buddy who is friends with the girl. I invited her back to mine and she said that she really wanted to but couldn't because of fuckbuddy. I explained that we were just fucking and not serious but she wasn't having it. I went home alone.

Now, aside from telling myself "on to the next one", has anyone got any ways to combat this issue, so that I may improve.

Also any stories of similar experiences?

Post: #2

I think MOST women don't want to fuck a guy that they know is fucking someone else, let alone someone they're friendly with. Even if they know it isn't serious. Now if you told her you're going to cut fuckbuddy off, and DATE her...maybe. If she had strong enough feelings for you, she'd probably sacrifice the friendship to be with you. Women can be mercenary for something they really want. She's obviously attracted to you, but knowing you like to have fuckbuddies is giving her pause.

Post: #3

(11-15-2011 01:35 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  I think MOST women don't want to fuck a guy that they know is fucking someone else, let alone someone they're friendly with. Even if they know it isn't serious. Now if you told her you're going to cut fuckbuddy off, and DATE her...maybe. If she had strong enough feelings for you, she'd probably sacrifice the friendship to be with you. Women can be mercenary for something they really want. She's obviously attracted to you, but knowing you like to have fuckbuddies is giving her pause.

I'm not so sure man, the existing fuck buddy was until recently 1 of 2 who knew about each other. So at least where I am I don't think girls mind if you're fucking around.

Post: #4

(11-15-2011 02:15 PM)dulst Wrote:  

(11-15-2011 01:35 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  I think MOST women don't want to fuck a guy that they know is fucking someone else, let alone someone they're friendly with. Even if they know it isn't serious. Now if you told her you're going to cut fuckbuddy off, and DATE her...maybe. If she had strong enough feelings for you, she'd probably sacrifice the friendship to be with you. Women can be mercenary for something they really want. She's obviously attracted to you, but knowing you like to have fuckbuddies is giving her pause.

I'm not so sure man, the existing fuck buddy was until recently 1 of 2 who knew about each other. So at least where I am I don't think girls mind if you're fucking around.

Some chicks can also be competitive, but at some point they won't like the idea so much (like when they meet another guy they like). It's like the whole mistress thing. For a while they're cool with the arrangement, but at some point they get tired of being #2 and sharing, getting the scraps.

Post: #5

It seems like you tried to convince her logical side that fucking was okay = not gonna work.

Shoulda been like "yea, we definitely shouldn't do this" and then proceed to bite her neck and finger bang the hell out of her.

De-escalate verbally, escalate physically. Someone said that on here recently and its gold.

Post: #6

(11-15-2011 04:44 PM)Docter Wrote:  It seems like you tried to convince her logical side that fucking was okay = not gonna work.

Shoulda been like "yea, we definitely shouldn't do this" and then proceed to bite her neck and finger bang the hell out of her.

De-escalate verbally, escalate physically. Someone said that on here recently and its gold.

It seems so obvious when you put it like that, cheers :-)

Post: #7

(11-15-2011 04:44 PM)Docter Wrote:  It seems like you tried to convince her logical side that fucking was okay = not gonna work.

Shoulda been like "yea, we definitely shouldn't do this" and then proceed to bite her neck and finger bang the hell out of her.

De-escalate verbally, escalate physically. Someone said that on here recently and its gold.

Basically. I did this with sisters once and it didn't work but I came real close.

Got her home and everything. In bed and she just stopped and said if you weren't dating this girl and sleeping with my sister then yes. But I still didn't get there.

She knew more than I thought she did...

Post: #8

girls subconciously like men who fuck alot of women.

Post: #9

"Fuck them right and you will get a fanclub"