Post: #1

So I was at a club dancing around and fucking around with my friends when this girl walked by. I kind of grabbed her hand and she started dancing with me. Rare site for me at an Argentinian club. I danced for a bit and asked her where she was from and she said she was Colombian. I talked for a bit made out with her, dragged to a wall isolating ourselves and pressed her up against the wall making out with her. I told her "want to get out of here?" And she said "I have to get back to my friends."

I told her "They can wait" She laughed and we made out for a bit more but she still insisted that she needed to get back with her friends. I told her "Ok, when can I see you again?" She said "Whenever you want" I said "OK, give me your numer" She gave it up and I walked her out of the VIP section and left her to go find her "friends."

I know numbers at clubs can be pointless and you should go for the SNL but I just didn't know how to do it.

So I think I got a solid number but who knows, two days from now I might get no response. What do you guys think I should have done?

Post: #2

(11-10-2011 05:32 AM)Riker Wrote:  So I was at a club dancing around and fucking around with my friends when this girl walked by. I kind of grabbed her hand and she started dancing with me. Rare site for me at an Argentinian club. I danced for a bit and asked her where she was from and she said she was Colombian. I talked for a bit made out with her, dragged to a wall isolating ourselves and pressed her up against the wall making out with her. I told her "want to get out of here?" And she said "I have to get back to my friends."

I told her "They can wait" She laughed and we made out for a bit more but she still insisted that she needed to get back with her friends. I told her "Ok, when can I see you again?" She said "Whenever you want" I said "OK, give me your numer" She gave it up and I walked her out of the VIP section and left her to go find her "friends."

I know numbers at clubs can be pointless and you should go for the SNL but I just didn't know how to do it.

So I think I got a solid number but who knows, two days from now I might get no response. What do you guys think I should have done?

She's Colombian so she probably setting you up for a flake. I think there's not much more you could have done.
Why, wait two days from now, because thats the "pua rule" ?, just call or text her straight away. I never wait that long when im traveling.

Times awasting dude.

Post: #3

Thing is I'm living here and she's staying for a few more months. I always wait 2-4 days... I still have to follow the rules cause I get needy

Post: #4

(11-10-2011 11:01 AM)Riker Wrote:  Thing is I'm living here and she's staying for a few more months. I always wait 2-4 days... I still have to follow the rules cause I get needy

Thats good when starting out, clear signs if neediness will ruin your close.

However, as you progress don't hesitate on this kind of shit, do it when you feel confident and comfortable, it will grow into you.

Post: #5

I was planning on messaging her two days later (today friday) to get a drink on Sunday. I guess it might be better to do it faster since she might forget about me who knows. I didn't want to text her the same night and the next day seemed needy.

Post: #6

If you feel needy, it will seem needy. If you don't feel needy, you can do whatever you want.

Also, it depends on the vibe you established with the girl. This vibe also defines if I call or message.

If I like the girl and I feel we bonded, I always call.

And as call is more "challenging", I like to do it to put my ass on the line as an exercise.

I'm usually pretty good at calling, even on embarassing cenarios.