Post: #1

I met this 7 on the train, she's living with her bf and has a 9 month old baby.

I went ahead and offered "Do you want to take my number down?"

She said "No......... but you can have my facebook and email."


Probably just attention whoring don't know but what should I do? Can't take her for drinks at a bar cause can't risk someone she knows seeing her. Wouldn't want to invite her over cause don't really want her to know where I live just incase we get caught and the dude wants to kill me.

Just invite her to a love hotel? What should I even put in the facebook or email message to her?


Btw she knows its sexual cause one of the first things I said when I realized she had her bf and kid was "Dang now I can't game you... I thought you were cute" She laughed and we kept talking.

Post: #2

I'm a bit amused that you talk about "invit[ing] her to a love hotel". I don't think love hotels, in the sense you seem to be implying, exist in the United States (which is where your profile says you live): I think they're mainly a phenomenon of certain foreign countries. It's true that in the United States there are certain hotels where some of the rooms have things like heart-shaped beds and mirrors on the ceiling, but I don't think that's quite what you have in mind.

Perhaps you'll reply "I'm talking about the kind of hotel that rents by the hour". As far as I know, hotels like that are almost entirely a phenomenon of the distant past in the United States, even though they continue to loom large in the public imagination, to the point where many people seem to believe that they're still all over the place. I don't know if any places that rent exclusively by the hour exist; there are however some places--a small number, I think--that prefer to rent by the day but that will do hourly if you ask them.

Anyway, take her to a hotel if you really want to bang her. Although I have to say, why bother with a married woman at all, with all the attendant drama and danger, when in most areas there are plenty of single women around?

Post: #3

Riker: You've had some experience with women but I don't think you want to tackle a married live-in mother... way too much drama and logistical issues. My advice, screw her. There are much better prospects than dealing with that headache.

Besides, girls don't give their facebook or email out (instead of a phone number) to guys they want to fuck.

Post: #4

(11-09-2011 08:43 AM)Gmac Wrote:  Riker: You've had some experience with women but I don't think you want to tackle a married live-in mother... way too much drama and logistical issues. My advice, screw her. There are much better prospects than dealing with that headache.

Besides, girls don't give their facebook or email out (instead of a phone number) to guys they want to fuck.

Totally agree. You're living in BA, brotha...hot girls are everywhere. Can't beat that!

Post: #5

I guess you guys are right. Its just the girl talked pretty bad about her boyfriend and I've heard being with a "married" girl was super hot cause she has all this pentup passion that she doesn't get to express.

Yea I'm no Mixx ha, but I'd still like to give it a shot if I can do it clean with no headache.

Post: #6

Personally, I love banging married women. Read this and you'll know why.

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However, I would never ever get involved with a 20-30 something married mom with an infant, especially if the she and her hubby are struggling emotionally and financially. She may look to you as a savior, someone who in the hamster imagination can "take me away from all this."

If she's well-off, or husband is off to a great career, then maybe. But I would be hesitant.

The 40 year old whose been married and has a nice life but wants the thrill of great sex? I'm on it...but then again, I am nearly 60.

Post: #7

(11-09-2011 10:10 AM)tenderman100 Wrote:  Personally, I love banging married women. Read this and you'll know why.

/thread-5815-p...l#pid78683

However, I would never ever get involved with a 20-30 something married mom with an infant, especially if the she and her hubby are struggling emotionally and financially. She may look to you as a savior, someone who in the hamster imagination can "take me away from all this."

If she's well-off, or husband is off to a great career, then maybe. But I would be hesitant.

The 40 year old whose been married and has a nice life but wants the thrill of great sex? I'm on it...but then again, I am nearly 60.

Thanks tenderman, just what I needed.

Definately not going to do anything, she seems lower middle class, she's 19 and the dude is 30, and seems like it could definitely be a headache. I'll stick to older babes that are better off financially.

Post: #8

(11-09-2011 10:04 AM)Riker Wrote:  Yea I'm no Mixx ha, but I'd still like to give it a shot if I can do it clean with no headache.

Like GMAC already pointed out, women do not Facebook guys they want to fuck, especially if she is married. She takes a huge risk of getting caught by her husband, who no doubt is on her Facebook page too!

So, you'll be the guy to give her all the attention her husband neglects to give her.

Move on....but, it was great batting practice on your part!

** Facebook is a great tool to add women YOU ALREADY FUCKED ONLY!

Mixx

Post: #9

(11-09-2011 11:48 AM)MiXX Wrote:  

(11-09-2011 10:04 AM)Riker Wrote:  Yea I'm no Mixx ha, but I'd still like to give it a shot if I can do it clean with no headache.

Like GMAC already pointed out, women do not Facebook guys they want to fuck, especially if she is married. She takes a huge risk of getting caught by her husband, who no doubt is on her Facebook page too!

So, you'll be the guy to give her all the attention her husband neglects to give her.

Move on....but, it was great batting practice on your part!

** Facebook is a great tool to add women YOU ALREADY FUCKED ONLY!

Mixx

I don't think its even good to add the ones you fucked, could still get messy. I wasn't planning to add her anyways, just message her.

Post: #10

(11-09-2011 12:27 PM)Riker Wrote:  

(11-09-2011 11:48 AM)MiXX Wrote:  

(11-09-2011 10:04 AM)Riker Wrote:  Yea I'm no Mixx ha, but I'd still like to give it a shot if I can do it clean with no headache.

Like GMAC already pointed out, women do not Facebook guys they want to fuck, especially if she is married. She takes a huge risk of getting caught by her husband, who no doubt is on her Facebook page too!

So, you'll be the guy to give her all the attention her husband neglects to give her.

Move on....but, it was great batting practice on your part!

** Facebook is a great tool to add women YOU ALREADY FUCKED ONLY!

Mixx

I don't think its even good to add the ones you fucked, could still get messy. I wasn't planning to add her anyways, just message her.

Messaging younger girls without adding them can really set their hamster spinning. I had one freaking out over why I wasn't accepting her friend request even while we were messaging back and forth.

I think the default setting is that she gets to see more of your profile when you have messaged her. Lock this down in privacy settings so she doesn't see anything other than your name and pic.

Post: #11

The plus side of FB is when her relationship sours, she'll start bitching about men or change her relationship status. Then you know it's time to strike.

Post: #12

It's interesting, considering her situation (live-in bf, baby) that she didn't shut you down, and gave you a couple of means of communication. In this case, it's better not to have phone numbers, so there's no direct evidence (most people that cheat get busted by what's on their phones). I wouldn't communicate on FB (too public), but see what's up with her via email and see what's on her mind.

Post: #13

Riker i like the fact of you having the courage to approach, thats great. However i still think you have a lot of nice guy game. You need to kill this part, you being over nice.

Dont give a fuck if she has a boyfriend, thats not a barrier for you to fuck her. Game her as if you were gaming other women. Dont kill the opportunity to fuck her with lines such as i thought you were cute, now i cant game you. She didnt say that, you are saying this. I fucked so many women who were engaged.

Post: #14

(11-09-2011 03:18 PM)pitt Wrote:  Riker i like the fact of you having the courage to approach, thats great. However i still think you have a lot of nice guy game. You need to kill this part, you being over nice.

Dont give a fuck if she has a boyfriend, thats not a barrier for you to fuck her. Game her as if you were gaming other women. Dont kill the opportunity to fuck her with lines such as i thought you were cute, now i cant game you. She didnt say that, you are saying this. I fucked so many women who were engaged.

The thing is it didn't even take much courage. She sat down next to me while talking on the phone. When she got off I made a comment on her conversation and got a little conversation going which consisted of me mostly rambling until she finally asked a personal question. Soon after I ran Galnuc and boom I feel like the girls can't help themselves into feeling attracted. Its like their rationalization hamster tells them "you just spoke for a long time with a total stranger, asked him questions, and got to know him. You don't know why, but you like him."

You're are right thow, I am pretty beta/nice guy. Its like I act alpha just to attract girls sometimes haha, I guess I'm faking it till I make it. On the other hand the comment I made about not being able to game her made her laugh and I think put her guard down, but yes I agree it hurts more than it helps.

Post: #15

For the people that say that married women aren't worth it you've never done it right or had the right girl. A lot of them are freaky and just want to get down. That is all. I've got a readhead that calls me once a month just for fun. We get a nice hotel while she is at her "moms house" or whatever she tells her husband at the time and we spend all night doing everything. Most things she won't even do with her husband of years and 2 kids.

I say go for it and make sure it's really casual. You don't want her or her husband coming after you but it could be very worth it.

Post: #16

(11-09-2011 12:32 PM)Caligula Wrote:  Messaging younger girls without adding them can really set their hamster spinning. I had one freaking out over why I wasn't accepting her friend request even while we were messaging back and forth.

I think the default setting is that she gets to see more of your profile when you have messaged her. Lock this down in privacy settings so she doesn't see anything other than your name and pic.

how do you initiate the conversation through messaging?