Post: #1

While living abroad (Western Europe) I met a girl from Colombia who is the first girl I've ever been interested in, because I am also a girl. Before anyone on here tells me to leave, just hear me out, I'm not a feminist and I'm not American. I've read more on Game than any man I know and I'm genuinely interested in your opinions, because as we all know, they are more helpful to me than women or the opinions of men around me.
Ok, so the Colombian girl is beautiful, she is lesbian, and she is the first girl I've been attracted to in that way, I've always dated guys before. She showed interest in me, and I think because she did, I started thinking about her as more than a friend. What I did wrong is I think what most guys do, I did nothing. She is now with another (older) woman we both know. The Colombian girl is about an 8-9 and the woman she is with is about a 6 and does not have a feminine personality (which the Colombian said she is not attracted to, she likes very girly girls, like she is herself). After they first hooked up, she came to me and told me she is now with the other girl. I tried not to appear sad, but eventually told her - had always been into her and wished I had acted sooner. When I said this she was very upset, saying she always wanted to be with me, saying that on one night when we were together she wished she had kissed me.
She spent the next month or so with this other girl, the 6, and I planned to backpack during the summer. The night before I was leaving, she told me she wanted me to come home with her. I told her I would, and just as luck would have it, the girl she had been sleeping with showed up and they went home together.
So now I am no longer in Europe (I'm a student) and I think about her all the time. I will see her in a month when I go to visit and I want this to be different. Everything about her is confusing to me. Guys were always so much easier. I am more attractive than the girl she is with, and almost ten years younger. I'm nice, where as the woman she is with now its very cold. Guys I know and random guys I meet say I am a ten, and though I'm sure my real rating is lower, I did expect my looks to work. Now that they haven't, I don't really know what to do. If she is a lesbian, do I use guy game or do I continue to act like a girl as I do around guys? I hope my question makes sense. I just don't know what to do.
If anyone is curious I'm 22, blonde, 100 pounds and yes, this is a serious question.

Post: #2

If this is a serious question, why do you stink like a troll? I smelled you before I even entered the rooshv.com URL on my web browser!



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Post: #3

Sorry for intruding. I'll take my question elsewhere...

Post: #4

that guy is an asshole, i hardly go on this forum but every time i do i see this guy calling some one else a troll.

imo you should keep acting like yourself with her, and the next time you two are alone (even if shes still with her gf) grab her by the neck and start making out, and try to be as sexy/agresive as you can.

Post: #5

(12-05-2011 07:59 PM)ibaguesucks305 Wrote:  that guy is an asshole, i hardly go on this forum but every time i do i see this guy calling some one else a troll.

imo you should keep acting like yourself with her, and the next time you two are alone (even if shes still with her gf) grab her by the neck and start making out, and try to be as sexy/agresive as you can.

lol this guy is one of the top players.. and that's because there are a lot of trolls.

Post: #6

Wow, thank you for responding. I guess as a girl I've assumed going after someone in a relationship is wrong... but if she doesn't have a problem with it I shouldn't either. That was also my biggest mistake initially as well. I'm back in Europe now and she has sounded very excited to see me.

I do understand about the trolls. I'm sure there are a lot of feminist/angry women posting some very misleading posts. Please trust that I am not one of them.