Post: #1

Met some chick on OkCupid. Doesn't seem like a whore, have a friend in common with her even. Fucked her the 2nd date. For some reason, although I always use condoms, I didn't after I fucked her once and hardly use a condom w her now. She's not on the pill. I offered to buy plan B, she was hesitant but swore that the last thing she wants are babies, and if she got pregnant there's no way in hell she'd go through with it.
A) obviously worrying won't help..but should I be worried/how stupid is it really to fuck condomless regarding not getting her preggos
B) I probably should get tested, just because. Do I go immediately, or wait 6 weeks/21 days. And again, how stupid am I regarding this...

Usually not much a worrier, but it IS babies and AIDS and all kinds of awesomeness so ye...

Post: #2

Well first off, did you bust a nut in her? I'm assuming you did, which was a bad move, but if you didn't than I don't really think you have anything to worry about. Some guys say there is still a good chance you can get a girl pregnant from "pre-cum", but I think that's mostly a load of shit.

As far as STD's go, the rate of HIV transmission is extremely low, so I wouldn't stress much about that, transmission rates are higher with anal sex and when a woman is on her period (bleeding). Anyways, it usually takes 6 months for that to show up on tests results anyways.

You can get tested for gonhorea, clymidia, etc., those are all easily treatable so no worries there. Herpes is the main one everyone needs to look out for, despite all the misinformation that has showed up on threads in this forum, herpes rates are high. The thing is though people with herpes only actively shed the virus 10% of the time (roughly 3 days a month), so unless you are fucking raw dog everyday, chances are still low you'll catch it.

Post: #3

pulled out, but still...

6 months? haven't seen that anywhere. either way, meantime, im onwards and upwards, time to find some new bitches, keep my streak hot!

Post: #4

Your risk of getting HIV is low, and if by some chance in hell you did get, I don't think the antibodies will show on a test for a while but I may be wrong. If you think she's dirty, go get tested for the most common stds. Truthfully I don't think you have anything to worry about about the diseases or the pregnancy especially since you pulled out.

I'd be more worried if it was a repeated thing like rawdogging questionable girls repeatedly over a long period of time. It's pretty much playing with fire(most of us have done it though) but in your case since it was a one time thing I don't think it's a big deal.

Post: #5

Yea, contracting HIV is extremely rare.

First off, a vast majority of HIV cases are gay males. But let's just say you searched long and hard, high and low, for a female who actually had HIV.

In one instance of sexual intercourse with somebody with HIV, your chance of transmission is 0.05%. So even in the extremely rare chance that you raw dogged somebody with HIV, you will get away scot-free 1999 out of every 2000 times.

I remember being shocked myself at how rare the transmission was, so I thought I'd share

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/HIV

I agree that herpes seems to be the one everyone is scared of, mostly because its incurable. Pretty much everyone has HPV, including probably 90% of this forum, you have to just hope not to get any symptoms (warts).

Post: #6

dont worry about it. use it as a learning experience - raw dogging is fun but its not worth the days/weeks or worrying about the repercussions. getting tested for an STD is pretty pointless, unless you have some symptoms show up you are probably fine.

Post: #7

There CAN be sperm in pre-cum. That isn't a myth. What are the odds? I don't know, but it IS possible. I don't ever think it's worth the risk to bang raw when you know a chick isn't using birth control. They'll say they don't want kids, but sometimes when they find out they're pregnant, they change their tune. You're saying she'd rather get pregnant and get an abortion, instead of simply taking a Plan B pill? That doesn't make sense to me. Since you seem worried about catching something, along with pregnancy concerns, you should use condoms with this chick.

Post: #8

Just keep fucking until it is time for testing, and personally I think getting a girl pregnant is the worst.... fuck that would just suck

Post: #9

i never trust a female who says she doesn't want to keep the baby if she gets pregnant. Unless she's been pregnant before, she has absolutely no fucking clue what she will think once she finds out she is pregnant. Get her on the pill or strap up...others on here will disagree with me, but it isn't worth the consequences of having a baby with someone you barely know.

Some STDs like chlamydia pop very quickly. If you are sweating it this much, then it sounds like too much of a risk for you. Strap up and your worries go away.

Post: #10

(11-08-2011 09:03 PM)Smitty Wrote:  i never trust a female who says she doesn't want to keep the baby if she gets pregnant. Unless she's been pregnant before, she has absolutely no fucking clue what she will think once she finds out she is pregnant. Get her on the pill or strap up...others on here will disagree with me, but it isn't worth the consequences of having a baby with someone you barely know.

Some STDs like chlamydia pop very quickly. If you are sweating it this much, then it sounds like too much of a risk for you. Strap up and your worries go away.

^^^^^^^this. its very easy for a chick to say "i dont want a kid" but its a much different picture when she actually has one in her belly.

Post: #11

Which are STD test like? Which is the one where they catherise the dick? What about Heptatis C and syphilis?

Post: #12

(11-08-2011 09:03 PM)Smitty Wrote:  i never trust a female who says she doesn't want to keep the baby if she gets pregnant. Unless she's been pregnant before, she has absolutely no fucking clue what she will think once she finds out she is pregnant. Get her on the pill or strap up...others on here will disagree with me, but it isn't worth the consequences of having a baby with someone you barely know.

Some STDs like chlamydia pop very quickly. If you are sweating it this much, then it sounds like too much of a risk for you. Strap up and your worries go away.

Thanks for the reminder. I've been getting complacent. This is the right answer.

Post: #13

(11-08-2011 11:32 PM)kbell Wrote:  Which are STD test like? Which is the one where they catherise the dick? What about Heptatis C and syphilis?

Now there is a fast test, they take a drop of blood and put it on this chemical detector, kind of like a pregnancy test.

The test is the same for both, syphilis is treatable however.

I was shitting my pants a year after a bad incident, I felt fine and went in because I just couldn't let it go, they told me if I was healthy then chances are I needn't worry.

The paranoia sucks big time - but if I was you, I'd be more worried about the baby virus.