Post: #1

Here's the deal. I swooped this girl before summer started saw her a few times thru summer. We used to be friends not anymore (not even facebook friends) because shes INSANE. I swooped her again at the start of the school year and now she won't leave me alone. I get multiple texts a day and if I don't respond she'll throw a text asking why I won't respond and will eventually send me a bunch of texts calling me an asshole and that she has other options. I won't text her back unless I want sex. I'll go over fuck her and then leave extremely shortly after.

Now its just gone too far she'll show up at my place or wait outside my classes for me and is generally all around mentally unstable etc. This is a huge turnoff plus she's been gaining weight like crazy (started at 6.5 and is steadily decreasing) Anyways how do you guys deal with batshit insane clingy girls like this without moving to a different city or getting a restraining order. I have directly said I don't want to see her ever again and will refuse sex if she asks saying her clinginess is repulsive. For some reason her lizard brain interprets this as asshole game and makes her want me even more.

Should I just do a mega switch up and become the biggest beta herb if she ever shows up at my place again to hopefully turn her off?

Post: #2

She's just looking for a reaction out of you to see if you care. She can't reconcile in her mind that she's just a cum-dumpster to you. To her good sex = love or whatever.

The crazies are always the best in bed. I say keep doing what you're doing. Shit even more so ...bang her in the ass or tell her you want a threesome with her best friend.

Who cares if she gets pissed off.

Post: #3

I actually called her one night when this girl I was with wanted a threesome, she thought i was messing with her and got mad haha.


My problem isn't pissing me off its that her level of clinginess is boner-preventing and she won't take no for an answer.

Post: #4

Me and my boy had this very talk last night while we were chilling at this nightspot and observing one of these nuts first-hand. This chick was chasing around one of the co-owners, and though her feelings for him are obvious, he's hesitant because she's BAT SHIT CRAZY. The nutiness can be mildly entertaining for a brief while (and they are great in bed, yes), but at a certain point the unpredictability and stalker-like clinginess can become disturbing. As you get older, your patience for dealing with this shit lessens, and you start saying "no thanks" at the first sign of crazy.

Post: #5

I agree, I'm learning to spot the signs of batshit insane before I get in too deep (hehe). This girl who at my birthday wouldnt stop following me around even though I was with another girl was at a halloween party I was attending. She followed me around the whole night there and would like glare at/interrupt any time I'd talk to another girl. Hey at least I had someone to bang at the end of the night.

To make a more constructive post my ever increasing checklist of warning signs of crazy/clingy bitches before or immediately after meeting them:
- once you get their number they won't stop texting/calling and if you dont reply right away they get mad. ie. "the where are you " text after going to the "bathroom"
- CRAZY EYES. either towards you or another, you just stare into their soul and see something unnatural and demonic about them. run at first sight
- they'll interrupt/cockblock if you talk to other girls. if they're really bad they'll do this after you meet them for the first time at the same estabilshment.
- they'll glare at anyone who takes you away from them
- they'll stare at you longingly from anywhere they can see you (possibly hunting you from across the bar waiting for the right moment to pounce.
- gets unnaturally emotional/excited about trivial things. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mTTwcCVajAc
- cackling laugh followed by a longing look after you say anything remotely funny
- brings up some personal detail from facebook or otherwise because she creeped you before she ever met you (had a girl in a subway lineup say you're from _______ right?!)
- once she gets blackout and she will she will go off the deep end to her friends or you or a lamp post.
- makes really off jokes/statements that are supposed to be funny but really just arent.
- busting out a bag of E-tabs and taking a handfull at 4:30 in the afternoon (later coupled with running through the hallways of my apartment asking if people want to have a 3some all the while she is dating someone else
- they'll kind of look around the club/bar like they're hunting then stop and just stare at something
- lies/has really weird/offputting stories
- weird/unnatural ticks/movements


watch out my friends because these girls are the human equivalent of herpes, they just keep coming back and no one wants to see that.

Post: #6

Great writeup WesternCancer, you should start a thread dedicated to tell-tale signs of crazy. Not sure if it's been covered before.

Best advice is to follow your intuition - if you sense something is off you're probably right even if you can't quite put your finger on it.