Post: #1

So this girl flakes on me this past week with no make up plans of her own. I think no big deal and stop pursuing her in any way, ceasing texting with her. Pretty standard stuff.
Out of nowhere she ends up texting me early Sunday morning about how she can’t sleep and we have a short meaningless conversation because her text woke me up and I couldn’t think for shit. Texts below
My question is what is the best way to reel a girl back in after she flakes and you ignore her until she tries to get your attention again and how you can tell when their attention even warrants another attempt at courting or if they’ve decided to just try to keep you around for a friend.
Normally I could make that distinction easily enough myself but this girl is overly enthusiastic in her texts with smilies and shit but I know that she’s like that with pretty much everyone. She’s always extremely touchy with IOIs galore and if she didn’t have a boyfriend I would’ve approached her in a direct manner long ago.

(first text since she flaked)
Her: -, I can’t sleep.
Me: Why? I’m in bed and damn comfortable
Her: I’m in bed too but I’m surfing the internet and… can’t sleep.
Me: To tell the truth I was asleep but you woke me. Now it’s your job to entertain me
Her: omg sorry, -
Me: I said it was fine if you entertained me but now I’m just going back to sleep
Her: Haha then I’ll just say goodnight and sweet dreams

What the hell was she trying to accomplish here?

Post: #2

Probably just an attention seeker or was in a hornier mood at the time. I still wouldn't contact her again unless she sends another text in the future, then I would ask straight up if she wants to hang

Post: #3

Texting you does not mean she's showing interest. Asking you personal questions or making plans with you is. A lot of girls will text random guys for the attention because they're bored or lonely, so you are often in a sense being used to satiate her state of mind.

Post: #4

She's likely feeling out other possible options in case her relationship ends sometime soon. Girls line prospects up for the period immediately after their breakups. They are like monkeys swinging from branch to branch, never letting go of the one in hand till the next one is in sight.

Post: #5

Her: I can't sleep.

You: Come over

Any questions?

Post: #6

El Mechanico's reply is the correct answer.

She was bored and wanted to see if you still liked her. Your texts showed that you indeed were still interested and when she confirmed that she was validated and pulled away again.

Post: #7

I had the exact same experience on Sat night just before I was going out to a club. Lizards are seasonal (in my city). I usually do well in the winter because many lizards have nothing better do in the cold dark winter months than hang out and fcuk.

One lizard that I deleted her information (with notice) after she flaked on me (I discussed this in my lizard hygiene thread), just texted me out of the blue the other night.
I responded with a..who is this as I had no idea who it was (her contact information was deleted by yours truly). Cut a long story short, she re-engaged in convo and tried to place the emotional guilt trip on me for not bearing with her while she went through whatever she had to, to be a flaky mofo.

She tried to post emotional tags on me claiming that I deleted her in an emotional tirade etc.
I did not engage her in an emotional tennis match. As el mechanico put it, I asked her DIRECTLY when is she coming over to my place.

She did not give me a clear response. I didn't give her any tidbits about how my life is or anything I had been up to. If she wants stories, she will need to trade her puzzy for info and excitement.

Drawing from personal experience and corroboration from reading Roosh and Mixx posts in particular for this event, helped me in the theory base for cutting down on this reptilian B.S.

I am very theory driven and once there is a formula for the foolishness that goes on, I find it easier to execute.

Bottom line is, if she opens up with a text like that, ask her when is she coming over to yours. Do not arrange to meet up for drinks or any venue where the flake will cost you.

If she flakes in coming over to your place, you don't give a shyt because you are already home and in your comfort zone.

I've done this in the past on flake lizards and I have gotten success in drawing them right into my place for intimacy. The ones that flaked, fcuk em, I was at home anyway.