Post: #1

If you were a fly on the wall , in a room full of whores, which one do you think they would choose more than the other?

Post: #2

I think most women want a good fit.

Years ago I was banging this babe -- before I was married the first time -- and she had a beautiful body but a tiny pussy and would get scared when I entered her...had to do it slow, slide it in easy, and I am only a bit above average in length (7 in) and thickness.

A married woman I am fucking now...I fit her perfectly. I can pound hard the first time I enter.

So it all depends. But I think women hate small. If you're 5 inches or under, you are going to have a hard time maintaining an ongoing sexual relationship.

Post: #3

I'm pretty insecure about my penis size. It has been causing some anxiety for me, anyone here experiencing the same? Anyways, I think women want a good mix of both.

Post: #4

Girls are not like guys.

They are about the mental attraction above ALL.

Unless you are UNDER 5 inches you have nothing to worry about.

Even then most girls prefer to be eaten out. So you can compensate with your mouth and hands.

Post: #5

I'm lucky to have slightly above average length and above average girth (might be why my experience is different from yours Dash -- women beg me to put it inside and I rarely ever find myself eating women out). If I had to choose one or the other, I'd go with length... no matter how fat your penis is... if you can't get up inside her what's the point?

Post: #6

Yeah, but if you have a pencil dick shes not going to enjoy it at all and if you're with anything short of a virgin asian girl you might get hotdog in a hallway syndrome.
I'd say from a woman's standpoint they'd prefer girth over length, but if you're below average length with a huge girth you aren't going anywhere. Proportions are key!

Post: #7

Here's a site that breaks this down.....Give it a look
http://www.mraverage.com/

Post: #8

(10-11-2011 11:13 AM)Dash Global Wrote:  Girls are not like guys.

They are about the mental attraction above ALL.

Unless you are UNDER 5 inches you have nothing to worry about.

Even then most girls prefer to be eaten out. So you can compensate with your mouth and hands.

So do you think it's the "motion of the ocean", and not the size of the ship? In my experience, I have never heard a girl get excited about a small dick person who can compensate with his hands or his mouth. Maybe if she had curved cervix or something but normal pussy holes seem to prefer a good stretch.

Post: #9

(10-11-2011 11:13 AM)Dash Global Wrote:  Girls are not like guys.

They are about the mental attraction above ALL.

Unless you are UNDER 5 inches you have nothing to worry about.

Even then most girls prefer to be eaten out. So you can compensate with your mouth and hands.

Completely agree here, and with the idea its all about "fit"

A girl I was banging in the past told me that she's slept with guys who are bigger then I was, but none of them could make her cum from sex as easily as I could, she told me that my size was just right.

I used to get real hang ups about dick size because I fall into the majority category of guys where I know my dick isn't laughably small, but I wouldn't say its big.

Best analogy I can think of for dick size related to sex:

Think about it like the caliber of a gun.

The larger the caliber, the less aim and skill is required. Hit a guy in the shoulder with a .45 and he's going down, no doubt about that. Now a smaller caliber might require more aim, but that doesn't mean you cant kill a man with a .22, it just requires more skill to do so.

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Post: #10

(10-11-2011 12:59 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  Here's a site that breaks this down.....Give it a look
http://www.mraverage.com/

I wonder if those excercises work. I don't get rock hard if I'm not in the right mood or horny enough. I have to be in the zone

Post: #11

(10-11-2011 12:59 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  Here's a site that breaks this down.....Give it a look
http://www.mraverage.com/

I wonder if that study takes in consideration the differences between ethnic groups.

I think it's universally known that Asian (usually) tend to have the smallest dicks, while blacks (of African descent), usually have the largest.

Would a study of all Asians or all blacks produce the same results?

According to that study I'm in the top 2% as far as size goes

However it's not like girls can tell you have a big cock, although I've heard girls say that they assume tall guys have larger dicks, (I'm avg. height). And if you tell a girl you have a big dick, she'll most likely think you're lying, trying too hard, or that you're a total "creeper."

Post: #12

(10-11-2011 03:17 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  And if you tell a girl you have a big dick, she'll most likely think you're lying, trying too hard, or that you're a total "creeper."

I've never found either of these to be the case, so long as the sexual tension is already there and you play it right.

Post: #13

Girls have told me they notice skinny guys are usually packing more. I want to know how some of those porno guys get in the biz with baby dicks.

Post: #14

(10-11-2011 03:06 PM)Chad Daring Wrote:  

(10-11-2011 11:13 AM)Dash Global Wrote:  Girls are not like guys.

They are about the mental attraction above ALL.

Unless you are UNDER 5 inches you have nothing to worry about.

Even then most girls prefer to be eaten out. So you can compensate with your mouth and hands.

Completely agree here, and with the idea its all about "fit"

A girl I was banging in the past told me that she's slept with guys who are bigger then I was, but none of them could make her cum from sex as easily as I could, she told me that my size was just right.

I used to get real hang ups about dick size because I fall into the majority category of guys where I know my dick isn't laughably small, but I wouldn't say its big.

Best analogy I can think of for dick size related to sex:

Think about it like the caliber of a gun.

The larger the caliber, the less aim and skill is required. Hit a guy in the shoulder with a .45 and he's going down, no doubt about that. Now a smaller caliber might require more aim, but that doesn't mean you cant kill a man with a .22, it just requires more skill to do so.

Perhaps the guy with the bigger dick didn't have any experience using the big dick to properly service the whore. There's a big difference in having a big dick, and knowing how and when to use such force. jUst like with anal sex, if she has had a bad experience, she wouldn't care how small your dick was, she can't shake the memory of thinking she would shit thru her eyeballs. If a veteran of plowing ass gets a hold of her, she would never have this same opinion. THe only women I know who would opt for a man who was talented with his hands or mouth, but had a very small dick, are those who have had a bad experience with a bigger dick, or those who were self-absorbed whores who have convinced men that eating puss is just as good as intercourse for a man. YMMV, since all pussies are not anatomically created equal. Perhaps there is no one answer.

Post: #15

(10-11-2011 03:06 PM)Chad Daring Wrote:  A girl I was banging in the past told me that she's slept with guys who are bigger then I was, but none of them could make her cum from sex as easily as I could, she told me that my size was just right.

While this may be true, this sounds like a typical "help-you-feel-good" line. Was it spontaneous, or it was triggered by the dick size discussion?

Obviously there may be some clinical cases, like a guy with a huge dick who comes in five seconds, but besides that, all other things equal, chicks seem to agree that bigger is better.

Quote:The larger the caliber, the less aim and skill is required.

This is a wrong analogy. If you got a big one and you just slam it into a chick all the way in, you may actually do some internal damage. One thing those of us who're above average learn fast that you have to progress slowly. Indeed a healthy vagina would eventually stretch and you'll get all the way in, but it doesn't happen immediately. So greater self-control is necessary, as if we get excited too fast and start slamming all the way in, she may stop it right away.

There is also another disadvantage, some girls you may not be able to fuck. I've met two of those, can't get in at all. Like trying to fuck the Coke bottle. And both had BFs who fucked them.

Post: #16

(10-11-2011 03:05 PM)Pusscrook Wrote:  

(10-11-2011 11:13 AM)Dash Global Wrote:  Girls are not like guys.

They are about the mental attraction above ALL.

Unless you are UNDER 5 inches you have nothing to worry about.

Even then most girls prefer to be eaten out. So you can compensate with your mouth and hands.

So do you think it's the "motion of the ocean", and not the size of the ship? In my experience, I have never heard a girl get excited about a small dick person who can compensate with his hands or his mouth. Maybe if she had curved cervix or something but normal pussy holes seem to prefer a good stretch.

I think it is NEITHER.

Like I mentioned, for most women sexual attraction and pleasure is MENTAL. Whereas with men it is physical.

Ovcourse a girl will not get excited over a small dick, at the same token alot of girls will not get excited over a big dick. (maybe whores)

Girls get excited over the mental connection and attraction to the guy. The romantic foreplay. The little things guys do to make women fall in love.

Dick size is simply not that "important" to women.

With that said, you might run into some problems to work around if you are extremely small.

For the average size guy, I wouldnt worry about not being "big".

Post: #17

I wear Trustex Extra Large condoms.

Post: #18

(10-11-2011 03:22 PM)houston Wrote:  I want to know how some of those porno guys get in the biz with baby dicks.

It's called working for a lot less pay.

Post: #19

(10-11-2011 03:06 PM)Chad Daring Wrote:  

(10-11-2011 11:13 AM)Dash Global Wrote:  Girls are not like guys.

They are about the mental attraction above ALL.

Unless you are UNDER 5 inches you have nothing to worry about.

Even then most girls prefer to be eaten out. So you can compensate with your mouth and hands.

Completely agree here, and with the idea its all about "fit"

A girl I was banging in the past told me that she's slept with guys who are bigger then I was, but none of them could make her cum from sex as easily as I could, she told me that my size was just right.

I used to get real hang ups about dick size because I fall into the majority category of guys where I know my dick isn't laughably small, but I wouldn't say its big.

Best analogy I can think of for dick size related to sex:

Think about it like the caliber of a gun.

The larger the caliber, the less aim and skill is required. Hit a guy in the shoulder with a .45 and he's going down, no doubt about that. Now a smaller caliber might require more aim, but that doesn't mean you cant kill a man with a .22, it just requires more skill to do so.

Perhaps you must be deflowering these bitches, but , if I take you to Brazil with such thoughts, we would have to strap a 2x4 to your back , or these bitches will have your visa revoked at once.

Post: #20

(10-11-2011 07:33 PM)Dash Global Wrote:  

(10-11-2011 03:05 PM)Pusscrook Wrote:  

(10-11-2011 11:13 AM)Dash Global Wrote:  Girls are not like guys.

They are about the mental attraction above ALL.

Unless you are UNDER 5 inches you have nothing to worry about.

Even then most girls prefer to be eaten out. So you can compensate with your mouth and hands.

So do you think it's the "motion of the ocean", and not the size of the ship? In my experience, I have never heard a girl get excited about a small dick person who can compensate with his hands or his mouth. Maybe if she had curved cervix or something but normal pussy holes seem to prefer a good stretch.

I think it is NEITHER.

Like I mentioned, for most women sexual attraction and pleasure is MENTAL. Whereas with men it is physical.

Ovcourse a girl will not get excited over a small dick, at the same token alot of girls will not get excited over a big dick. (maybe whores)

Girls get excited over the mental connection and attraction to the guy. The romantic foreplay. The little things guys do to make women fall in love.

Dick size is simply not that "important" to women.

With that said, you might run into some problems to work around if you are extremely small.

For the average size guy, I wouldnt worry about not being "big".

Mental? Nah, not even close. Orgasms ARE largely mental for women (but they aren't as important to women as they are for men), but there's a difference between sexual attraction and sexual enjoyment. Dick size is important because of the reasons discussed in this thread:

/thread-5725.h...ht=sex+god

Namely:

G-spot stimulation via penetration isn't possible for all men because it takes a) skill/finesse and b) length.

Quote:There is a lot of truth to the saying, “It’s not about the size, but what you do with it.” That said, don’t let women fool you. Size still matters, quite a bit. You’ll never reach a woman’s g-spot (which is a protruding area a few inches inside, up along the front wall) through physical penetration with a short penis. But don’t despair, you can still make up for it with two other talents (a la tongue or fingers).

If you know what you're doing (how to stimulate her g-spot during penetration), girth isn't as much of an issue. Length still is, but I'm talking around the 6" mark... not like crazy 9 inches or anything.

Post: #21

Gmac do you realize MOST women do not / have not experience(d) "orgasms"?

I just watched a documentary on this the other day. I was shocked with the numbers.

They are working on some pills to enhance the woman's experience.

Also I think people are missing the point here or that I was trying to make.

Sure women prefer a man with decent size.

The thing is they will sleep with you regardless.

I have a friend with a small penis and he has NEVER had a girl get up and leave the bedroom after his pants came off. Even with me I certainly dont have a big dick. Im as average as they come. And it has never hindered me in the slightest.

So for simply getting laid I think dick size is not important.

Now for repeat service you might not be at the top of the list... lol

Post: #22

(10-11-2011 09:52 PM)Dash Global Wrote:  Gmac do you realize MOST women do not / have not experience(d) "orgasms"?

I just watched a documentary on this the other day. I was shocked with the numbers.

They are working on some pills to enhance the woman's experience.

Also I think people are missing the point here or that I was trying to make.

Sure women prefer a man with decent size.

The thing is they will sleep with you regardless.

I have a friend with a small penis and he has NEVER had a girl get up and leave the bedroom after his pants came off. Even with me I certainly dont have a big dick. Im as average as they come. And it has never hindered me in the slightest.

So for simply getting laid I think dick size is not important.

Now for repeat service you might not be at the top of the list... lol

We've also been over this. Most women haven't had an orgasm via g-spot penetration because most men don't know HOW to give them to women (or they aren't equipped, as I mentioned in my last post). Many of the women I've been with didn't know they could achieve orgasm before me either, but I guarantee you once they have you'll have that pussy on lockdown. There's a myth that's been going around for ages that "most women simply can't", that's horse shit... and I'm speaking from experience. When it comes to squirting though, comfort is key.

Where's tenderman's old man advice when you need it?

I never said women would run out of the room at the sight of a small penis. What I am saying is that with the right parameters, there are... perks. Back to Pusscrook's original question... with a choice, I'm sure the majority of the women out there would prefer at least average size... choosing length over girth up to a certain point.

Post: #23

(10-11-2011 09:57 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

(10-11-2011 09:52 PM)Dash Global Wrote:  Gmac do you realize MOST women do not / have not experience(d) "orgasms"?

I just watched a documentary on this the other day. I was shocked with the numbers.

They are working on some pills to enhance the woman's experience.

Also I think people are missing the point here or that I was trying to make.

Sure women prefer a man with decent size.

The thing is they will sleep with you regardless.

I have a friend with a small penis and he has NEVER had a girl get up and leave the bedroom after his pants came off. Even with me I certainly dont have a big dick. Im as average as they come. And it has never hindered me in the slightest.

So for simply getting laid I think dick size is not important.

Now for repeat service you might not be at the top of the list... lol

We've also been over this. Most women haven't had an orgasm via g-spot penetration because most men don't know HOW to give them to women (or they aren't equipped, as I mentioned in my last post). Many of the women I've been with didn't know they could achieve orgasm before me either, but I guarantee you once they have you'll have that pussy on lockdown. There's a myth that's been going around for ages that "most women simply can't", that's horse shit... and I'm speaking from experience.

Where's tenderman's old man advice when you need it?

You might be correct.

But the facts remain the same. Most women simply have not ever experienced a REAL orgasm.

Perks? You mean repeat service?

To me it all comes down do did I hit it or not. lol

Post: #24

(10-11-2011 10:04 PM)Dash Global Wrote:  Perks? You mean repeat service?

To me it all comes down do did I hit it or not. lol

I continued with my edit.

Sure, in part. The perks of being longer and having more girth is that it can be pretty easy to hit her g-spot once you know what you're doing. I guess it all depends on your agenda. If you never want to see any woman ever again once you've hit it than sure, satisfactory performance does the job.

What are the benefits of getting a woman off (g-spot orgasms are generally far better for a woman than a clit orgasm)? I think you already know some of the answers.

Post: #25

(10-11-2011 10:12 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

(10-11-2011 10:04 PM)Dash Global Wrote:  Perks? You mean repeat service?

To me it all comes down do did I hit it or not. lol

I continued with my edit.

Sure, in part. The perks of being longer and having more girth is that it can be pretty easy to hit her g-spot once you know what you're doing. I guess it all depends on your agenda. If you never want to see any woman ever again once you've hit it than sure, satisfactory performance does the job.

What are the benefits of getting a woman off (g-spot orgasms are generally far better for a woman than a clit orgasm)? I think you already know some of the answers.

Now we are getting at the real issue.

Size is important if you as a guy CARE about pleasuring the women. (even still you can pleasure a women completely fine with your mouth and hands)

For a guy that dont give a shit about the women's pleasure and only cares about busting his nut and using her body than size does not matter.

PS. Isnt the gspot towards the upper front? There was a thread about fingering and hitting the gspot if im not mistaken. From your posts it appears we think the gspot is in different locations.