Post: #1

I have tried it a few times and I got good results. Girls said ''I liked that you were so calm tonight and I want to see you again'' or words to that effect. I just felt I had to share this tip with all you guys that helped me so much to improve my game.
For many years sex had been a part of my job, but since I retired I have been struggling to date decent women. Thank me later.

Post: #2

Nah. Busting a nut sedates me in a way. To each his own but I like having a full tank going in to a date, I want them to smell it on me.

Out of curiosity how was sex part of your job?

Post: #3

That's a bold strategy Cotton. Has it paid off? Any bangs?

Post: #4

(02-03-2019 01:12 PM)sarcofago Wrote:  Girls said ''I liked that you were so calm tonight and I want to see you again''

Said no girl never.

Post: #5

The specificity of the twice is the killer.

I choked my chicken thrice and girls were nice!!!!

The more you wank, the more they thank!!!!

Self flagellation nation, penetration sensation!!!!

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Post: #7

(02-03-2019 02:11 PM)Dr Mantis Toboggan Wrote:  

Post: #8

Abstination from sex has shown to increase hormone levels. There was a study which I'll post below.

Escalating is a very important part of the date, and I usually find it best to be horny as hell in this situation. I also find that when I go out at night, I'm more confident and aggressive when I don't spank the bank.

The downside risk is that if you are going to have sex with this girl, you might bust a nut quicker more often. This might be irritating to an overly sexualized Western woman. Definitely had this situation. You might want to jerk it just once before having sex the first time, so you make sure you last a little longer.

To make up for this, you could also abstain from alcohol, so your boner is a rock solid pussy shredding machine. However, I've found that abstention from alcohol makes my brain more rational and I'm not as able or willing to give an average woman the proper banging/punishment she deserves.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11760788

Post: #9

Depends on your target date:

1 slutty woman that wants to get laid that night - BAD because you don't have the killer urge to escalate and nail her... she will lose interest.

2 A "nice" 3 date Kate woman - GOOD as you won't be desperate, do uncalibrated esculations and remain calm and manly instead of grabbing her tits all the time

Post: #10

I dont understand. If the goal isn't to have the girl make me jizz why would I go on a date with her?


I guess Ill file this one next to "non-alcoholic beer"

Post: #11

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Post: #12

(02-03-2019 04:38 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  Depends on your target date:

1 slutty woman that wants to get laid that night - BAD because you don't have the killer urge to escalate and nail her... she will lose interest.

2 A "nice" 3 date Kate woman - GOOD as you won't be desperate, do uncalibrated esculations and remain calm and manly instead of grabbing her tits all the time

Rat I guess everybody here is looking for hook ups, except us looking for number 2.

Post: #13

(02-04-2019 09:18 AM)sarcofago Wrote:  

(02-03-2019 04:38 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  Depends on your target date:

1 slutty woman that wants to get laid that night - BAD because you don't have the killer urge to escalate and nail her... she will lose interest.

2 A "nice" 3 date Kate woman - GOOD as you won't be desperate, do uncalibrated esculations and remain calm and manly instead of grabbing her tits all the time

Rat I guess everybody here is looking for hook ups, except us looking for number 2.

Absolutely don't wank before a date.
You're supposed to be manly, aggressive, touch her, kiss her and escalate; not be a polite mommy's boy.

The ''nice'' girls also want to get fucked on first dates, if you're cool enough; precisely, if you make their pussies wet.

Trust me, it's much better to become the guy who fucks ''good girls'' on the first date rather than play the gentleman and be, essentially, a beta provider while she is thinking about/is actually fucking some Chad Thundercock.

I became that guy in the last couple of months thanks, primarily, to this Forum. When you stop paying attention to societal norms - to decencies, not kissing them too passionately, not escalating on the first date, not trying to fuck her on the first date etc. - you'll notice you will start fucking more. And you'll fuck those ''good girls'', too. On first dates. I did it twice in the last 2 months and I still can't believe it.

Post: #14

The worst that can happen from not jerking is you finish too quickly when you do bang. You can offset this risk by asking for a bj to start. If she makes you cum quickly then just tell her how great she is at giving head and tell her you bet she can get you hard again super fast. She will feel proud she made you cum so fast

Post: #15

Wanking lowers my will to seduce : after all, I already got what I need, why would I make any effort to get more?
I would never do it before a date (especially a first one), plane and simple.

Post: #16

I’ve masturbated the day before a date so that I don’t bust to quickly.

I agree now with the “full tank” approach. Better to satisfy all of one’s needs with a real person.

Post: #17

I'm between two minds on this. The "Something about Mary" mindset doesn't seem too successful. Yes it gets it out of your system but also it can come back quick and in my experience having that desire might make you a bit more aggressive which is especially useful for those with social anxiety.

On the other hand I'm realizing my dopamine levels are reduced with instant gratification: alcohol, tobacco, porn, masturbation and preferring to abstain completely.

Whatever works best for you should be the ideal, but you can get in a terrible swing where action leads to expectation which could lead to increased anxiety. I'd drink for example before dates and eventually I couldn't go on a date without a drink. Terrible situation for me.

Find your base where you feel the most relaxed, centered and in control and whatever gets you there and keeps you there stick to.

Post: #18

If you get really nervous before a first date, try propranolol. In some countries it's available over the counter, in others you can usually get a prescription by telling the doctor some bullshit story about how getting nervous before business meetings is affecting your professional life. It's a weak beta blocker that's often used by academics before presentations. As long as you don't make it a habit (something like once per week won't get anyone addicted) and try to grow out if, it will probably do more good than draining one's pipes before a date.

Post: #19

Quote:beforeDictionary result for before
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preposition, conjunction, & adverb
1.
during the period of time preceding (a particular event or time).
"she had to rest before dinner"
synonyms: prior to, previous to, earlier than, preparatory to, in preparation for, preliminary to, in anticipation of, in expectation of; More
2.
in front of.
"Matilda stood before her, panting"
synonyms: ahead, in front, in advance, in the lead
"a small party went on before"

The hardest part is holding them still during the low-energy down-time in the middle.

Post: #20

(02-03-2019 01:36 PM)Hypno Wrote:  That's a bold strategy Cotton. Has it paid off? Any bangs?

Yes, a game changer, really.

Post: #21

If i masturbate on the same day as a date I will lose so much interest that I won't even bother to show up.

Post: #22

Not once but twice???

Post: #23

(02-14-2019 02:18 PM)Mentavious Wrote:  Not once but twice???

A Buddhist monk in Tibet gave me that tip. Twice is more efficient.

Post: #24

What are the side effects of masturbating? I have been doing this over long time. Please let me know about the side effects.

Post: #25

(02-15-2019 09:03 AM)Wodded Ran Wrote:  What are the side effects of masturbating? I have been doing this over long time. Please let me know about the side effects.

The main side effect is turning into a serial dick holding faggot with depleted testosterone.