Post: #26

(01-13-2019 05:00 AM)FireStarter Wrote:  

(01-10-2019 02:16 AM)Polniy_Sostav Wrote:  In my opinion the fact that she is religious and doesn't drink make her a potential wife material . I am the ayatollah of wedding on this forum so I strongly suggest you to behave correctly with this young lady.

(01-10-2019 02:16 AM)Polniy_Sostav Wrote:  If she is wife material you might think it s a long term investment .

This is a very dangerous way of thinking about someone you haven't met. Even after meeting a chick, it's not a good idea to put her on a pedestal just because she has one or two traits that you consider desirable. She may have traits that allow you to quickly rule her out as far as a long term relationship goes, it takes a lot longer to find out if she is worthy.

Sounds like OP already has the right mindset. So this post isn't for him. But this is the line of thinking that makes inexperienced guys get hung up on that one woman who doesn't want him. It is counterproductive to put her in the "marriage potential" box before you get to know her. Or even meet her.

Are you married ? If yes , would you allow your wife to drink a beer in a bar ? Does your wife go to church regularly and believe in heaven or hell ? This would help me understanding you.

Post: #27

(01-25-2019 08:28 AM)Polniy_Sostav Wrote:  

(01-13-2019 05:00 AM)FireStarter Wrote:  

(01-10-2019 02:16 AM)Polniy_Sostav Wrote:  In my opinion the fact that she is religious and doesn't drink make her a potential wife material . I am the ayatollah of wedding on this forum so I strongly suggest you to behave correctly with this young lady.

(01-10-2019 02:16 AM)Polniy_Sostav Wrote:  If she is wife material you might think it s a long term investment .

This is a very dangerous way of thinking about someone you haven't met. Even after meeting a chick, it's not a good idea to put her on a pedestal just because she has one or two traits that you consider desirable. She may have traits that allow you to quickly rule her out as far as a long term relationship goes, it takes a lot longer to find out if she is worthy.

Sounds like OP already has the right mindset. So this post isn't for him. But this is the line of thinking that makes inexperienced guys get hung up on that one woman who doesn't want him. It is counterproductive to put her in the "marriage potential" box before you get to know her. Or even meet her.

Are you married ? If yes , would you allow your wife to drink a beer in a bar ? Does your wife go to church regularly and believe in heaven or hell ? This would help me understanding you.

You're not understanding what he's saying.

You're foolish to think a girl he's NEVER met is wife material because she doesn't drink and goes to church.

That doesn't mean shit nowadays.

A girl could never have a drink and still be a slut.

A girl could never lose her virginity but still take it up the ass and suck a mile of dick.

Even girls who believe in heaven and hell were sluts in there prime, then settled down with a nice little guy who has no idea about her past - and the slut is forgiven because jesus and all. Born again Christians women are known for that.


Stop thinking a girl who doesn't drink and goes to church is suddenly wifey material.

That's a fools errand, especially a girl he just matched with on a dating app in 2019.

You're putting pussy on a pedestal.