Post: #26

Well in terms of warmth and wetness, you put in warm water for 10 minutes, and add water based lubricant into the fleshlight. Each fleshlight model has it's own tightness.

I recommend you don't get the shower mount add-on. It's not dependable, I would stick it in-between my mattress and just practice like that. I would visit chaturbate or play some soft-core porno.

You can use it many times over, just warm it up with a heater and put in 10 - 12 minutes in warm water and it's good to go again.

I definitely helped me relax a lot more. I don't know about how many more minutes, but it has help me last longer in the bedroom. I believe I raise my testosterone when I use this device. When I masturbate with my hand I lower my testosterone, and send off a creepy vibe to women.

Premature ejaculation can have many route causes, but tools like this can definitely help.

Post: #27

>>it's impossible to simulate how a pussy feels like, the warmth, the tightness, the juices etc with plastic.

You're wrong. The fleshlight is amazingly similar to a real vagina, and this comes from an older man with plenty of experience with different women. And no, you cannot build one yourself unless you have all sorts of equipment, plus it would take years of experimenting to duplicate the fleshlight company's research. Also, the inside surface is a special type of silicone, not just any plastic.

You're correct about the lack of kissing, sounds, etc.

The fleshlight is purely an artificial vagina. Next generation will have virtual reality goggles and headset to stimulate visual and auditory systems, maybe a sex doll body to touch, possibly some artificial lips, maybe an odor delivery system too.

[Update:] I had one of the early models from like 15 years ago. I'm sure they've gotten even better since then, however I don't masturbate any more so it doesn't matter to me. Also, it's fleshlight.com for artificial vaginas and fleshjack.com for artificial anuses (for homosexuals, they also have anus simulators at fleshlight.com, I had no interest in the anal simulator and never tried).

Post: #28

You need to get in touch with dick. You should be FAPing all the time. You should be Edging as the other OP suggested. You should try to be able to masturbate without cumming for 10 minutes, 15 minutes, 30 minutes, 1 hour or more. Once you can do this you won't have be prematurely ejaculating when you're with a girl.

You also need to get a girlfriend who does just like you for your stud service. Once you know this, this problem will disappear. It's psychological.

If neither of the above work, go see a Urologist.

Post: #29

You want a cheap (better than fleshlight) fake pussy? Nitril Glove, Water based Lube(essential), and a small towel,tie a couple of the fingers (so it doesn't prolaps),- better than a fleshlight, I could never get the hang of a fleshlight and I bought 2 or 3 of them.

Was working on being able to fuck it as normal and had some success with foam stuff so it doesn t move around, but its on/off.

It also may take a few tries to get it right, because its ''not'' a real pussy, but close, not warm though and it doesn't squeel etc...

Post: #30

Even though I gave what might seem a positive review of the fleshlight above, I actually didn't use the device more than maybe 5 times. It does indeed feel exactly like a vagina, but it's a lot of trouble to prepare and clean afterwards plus it really needs a frame so you can practice missionary or dog style positions. I didn't try the shower attachment myself. Maybe it wasn't available back then. With a proper frame (ideally, a sex doll frame) the fleshlight might be useful training tool for young guys with little experience with real vaginas.

Other than for training purposes when young, I think masturbation is a bad idea, even without porn. Masturbation together with video porn is an even worse idea. Learn to enjoy the feeling of NOT satisfying every bodily urge, whether the urge to eat, to drink alcohol, to stop exercising, or to have an orgasm. The only bodily urge you should indulge freely is the urge to sleep, since too many people nowadays are sleep deprived.

Post: #31

For me, I had troubles getting erections with my first 20 lays. I have/had really bad anxiety, so I would drink like a fish to approach.

The nights I would get a girl in the sack though I would have ED problems due to a combo of too much porn / the drinking. Some stuck around for more hookups some ghosted (honestly seemed like the same ratio as I have now).

Eventually I landed as a 20th lay this Croatian girl. She was a butter face with a banging body. For some reason her butter face made me become less outcome independent and I just fucked her like a cave man. She was the first girl I fucked 10+ times and that gave me sexual confidence / practice. Sometimes you just need to find a girl that would make you comfortable. Before I would only go for girls I considered VERY attractive but then that would give me anxiety to perform well. With the girls that I could take or leave I was able to fuck better cause I didn't care.

Basically I'm saying just keep swinging and the problem will probably auto correct. You don't need to do anything drastic at just 4 lays. Right now I'm at 550 kills and I think I'm pretty good at sex now I can last pretty much as long as I want etc. and still a lot of girls ghost me.

Not sure if other guys have the same experience? I don't think girls rate the sex as much as we do.

Post: #32

I wrote a datasheet on some products that are used (and one is known amongst Jamaicans) for staying off the spunk monkey. One is called the stone and you can use the Chinese brush as well. It numbs sensations around your willie and enables one to last longer. You also should practise kegels daily so you can keep the cum floods at bay. Usually, your first nut is the hardest to stay off.

Good news: If your refraction game is strong, you can sate the lizard until you can hit her again with your best hand (and with most people, they take longer to cum the second time around). We've all been there regarding the early bust (well, at least I have). Chalk it up to the game and get back in the saddle. There isn't enough data (and this is not a bad thing) to say that 'girls keep ghosting'.

Keep banging away and keep us posted, bro!

Post: #33

That Jamaican stone works. My old barber's used to sell it and it definitely helps to last longer. Only problem is you can't get blowjobs because it leaves a strong taste apparently.