Post: #1

Ok I was the idiot who had oneitis and was obsessing over a girl who completely and utterly ghosted me. I'm doing great now have a house and now a have a great gf who makes 100k a year and it everything I want in a woman great family good head on her shoulders etc. Still am super curious as to what happened to my ghoster as my attraction to her was sky high for some reason. I WOULD NEVER JN A MILLION YEARS GET WITH HER now that I am in a clear headspace I realize my gut feeling all along was dont get involved in her. Long story short me and old girl had a thing. Slept in her bed she held my hand we went out every weekend drinking etc etc. Biggest red flag was she never would let me have sex. I only sucked on her t!ts and once put my finger down there to get pulling it back. She only wanted to make out. Chick seemed normal just liked to party. Was very to herself and sweet acting. Never heard of anyone getting with her ever and I live in a small town and did not at all come off as a slut. Thing is I got fvckin ghosted like immediately cut out of her life in a very fast and odd way. and in the last 6 months havent seen her heard from her she is nowhere to be found. Noone tags her in her old friends photos who are still always tagged together etc etc. I 100% know I tried and moved to fast but most woman lilove the attention and would string it along and still try and be a friends after the fact this has happened. WHAT COULD BE HER DEAL? I know her family who she rarely ever talked about was totally messed up drugs alcohol etc. A friends of mine think she was abused before on drugs had maybe an std or is a true sociopath who can just cut people out. Like I'm telling you guys shes Gone. Doesnt frequent the bars she used to frequent never ever see her around etc. I know j shouldn't care but I'm still like Wtf happened to this chick. Anyone have any idea whatsoever? It's just such odd behavior to me

Post: #2

Bro, you're way too obsessed with this girl, and you never even had sex... wouldn't stress it anymore if i were you. Girls come and go for no reasons.

You say you have a house now and a gf who makes 100k a year and you're still talking about this one girl even after several months have gone by? You have a serious case of oneitis.

Post: #3

Honestly if I saw her right now I would say whatsup and keep it movin. I KNOW we will never be a thing but it's just the one that got away. I'm still super curious man like who wouldnt be the way it played out is a mystery to everyone. My girl now is amazing but even she agrees she is curious as to what happened to the ghoster chick. SHE UP AND VANISHED FELLAS. She is nowhere to be seen or found on any level all of her friends I still see out and about tagged on fbook etc but her nooope.

Post: #4

Wait a second...Is this the same girl from this thread?

(08-01-2018 05:47 PM)kross1989 Wrote:  We are not fucking just yet and not I would not say we are "official" But people see us out together. We hang out alot and go get drinks. I go over there sometimes and chill. But I can't help but think she is having a side thing with homeboy. He isnt terribly ugly but he is shirt and chubby, and you can tell he never gets pvssy. I should of never asked but I asked in a joking manner and played it off.

And this thread?

(07-17-2018 03:35 PM)kross1989 Wrote:  this chick is super hot and seems normal. Thing is her family is fuckkkkkked up. moms an alcoholic siblings are all on drugs. parents are seperated. My town doesn't have the best pick of woman lol. But how should I go about dealing with her. we havent kissed yet and she goes ghost for a week at time. But comes back. Is it worth it? I think she might just be a tease.

AND this?

(07-08-2018 07:50 AM)kross1989 Wrote:  ok me and this girl megan were talking for like 3 months going out alot going good etc. about 3 weeks ago she slows down texting. texts me 4 days later saying she is having family issues is super stressed out etc I'm like ok all good how about me and you go out Friday to take your mind off it. she completely ghosts me and doesnt respond at all. I text her saying no would be easier then standing me up. I've called her once texted her like 3 times since making sure she is doing good etc even hit her friend up saying hope megan is doing good tell her to text me etc to which she didnt respond. this was 2 months ago. she wont even open up my snapchat wont even look at my snapchats completely shut me the fuckkk out. what the hell is this all about? obviously were done but its confusing as shit. on top of that we booked a vacation to which we obviously didnt go because it was a 2 month ago. and I've been ghosted but good lord I am confused. she comes from a broken home. parents seperated mom a drunk brothers and other siblings on drugs etc. idk if maybe that somewhat explains her actions? I know we wont ever be together but the fact I got ghosted so hard is just shocking to me. thing is she lives 5 mins away and we frequent the same bars.

And finally...this

(07-10-2018 03:16 PM)kross1989 Wrote:  I posted this in game but was told I should of posted in here. ok me and megan met at a bar through a mutual friend she was a little flirty nothing crazy. Didnt think anything of it. fast forward we meet again and we get a little flirtier. after that I took her on a bus to an event to which she was immediately holding my hand when she got drunk and all crowded up on me. Not sexually but almost like a little girl and her dad type thing in a way. As weird as that sounds. we slept at my buddies house because she wanted to leave so bad but she was wasted so I didn't let her drive. The entire time she wanted her "Fuzzy blanket at her place. I tried to kiss her but a peck is all I got then she she quickly made out with me and said I shouldn't of done that I shouldn't of done that. Next day I take her home and she kisses me goodbye. week later I'm like me and you are going out. she didn't respond for 2 days then said sorry I'm having family issues what day is good for you. I said Friday. we went out had a good time and she finally made out with me and I fingered her a little but she pulled my hand away immediately. After that we hung out for 2 months almost every weekend and week. I would sleep over she would sleep over etc. I mentioned myrtle beach and she said I wanna go I wanna go let's go. Me being an idiot was like ok late go so I booked the trip. we hung out for another month everything was fine until one day supposedly got a new roommate and told me get used to them taking me out alot. I laughed and said what do I have to book you to take you out. Week later her texts got shortttt. she responded a few days after one text and said sorry had a family emergency and have been stressed out. in her lame ass defense her brother did get busted with heroin. I said to make you feel better I'll take you out Friday to take your mind off it. she said sure I'll let you know. I then said you ready for myrtle beach?! it was scheduled for that sat 2 months ago. Friday rolls around and I get nothing. i had already went out with my boys and got drunk and like an idiot texted her hey saying no would be easier then standing me up dude. this was about 2 months ago and I have gotten absolutly 0 response from this girl. like she wont even view my stories on snapchat wont respond to anyone who even knows me. comptely and utterly ghosted the shit out of me. I actually saw her at a bar and she was so discombobulated from seeing me she was stuttering talking to her friend. I danced with her friend a few songs in front of her to which she kept getting closer and closer to us. I eventually walked up at the end of the night and said look it's all good let's out this behind us. to which she looked at me and said I'm so trashe right now. I just walked away. havent spoken to her or reached out since. I really liked this chick and her ghosting me messed with my headspace so much. in person she was the sweetest most innocent acting girl ever.

You have issues man. ALL your posts on this forum has been about this one girl. Move the fuck on, stop spamming the forum with this bullshit.

Post: #5

Just curious man

Post: #6

(11-07-2018 11:01 AM)kross1989 Wrote:  "it's just the one that got away"

You could benefit from doing 100 approaches. It'll help you realize this is a numbers game. Girls will always get away.

Post: #7

I have a gf now shes awesome. Makes great money is a good person takes care of her family etc. Still I'm curious as to what happened to who I will call ghoster haha

Post: #8

You're deficient. Stop making posts about some HPD hoe. This belongs on page 100 of the newbie section.

Fix your prose and writing style. I can't form coherent thoughts about your situation because the way you state things and quote people truncates all the subtlety and embeds ambiguity.

That girl you're lusting after doesn't like you sexually because you have terrible game (two months and no bang, the fuck man are you in HS) or she's deeply damaged and sexually unavailable (unlikely, she's banging on the low).

Post: #9

I know its weird I'm fully aware. My game needs work but I'm probably maybe a bit above average in getting woman. It's just still on my mind. As far as her banging on the low, absolutly possible. With that being said i doubt that was happening. Dude who tried to get her before me said same thing. She absolutly wouldnt not let homeboy smash...