Post: #1

last night ,me and my friend met some girls and went to park with them, he went with his and i was alone with mine . she recently broke up with her boyfriend , and we started talking , getting to know each other. after 10-15 min we burned all our talking material and that omg wtf silence begun . i said something like you are real cute , huged her and kissed her but she turned her head , i dont think she is shy , just indecisive.. after that she turned to me and we made eye conntact for 30 sec ,u could fry eggs on that tension, i was like omg thats it , but when i tried to kiss her she turned again ( aaaaa ) . then her friend came back and we went home .
my question is , is this girl just indecisive , shy or there just isnt anything happening. should i continue to try ?

P.S : motherf...er of her boyfriend called her when we were in middle of game , like he knew ...ffs ;P , maybe that trigered some responce , dunno , what you think.

Post: #2

hahaha you think her boyfriend calling MIGHT have triggered a response, MIGHT have?

Post: #3

it was ex-boyfriend , but that kinda doesnt matter does it ? anyhow , should i continue to spend my time on this girl or move on .. ?

Post: #4

(05-11-2009 01:35 AM)nmn87 Wrote:  it was ex-boyfriend , but that kinda doesnt matter does it ? anyhow , should i continue to spend my time on this girl or move on .. ?

Are you able to emotionally get over a woman you've been with immediately? If you liked her? Do you think she is a robot? If it really didn't matter, she wouldn't have answered his call lol.

BTW, why are you taking your girls to a part on a first date?

Post: #5

Umm... too aggressive without supporting game.

Post: #6

yep , i see now , it was too agressive , damn alchohol ...
hmm , didnt rly understand Hangover's reply , u think we shouldnt devide but stay toghether 4 of us ? and can u explain supporting game to me?

P.S sory for bad english if any , its my 2nd language

Post: #7

(05-11-2009 02:47 PM)nmn87 Wrote:  yep , i see now , it was too agressive , damn alchohol ...
hmm , didnt rly understand Hangover's reply , u think we shouldnt devide but stay toghether 4 of us ? and can u explain supporting game to me?

P.S sory for bad english if any , its my 2nd language

No problem. I think that there was very little you could do if she was still not over her boyfriend. Some things are just outside of your control. Yes, you were a little too aggressive. Sometimes, it's best to align your game with her mood, especially in situations when she's emotionally unstable. In this case, playing gentler and slower game, not pushing too hard but still indicating your interest might have eventually got you to the desired end.

Being too aggressive doesn't really work anyway. Unless both of you are somewhat drunk or you have strong immediate undeniable mutual chemistry (which happens rarely).

Post: #8

i see now , what do u think i should do when we meet next time , cos we will since we go out in same place.

Post: #9

(05-12-2009 02:27 AM)nmn87 Wrote:  i see now , what do u think i should do when we meet next time , cos we will since we go out in same place.

Be patient, confident and escalate gradually. Good thing is that she knows your intention now and has agreed to go with you again. She might be curious about you or even like you.

Post: #10

ok thx , ill see how it plays out