Post: #1

Me
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Her
We have mutual friends.
Talked to her for about an hour.
Broke touch barrier by dancing with her.
Drunkenly kissed her.

Plan
Date 1: casual environment where we can talk more.
Date 2: Netflix and chill where I'll try to sleep with her.

Questions
She was still interested in seeing each other again after the kiss. Is that a green light to escalate fast? Should I skip date 1 and go straight for date 2? If I keep date 1, I plan to not mention date 2 but suggest it to her immediately afterwards, thoughts? If I keep date 1, recommended venues?

Post: #2

Firstly

Assuming youre getting a 2nd date is an almost guarantee that you wont

Thats because caring about the outcome of date 1 will come across as neediness.

Neediness is weakness to women

Weakness is anathema to attraction

Women sense weakness / insecurity / lack of confidence/ etc like sharks smell blood in the water.

One part per million turns you from cute to creepy,... from hot guy to friend zone guy

So...

Follow this as closely as you can. Its absolutely the best, most proven model in existence.



Tuthmosis's Recipe for first date bangs

Any deviation only increases your likelihood of failure.

If you cant set up first date to end up at your pad then dont make out (see step 4)...save that for date 2...if it happens

Seriously

Good luck

Post: #3

(08-26-2018 11:16 PM)halfyear Wrote:  She was still interested in seeing each other again after the kiss. Is that a green light to escalate fast?

This is the wrong mindset to have. I don't know if it's just the way you wrote the sentence, but it sounds as if you weren't sure she wanted to go out with you and you're surprised that she agreed to it.

Of course she was interested in seeing you again after you kissed. Remember that you're the prize. You don't need to impress her, she needs to impress you. Follow PapayaTapper's advice and don't be weak and needy around her and remember ABE:
Always
Be
Escalating.