Post: #51

Pretty unlikely but possible. Google for details

Post: #52

(09-08-2018 02:28 PM)TheGrowth Wrote:  

(09-08-2018 09:12 AM)jmane Wrote:  This, is pathetic. After 10 years, she has a right to know. As others mentioned, if he raw-dogged her, she probably caught it. Why not simply confess his affair and let her deal with it...

IMO Beta behavior to hide it and sneak.. Why sneak on his 10 year relationship?

You say pathetic and beta, I say "what possible gain is there" in doing so

The same "gain" you thought you'd get from getting a side chick- in a 10 year relationship. It is your problem. Now be a man and admit your grave mistake.

Post: #53

I'd like to bring this thread back to the original point which was less a solicitation for advice on my personal situation and moreso to develop a process chart that would help others in a similar situation.
If the general sentiment is "either confess and accept the consequences or end it altogether" then there's not much point for this thread to continue.
However, if people have found themselves in a situation where the aforementioned options aren't ideal then the fruits of this discussion could be helpful. Judging by the PMs I've received I'm not the only one who sees value in this.