Post: #1

Hello guys, so I was dating today a chick, she is one of those that drinks a lot , looks like she doesnt get fucked enough tho, now im quite new to the game and passing women shit-test, id call myself a recovering beta , so here is what happend , it was our first date, and everything was going great...then she calls a guy from our workplace to have a beer with us, my gut was like "dude fuck it just go home, not worth", but I stayed because I tought I would look disrespectful and jealously, so then her body was moved towards him and everything he was saying was "cool to listen to" and he totally ignored me most of the time, so did she, I was trying to get into conversations but , I was failing at a certain point of time. So I would like you guys to give me a feedback on this and suggest future actions, btw we all work in same office, that's where I actually met her.


P.S My bad should have posted this in newbie forum, not in main thread.

Post: #2

Don't date girls of your office. That's the best advice I can give in here.

Post: #3

(08-22-2018 02:53 PM)Rocha Wrote:  Don't date girls of your office. That's the best advice I can give in here.

I agree with you , since i've read few books on game and educating myself on the subject, but in 1 month I will move to another job so I tought id give it a shot why not, by the way im still bad for moment at least ,at approaching women on street.

Post: #4

Rocha is right, you don't shit where you eat.

Workplace dating isn't a good thing nowadays.

It's obviously clear that you didn't make it clear it was a "date" and not just a friendly after hours work meet up.

She obviously sees you just as a coworker and friend.

If she's inviting another guy to meet up with you and her, that's a clear hint that you aren't entertaining her enough and aren't building any attraction with her.

Post: #5

Was it verbally agreed or heavily implied this was a date?
Pretty disrespectful on her end if that's the case. Regardless if she lost attraction, or was more attracted to the other guy.

As for prematurely leaving, I don't think you'd come across as jealous or disrespecful; as long as you did it in a non-spiteful way. You'd just be executing higher status qualities, and reinforcing a stronger frame. You definitely did damage by sticking around and falling into the other guys frame.

Post: #6

(08-22-2018 02:46 PM)albvik Wrote:  Hello guys, so I was dating today a chick, she is one of those that drinks a lot , looks like she doesnt get fucked enough tho, now im quite new to the game and passing women shit-test, id call myself a recovering beta , so here is what happend , it was our first date, and everything was going great...then she calls a guy from our workplace to have a beer with us, my gut was like "dude fuck it just go home, not worth", but I stayed because I tought I would look disrespectful and jealously, so then her body was moved towards him and everything he was saying was "cool to listen to" and he totally ignored me most of the time, so did she, I was trying to get into conversations but , I was failing at a certain point of time. So I would like you guys to give me a feedback on this and suggest future actions, btw we all work in same office, that's where I actually met her.


P.S My bad should have posted this in newbie forum, not in main thread.

Chalk it up as an L

Girls from work are tricky because I like to be really aggressive but you never know if they are gonna snitch on you. Luckily I work for myself so I don't have that problem.
I would say ignore her but don't be vindictive about it. Just be indifferent. If she wants to hang out tell her you got a buddy from out of town coming in but sound disappointed
If anything it will make her want to fuck you but at worst you don't want to piss her off and have a female as an enemy at the office. She can make life hell for you

Just ignore the bitch and move on

Post: #7

You got cucked. (If) next time she invites you out again, agree to go but at the last minute blow her off. If she asks, you have a date/booty call to attend and it's obviously more important. If she whines, tell her you're happy to meet up afterwards... and do a no show. Go do something more fun instead. Hang out, chat up some new chick, jack off, anything. She is now at the bottom of you list of things to do.

Post: #8

Just move on to someone who will listen to you and can converse with.