Post: #26

If you have the money and she is not less than an 8, do it.

However make sure you are getting the bang. Start sexualising the conversation before she even flies to your city, send her really sexual pictures of guys giving oral sex to women and tell her you will make sure you will do that to her when you see her. Her response should tell you if she will fuck you when she comes to your city, if you are in doubt about this, don't do it.

The only problem is that 4 days is too short, for a 400 ticket, I would make sure that she would stay with me for 2 weeks at the very minimum. I have done this once and she stayed with me for 3 months, this was 10 years ago, I don't regret doing it at all. Don't listen to these guys telling you not to do it, it's your money, you do whatever you want to do with it. Enrich your life with wonderful sexual experiences with sexy women, experiences like that are unforgettable, specially if she is bad.

Post: #27

In my experience, it's best to make the girl pay for her own trip if you haven't fucked her yet. It can be understood that you'll pay for her expenses while she's staying with you, but she needs to take care of a significant portion of the plane ticket herself. If she gives you some good sex, then you can decide to help cover the cost of her transportation if you feel like it or she has genuine hardship. However, as Pitt points out, it's not a hard and fast rule. If she's really hot and fun and you're sure enough that she's DTF to take a chance on it, and you can afford it, then why not? Like Pitt said, you can test her compliance by asking her to stay for a couple of weeks instead of just four days.

I've had girls fly or drive long distances to see me and I did help some of them with their transportation expenses, but it was AFTER they fucked me. If any of them had come and stayed with me and immediately put me in the friend zone, there's no way I would have reimbursed them for any part of their travel.

I've known a couple of guys who helped pay for girls to come stay with them and then the girls friendzoned them and never put out. It was very humiliating for the guys involved. Even if they didn't say anything, you could tell the girl wasn't "with" them because of the body language and demeanor when they were around each other. It was very awkward.

Post: #28

Flying out girls seems kind of pointless, why not just game the girls in your city? Your basically just gambling by flying out a girl you never met. I'd probably only want girls to fly out and visit me if I had met and fucked them while I was traveling.

Post: #29

Ok, weird change of plans. So I just got notice I have to fly out to her city for work again, I'm flying out tonight and have the wkend free. This is a perfect chance to meet up with her and see if I can fuck her....or if she suddenly blows me off then I'll know she was only interested in the vacation to L.A. I haven't told her I'm going yet cuz i dont want to come off as thirsty but I'll invite her out once I'm already there.

Post: #30

(07-19-2018 01:54 PM)rotinz Wrote:  Flying out girls seems kind of pointless, why not just game the girls in your city? Your basically just gambling by flying out a girl you never met. I'd probably only want girls to fly out and visit me if I had met and fucked them while I was traveling.

I already met her once at a bar and we pretty much danced and hung out all night till it closed. I got the makeout pretty easily but not the lay.

Post: #31

(07-17-2018 10:42 PM)Axel99 Wrote:  I have a bit of a dilema, i met this hot 21yr old while i was traveling in a different city and weve been chatting about her coming to visit me in L.A...thing is i would have to pay for her round-trip plane ticket($400), meals, drinks, entertainment, etc. for a 4 day weekend. Dont get me wrong, I make good money and can easily afford it but Im not sure if she's really that into me or is just agreeing to an all expense paid vacation to the city of angels. She texts me alot about wanting to visit here and go to the beaches and attractions LA has to offer. Im still undecided and havent committed to anything but wanted to know if you guys have ever done this and was it worth it.

Why are you asking if you are rich and can afford it? .....

Paying for the flight is one thing. But such girls expect an "all-inclusive" invitation. I.e. local visits of (good restaurants), exhibitions, shopping, etc. They don't want to seat at home...

Post: #32

A lot of great replies in this thread.

For me, it comes down to the classic money v. game paradox.

Quite simply: I wouldn't do it unless this girl is extremely invested, even if you can afford it. Investing that much in a girl you just made out with is basically putting your balls in her purse. Don't inflate the expectations of these women.

Now, as was previously said, if she's given herself to you in every which way, and is literally begging to see you, and offering herself completely? That's a different story if your bank account is tight.

Logically speaking though, if you're making enough money to be able to afford such a thing, you'll get a higher ROI in your local market, and there's a very good chance there's a girl dying to meet you, and fuck your brains out without you having to pay for a plane ticket.

Choose accordingly. Your bankroll is way more important than even top shelf pussy until your passive income has you covered.

Post: #33

I agree that many of the strategies in this thread could work. My opinion is that your decision should be based on how much you value the money and if you will be able to remain outcome independent after buying the flight..... and the girl's personality. We don't know much about the girl and how she is communicating with you so it is difficult to say.

One thing to be aware of is the likelihood that she agrees to the trip and then cancels. It's not uncommon for attention seeking girls to agree to something like this without intending to follow through. Girls will do this purely for attention and the validation from knowing that the guy will spend the money on them.

Something much more common is for her to agree and then change her mind at the last minute. Girls don't always think through their plans. Also, you paying for the flight can backfire because her attraction for you can decrease once she mentally processes that you paid for the chance to bang her. On the other hand, there are girls that wouldn't consider doing something like this if the guy didn't pay.

Post: #34

Bro. Don't trick on the ho. Find another version of her in your local vicinity. But I also hear it ain't tricking if you got it. I say Tricking is tricking whether u got it or don't got it. Church Tabernacle...cathedral...pimpin..?

Post: #35

(07-18-2018 03:28 AM)CleanSlate Wrote:  She's a big girl, so she should pay for her own flight. End of story.

(07-18-2018 06:26 AM)musicalprodigy1 Wrote:  Just tell her you'll see her when she makes it to LA and keep in touch.
How can you be sure you won't get me too'd once it gets hot?

(07-18-2018 10:56 AM)Montrose Wrote:  Pay for meals and wine and everything if you wish, but don’t pay for the flight. If you do you lose frame and she will spend her days with her first LA tinder match.

(07-19-2018 11:01 AM)C-Note Wrote:  In my experience, it's best to make the girl pay for her own trip if you haven't fucked her yet. .
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All of the above.

Years ago some of my friends used to call this a conjugal visit.

Post: #36

I say go for it! Sounds like it will be your first time so just think of it as a learning experience.

Report back if you do

Post: #37

A lot of poverty mindset in this thread.

If he's got it like that then the answer is obviously fly her out.

If he's got Game then he already would have done that and not have been asking here.

Worst case is she ditches him and he's out a flight and hopefully won't waste any more time on the chick, which is a cheap lesson and well worth the cost to find out what you're dealing with.

Best case she comes fucks his brains out and flies back till he buys her another ticket.

Post: #38

Wow this girl did a 180 on me big-time, I told her I'm in her city and she took 2hrs to reply with a "I'm out of town"..i told her I'm here for a week and she straight up ignored me. This was after she was texting me frequently about coming to visit me.

On a side note, anyone have any recommendations on clubs in tampa? Lol!!

Post: #39

Hahahaha, what an unexpected turn of events!

Have fun in Tampa.

Post: #40

(07-20-2018 10:51 PM)Axel99 Wrote:  Wow this girl did a 180 on me big-time, I told her I'm in her city and she took 2hrs to reply with a "I'm out of town"..i told her I'm here for a week and she straight up ignored me. This was after she was texting me frequently about coming to visit me.

Sounds like she was just fishing for a chump who would pay for her flight.

I wonder which chump paid for the out of town trip that she's currently enjoying.

Post: #41

I got a text from her last night saying that's shes coming to LA tomorrow with her friend. She must have already been planning to come on her own dime and was just seeing if I would pay. I told her I'd be available tomorrow afternoon if she wanted to hang out, still haven't got a reply but I'm still on the fence wether or not she's interested in me. She also seems like the social media addict, attention whore type which is a huge redflag but she is really hot so ima take my chances lol...this is one from her instagram.

Post: #42

Holy fuck look at those juicy titties!

Post: #43

(07-18-2018 10:56 AM)Montrose Wrote:  Pay for meals and wine and everything if you wish, but don’t pay for the flight. If you do you lose frame and she will spend her days with her first LA tinder match.

Montrose... You and I have similar methods of operation. This is exactly how I would work this situation.

Post: #44

(07-20-2018 10:51 PM)Axel99 Wrote:  Wow this girl did a 180 on me big-time, I told her I'm in her city and she took 2hrs to reply with a "I'm out of town"..i told her I'm here for a week and she straight up ignored me. This was after she was texting me frequently about coming to visit me.

On a side note, anyone have any recommendations on clubs in tampa? Lol!!

That's so damn useful, I'm using it for now on if I ever run into a similar situation. At the very least, you set up a frame where you're too busy to meet her even you're in her city.

Post: #45

Ha man you are a Mark

Post: #46

So, she was trying to get a free trip to LA. It doesn't mean, however, that she wouldn't have fucked you. If you had said that you would reimburse her for the ticket after she arrived, it would have put pressure on her to put out. But, if you had said that she likely would have tried to get a ticket from one of her other Instagram followers before she used your offer as a last resort.

Post: #47

Bro, you’re a backup plan.

Move on!

Post: #48

By the way, you should check Seeking Arrangement for her city because there's a very good chance she's on there.

Post: #49

(07-27-2018 08:16 AM)Mentavious Wrote:  Bro, you’re a backup plan.

Move on!

Yeah I bet she wants to find a hot guy in LA to party with, if she fails then that's when I come in. I don't know why girls have to be this way, you either want to hang out with a guy or not. I'm not contacting her at all, if she wants to hang out then she can msg me.

Post: #50

I think you may have dodged a bullet here, and luckily so, but you still haven't addressed the original question. Is it "okay" to buy a girl a ticket to visit you?

Absolutely. Why not? If you're dating girls much younger than you, they're likely going to be financially immature, until they get their shit sorted out. I don't think there is any dilemma here at all. If you can afford it, why would you not invite a potential mate out to visit?

That having been said, it would seem in this case, my theory wouldn't really pan out on the positive side. But, I dunno. $400 is not very much to me. So, I think, in almost all situations, I would do it. Even if you only log a 25% success rate, that's still only the 25% of what you tried. And if you didn't try at all, you'd never even get that 25%