Post: #1

Sunday night I was with a buddy who is next to useless when it comes to meeting women. That's fine with me, as I am only visiting the place where I grew up for a short while.
We were walking around a popular area that was not exactly flocking with women. Probably cause it was Sunday. We decided to have a beer.

Just before entering the bar I noticed two girls that were passing by about 5 meters to my 9 o'clock. At first, I thought one noticed me, but that may have been because I made no disguise to check her out... or it was wishful thinking. It was the one I was interested in, a small Asian. The other was an average looking blonde.
Either way, they were gone about 30 seconds later.
Several minutes later, these girls entered the bar and sat at a two top behind my friend and I. I thought perfect, I'll let them get comfortable and chat them up.

The seating was awkward. The Asian was directly behind me, back to back. The blonde, I can hear talking about herself and direction in life. I know she just wanted someone to listen to her. She seemed needy. Like she was 25 and had no idea what she was ever going to do in life. Cool, I am sure many people are like that. My gut feeling told me it wasn't coincidence they ended up at this place. She put her self in the situation to get me to talk to her. Again, gut feeling.
The girls ordered a salad, and were out of there almost as fast as the came in.

In all reality, I think I pussed out. Bummed out, I started chatting up a waitress who seemed bored with work. I pretty much handed her to my buddy as he passively cock-blocked me. This kid hasn't been laid in about a year and can get jealous of others. He is beta all day when it comes to women. So I figure, I would give this up... and maybe she was more interested in him to begin with. He did pull the green card line at the end of the night as an excuse to hang out. I think he just recently discovered it.

I guess that last paragraph can almost be omitted, because I am more concerned with my lack of approach on the first set of girls that walked in. I over analyzed, tried to think of openers and in all reality, maybe I should have just asked for a drink.

Any thoughts?

Post: #2

Learn to simplify shit. Get some solid canned shit first while your starting out.

Then after some experience and practice you will be able / confident to opening in / with different ways.

Force yourself to open within a minute of seeing target. They can be gone quick.

Post: #3

Try to get some eye contact from a chick. If you catch her looking at you more than once, then its not a coincidence. Conversely, if a chick cant help but to know that you are in her vicinity and she hasnt looked at you even once, then you know she probably isnt interested. Them sitting behind you honestly was probably just a coincidence, nothing more nothing less.

Honestly, you cant pressure yourself to talk to every little chick that you see. If the opportunity presents itself, cool. But dont feel like you have to walk over a bed of hot coals just to talk to a chick. Unless you just get to the point where you just run up women that didnt even know you existed until you tapped her on her shoulder, try to get some eye contact and just hit her with a "hey, how are u". After that just be normal and chop it up with her.

Simple

Post: #4

Thanks guys.