Post: #1

Day game is different because women are not as defensive or overstimulated in coffee shops or bookstores as they are in nightclubs. But what about in-between situations? For example, an art event last night had alcohol, dark lights, and music with a nightclub feel, but was more of a friendly vibe than a "meet market". Is the point that indirect tactics are appropriate for isolated women in nonsocial venues, but a more direct, escalating approach works for social events?

Feel free to move this thread since it involves distinguishing day tactics from night tactics instead of focusing on one book alone.

Post: #2

Quote:Is the point that indirect tactics are appropriate for isolated women in nonsocial venues, but a more direct, escalating approach works for social events?

No, I start with indirect all the time, day or night. Direct is better suited if a girl already displayed interest in you, regardless of the venue, but even then I prefer indirect.

Post: #3

(09-25-2011 09:33 AM)kimleebj Wrote:  Day game is different because women are not as defensive or overstimulated in coffee shops or bookstores as they are in nightclubs. But what about in-between situations? For example, an art event last night had alcohol, dark lights, and music with a nightclub feel, but was more of a friendly vibe than a "meet market". Is the point that indirect tactics are appropriate for isolated women in nonsocial venues, but a more direct, escalating approach works for social events?

Feel free to move this thread since it involves distinguishing day tactics from night tactics instead of focusing on one book alone.

I think for social events, indirect might the better of the two.

Post: #4

direct vs indirect debate is pretty much pointless cause the distinction between the two is only in your head basically.

cause really guys how do you define indirect. you mean verbally indirect? like asking for opinion/directions etc? even though you don't state your truth intention you can be direct nonverbally by holding deep eye contact while getting closer maybe with some playful touch. also you can be direct verbally but when you subcommunication suck then it's not direct at all. or lame at least.

to me only factor is stimulus level in that particular situation. so in daytime i can have a normal conversation while in the loud club i can go in hard grab her hand dance have fun and physically lead whenever i want because it's appropriate environment to be more crazy

in daytime i approached with..
- hey you coming with me
- why you standing so far away from me?
- you won..
- you make me shy
- [we're both smiling at each other not saying anything for about 5-10 seconds. in that moment it felt like a contest who's gonna crack first]
and i have no idea whether it was direct or not. but i know that i was comfortable saying that and girls felt it