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RE: Too Many Men: In China and India, men outnumber women by 70 million
Perhaps worthy of its own thread, but I thought this article was interesting on a successful Chinese blogger that dishes out red pill dating advice to women:
Quote:Ayawawa, one of China’s most successful relationship advisers, has come under fire for saying wartime “comfort women” exemplified the “natural gender advantage” women possessed over men. Her comments on the subject speak volumes for her world view.
“Have you thought that the men were in fact worse off than the women? They were shot dead but the women survived,” she was quoted as saying by online news portal QQ.com during an offline “emotional training” workshop.
Straight from the evolutionary psychologists that emphasize that throughout history, the average women enjoyed far more reproductive success than the average man.
Quote:Ayawawa’s pet theory for how to get a successful husband has been embraced and internalised by her millions of fans.
Critics and gender studies scholars say Ayawawa teaches women to objectify themselves and contributes actively to the patriarchal system, by advising women to improve their looks and obey their partners.
1. Rate yourself
Ayawawa encourages women to rate themselves based on their looks on a scale of one to 10, and has been rating her fans on social media for years based on photos they send in.
According to Ayawawa, a woman’s rating determines the kind of partner she should pursue and the dating strategies to adopt.
According to her, it is ideal for women to date partners who are just slightly less good-looking than them to maintain stable relationships.
2. Be pretty and subservient
Ayawawa’s relationship theory centres around two concepts borrowed from evolutionary psychology: mate value (MV), referring to one’s desirable traits, and paternal uncertainty (PU), which she interprets as how confident one’s partner is about whether he or she will cheat on them.
To boost the likelihood of finding and retaining a good partner, women should strive to enhance their MV, which, according to her theory as reported by Chinese news portal Qq.com, is determined by several factors: age, looks, height, breast size, weight, education level and family background.
At the same time, they need to make their partners feel safe by lowering PU through subservient behaviour, such as not wearing revealing clothes, praising their boyfriends constantly and having little career ambitions.
“I don’t recommend women to wear Bohemian style or clothes with tassels or rivets,” says Ayawawa. “This will increase their PU level.”
3. Be financially supported by men and don’t challenge traditional roles
Ayawawa advocates that women take advantage of their male counterparts’ financial support and play traditional roles within the family.
She thinks jobs such as plumber, firefighter, and soldier are not meant for women because of their physical abilities, and that they would not want to work such heavy jobs anyway.
“Women enjoy the gender advantage to pick and choose men,” read a blog post by Ayawawa in December. “Women’s money is usually not spent on men, but men’s money is meant to be spent by women.”
Could this type of blogger enjoy commercial success in the US without being hounded by the PC police? Doubtful. Half of the guys on this forum would be able to do exactly what she does, she just happened to be in the right place at the right time to spread her views.
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RE: Too Many Men: In China and India, men outnumber women by 70 million
Some countries are not poisoned by the feminist cult. Without it, then the social norms and standards are not changing that much.
The push in the West did not "just happen". It was done by media, entertainment, politics and academia in a joint massive effort that was proven to be successful after a few generations of propaganda.
That is why #metoo is not gaining traction in countries like Russia or China. In fact - many don't even understand what the fuss is about a producer wanting to fuck young aspiring actresses.
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RE: Too Many Men: In China and India, men outnumber women by 70 million
Chinese are now raiding Pakistan for women:
Chinese gang involved in illegal marriage racket busted in Pakistan
Quote:Dubai: At least eight Chinese men have been arrested in Pakistan on charges of trafficking Pakistani girls after illegal marriages.
The Federal Investigation Agency (FIA) busted the racket following complaints of Chinese involved in illegal marriages after trapping the poor Pakistani girls mainly Christians.
The FIA has also claimed to have arrested the Pakistani agents who were involved in facilitating the Chinese in trapping the poor Pakistani girls.
Deputy Director FIA Jamil Ahmad Khan Mayo told Pakistani media that the FIA arrested eight Chinese nationals from Lahore airport and other areas on the charges of trafficking young women to China after marrying them. The arrests, he said, is part of a crackdown against foreigners involved in illegal activities in the country.
Gulf News reported earlier that the Pakistan government has warned people against a mafia involved in ‘fake’ marriages of Chinese men with Pakistani girls.
The Chinese Embassy in Islamabad has issued a statement urging caution against unlawful matchmaking centres involved in these marriages to earn profit.
The illegal matchmaking centres lure poor Pakistani girls, especially Christian girls to marry Chinese men who are either visiting or working in Pakistan.
They produce fake documents of Chinese men showing them either as Christians or Muslims. They then find poor girls mainly from the Christian community to marry them by offering money and promises of ‘good life’. However, many girls reportedly became victims of human trafficking and forced into prostitution.
Chinese men lure Pakistani girls with marriage to traffic them
Quote:Dubai: The Pakistan government has warned people against a mafia involved in ‘fake’ marriages of Chinese men with Pakistani girls.
The Chinese Embassy in Islamabad has issued a statement urging caution against unlawful matchmaking centres involved in these marriages to earn profit.
According to reports, the Pakistan government has launched a crackdown on the illegal matchmaking centres. They lure poor Pakistani girls, especially Christian girls to marry Chinese men who are either visiting or working in Pakistan.
They produce fake documents of Chinese men showing them either as Christians or Muslims. They then find poor girls mainly from the Christian community to marry them by offering money and promises of ‘good life’. However, many girls reportedly became vicitms of human trafficking and forced into prostitution.
Talking to Gulf News, a Dubai-based Pakistani Christian community leader Rev Johan Qadir condemned the practice and said various churches in Pakistan have already launched awareness campaign amongst the Christian community warning them against illegal marriages.
“The government should launch a crackdown and save lives of the poor girls who are easily lured with promises of a comfortable life but actually they are trapped and trafficked to China,” he said.
He said the illegal matchmakers make fake certificates or affidavits for Chinese men showing them as Christian and bachelors and trap poor girls to marry them. “We request Prime Minister Imran Khan to take serious notice of this exploitation of the poor girls as many of them are forced into prostitution after their weddings.
The scam exposed
A report revealed that middlemen trapped Pakistani girls by promising them Rs40,000 (Dh1050) monthly besides mobile phones and Chinese visas. A TV channel also aired images of several Chinese men with Pakistani women, including two teenage girls, at an illegal matchmaking center in Lahore.
Thousands of Chinese are now living in Pakistan since the launch of the China Pakistan Economic Corridor (CEPEC) project in 2015. Many of them have even bought houses and cars in the country.
Some Chinese men have ulterior motives behind marrying Pakistani girls as they take them to China after marriage and force them into prostitution and even sell their organs.
The local facilitators told the TV channel they would lure families into an agreement by saying their would-be Chinese son-in-law was seeking Pakistani citizenship so he could invest in the country as part of the China-Pakistan Economic Corridor project.
Banners for weddings
Roadside banners and posters can also been seen in Youhanabad—the largest Christian locality – in Lahore, inviting families to marry their girls with Chinese.
The banners read: “Long live Pak-China friendship! Attention honorable Christians. Proposals of deserving, poor and good families are urgently required for China. Chinese family will bear all expenses. Education is not a problem.”
Chinese Embassy response
However, Chinese Embassy in Islamabad refutes reports of human trafficking of Pakistani girls and the sale of organs. But the statement did warn against illegal marriages.
The Chinese Embassy statement reads: Both China and Pakistan adopt rule of law and firmly oppose human trafficking and sales of human organs.
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The above-mentioned reports about sales of organs are misleading and groundless. We notice that recently some unlawful matchmaking centers made illegal profits from brokering cross-national marriages. Both Chinese and Pakistani youths are victims of these illegal agents.
Chinese laws and regulations strictly prohibit cross-national matchmaking centers. No individual is allowed to engage in any form of such activity by deception or for profit. The Chinese government also strictly prohibits any organisation or individual from buying or selling human organs in any form, or engaging in such activities. For those who constitute a crime, criminal responsibility shall be investigated in accordance with the law.
China is cooperating with Pakistani law enforcement agencies to crack down on illegal matchmaking centers.
We remind both Chinese and Pakistani citizens to remain vigilant and not to be cheated. We also welcome valuable clues to combat such offenses. At the same time, it is hoped that reports should be based on the facts. We hope that the public do not believe in misleading information and work together to safeguard China-Pakistan friendship.”
Pakistan action
While briefing Pakistani lawmakers at one of the recent meetings, senior government officials reportedly said Islamabad was in close contact with Beijing about fake marriages and action was being taken to counter the practice.
A spokesman for the Interior Ministry said: “Some private marriage bureaus were involved in these marriages and most of the complaints were being received from Lahore and Abbottabad.
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RE: Too Many Men: In China and India, men outnumber women by 70 million
Frankly, for all the talk of the Chinese being a demographic threat, nearly everyone seems to forget that China has had a one child policy for several decades and that China is actually suffering from depopulation and demographic decline considering their total birthrate is below 2.1
Of course, there are still a bit over 1 billion of them and they have a significant diaspora, but they only abolished the one-child policy for a 2 child policy a few years ago, (still not enough to reverse demographic decline, especially considering that countries without child restriction policies still endure demographic decline) so they're still in trouble.
Countries like China, South Korea and Japan are in many ways in a similar long term demographic situation to that of European (Plus European settled) countries in terms of demographic decline.
Really, the only countries with demographically aggressive or high birthrate average populations are African, Middle Eastern, some Latin American and South Asian nations (India and Pakistan most notably). India is the most notable of these countries because they literally have the largest population of any country on the planet of 1.5 billion (last time i checked), and it's still growing!
The civilizational tension caused by the aggressive demographic increase of countries like India compared to low population countries (European ones) is best illustrated by the Pewdiepie v T-Series clash on the internet.
"And guess what, you might have a feeling that youre destined for something else, and that any day now it will dawn on you, but it will remain that, just a feeling that you use as a crutch to never focus on anything", Beirut.
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RE: Too Many Men: In China and India, men outnumber women by 70 million
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"And guess what, you might have a feeling that youre destined for something else, and that any day now it will dawn on you, but it will remain that, just a feeling that you use as a crutch to never focus on anything", Beirut.
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RE: Too Many Men: In China and India, men outnumber women by 70 million
(04-20-2018 10:33 AM)Arado Wrote: Commercial marriage tours to Russia as well as Ukraine offer Chinese men the chance to meet 10 or 20 women over the space of a few days for around $5,000, rising to $8,000 if they find a bride.
No Ukranian woman above a 6 is going to want to marry some dumpy little Asian guy, no matter how much money he has.
You people are responsible for fucking up the ratios in your country. Now you can go find a nice sex doll to shack up with for the rest of your life. Fuckheads.
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