Post: #26

You are becoming jaded and thinking of women as these horrible creatures and you haven't even stepped your foot through the door.

Women are lots of things, but a lot of them can be good people. Always look to the finer qualities of people. If you see a woman and your first impression is "that woman is a bitch" or "she is worth nothing more to me than a hole for my dick," then you need to recalibrate your thought process.

Every man on this forum has dated/married wonderful women who have provided value in their lives. Just because you have not had success yet, doesn't mean you are going to become a sexless hermit who will never find happiness.

Approach women and situations with enthusiasm and optimism. Take it in short strides. Every little positive that happens, is a small victory.



Example: You approach a woman and introduce yourself and she doesn't flat out reject you, small win.

You both begin talking and the conversation is going well, another small win.

You're making her laugh and she is constantly showing IOIs, another win.

You ask for her phone number and she refuses, her loss. No matter, you keep positive because you're the prize. She doesn't know what she is missing.


Trying to impress and sleep with a broken woman with no soul is not going to get you the results you desire. In fact, it'll give you a more negative outlook with women because you will assume that all women are these lifeless shells who have been corrupted by drugs, alcohol, and cock.

Focus on women that are genuine and good natured, instead of that dead soul who views you as another paycheck.

Post: #27

Dude you're all over the place on here.

You're acting like a chick with all this drama she's putting out.

Who gives a fuck about this thot, she's wasting your time if she isn't putting out.

She isn't a challenge, she's a whore.


I'd also tone it down on insulting respected members of the forum, especially if you're seeking advice and want to stay here long.

Post: #28

I agree with kaotic and the others. I suggest going no contact and forgetting about his girl forever. You are not going to out-manipulate a highly manipulative woman. Thinking about her is only going to waste your time and put you in a negative state.

Even if you could get revenge on her - how does that benefit you? It doesn't.

Post: #29

OP

So did you travel to meet this chick? Am I understanding that correctly?

Post: #30

My advice would be to wait for suits to show up. He’s bound to have some friendly advice for you.

Post: #31

The very fact that you are obsessed with her displays lack of options and perspective.

If you can pursue her casually then do so. Calling out her whoring can backfire, but at this stage, what does it matter?

It's an interesting experience for you. From what I know about some of those women is that they don't respect men who are tolerant of her whoring. They think that any real man would forbid her doing it further. But that necessitates that she is already deep into you and has fucked you.

Post: #32

I came in thinking what's this new "Whoe" thing people are talking about these days...

Post: #33

@ Remington @Kaotic @birthday_cat @Zelcorpion You guys were very insightful and Im really thankful for you all.

Post: #34

I asked told her to ask the old dicks she is fucking to buy shit she wants lol! Then she pretends to not reading the messages in which I exposed her shitty drama and her whoring and out of nowhere she said "lets marry" I laughed thinking how low this whoe can get..... This one is a psychopath..... Advices here really helped me a lot with doing the right thing.....

Post: #35

From a fellow noob: Just eject, Victor

You've already wasted a ton of time on that chick, time that you could've spent gaming, self-improving or just sitting on your fucking couch watching a TV show you like. Even that would've brought you more joy!

Also, how much better do you think you'll feel if you "revenge pump and dump" her ass? What's bruised is your ego. What can you possibly do in bed to repair that? Face it, you want her to want you. She sounds like a cold seasoned pro so that's not going to happen even if you drill her for a few days straight.

All that said, if she makes her way to Korea, I volunteer to revenge fuck her on your behalf. The things I do for RVF...

Post: #36

(04-23-2018 01:58 AM)victorfrank Wrote:  I asked told her to ask the old dicks she is fucking to buy shit she wants lol! Then she pretends to not reading the messages in which I exposed her shitty drama and her whoring and out of nowhere she said "lets marry" I laughed thinking how low this whoe can get..... This one is a psychopath..... Advices here really helped me a lot with doing the right thing.....

And yet the fact that youre still posting here about messaging this "whoe" a month later conclusively demonstrates otherwise

Post: #37

OP, is it too much to ask you to stop typing like a teenage girl? Are you one?

We use things like grammar and punctuation here. Reading your posts felt like I was guest starring in a Gossip girl episode.

Try a bit dude.

Post: #38

(04-23-2018 01:58 AM)victorfrank Wrote:  I asked told her to ask the old dicks she is fucking to buy shit she wants lol! Then she pretends to not reading the messages in which I exposed her shitty drama and her whoring and out of nowhere she said "lets marry" I laughed thinking how low this whoe can get..... This one is a psychopath..... Advices here really helped me a lot with doing the right thing.....

You need to stop talking/texting/engaging this girl. Just stop. Don't text, don't reply, don't make any contact.


She did not get her hymen fixed.
She may or may not be muslim.
She may or may not work in an embassy.
She may or may not fuck her way forward in her career.

All that doesn't matter. You're being played and you will not get back at her.
Accept that and move on.
Don't waste your time trying to get back at a girl for not having sex with you. Life doesn't work that way.

There is plenty of good advice on the forum and if you want to see what is possible, look at posts from Mixx, PapayaTapper, Digital Nomad, LiNUX, and more. These guys have numerous posts here demonstrating exactly why you're wasting your time with this girl and what you can do in order to improve.

Step 1 is listening to Cobra and write like a man.

Post: #39

The point of my last message was to thank you guys for helping me do the right thing. I wrote it after a month because its when she texted me again. I was making fun of her littlr whore business the last time she texted me and bitch still acts innocent lol