Post: #1

I found an interesting read about whether men are attracted more to drama queens or well behaved women. From what I have seen, I would have to give the nod to the drama queens. What are your thoughts?

reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/kl8qy/men_of_reddit_know_the_phrase_nice_guys_finish/

Post: #2

It depends. If you are looking for fun, then a bit of a drama is ok but if you are looking for an LTR then the less drama the better.

Post: #3

Drama queens are only good for one thing, pumping and dumping. Mofo's got it right.

Post: #4

The problem with 'nice girls' is that being 'nice' goes hand-in-hand with being 'shy' and maybe 15% of guys have the sufficient game to open, game and bang these girls.

Post: #5

A woman's hotness determines whom she attracts. Her personality determines how long, among those she attracted, would she be kept in a relationship. Being a bitch is a massive turn-off in that regard, imo, so I'd take a nice or shy girl first any time.

Post: #6

I have to agree with GMAC on this one. If I didn't plan on ever seeing this chick again I don't care how much drama she causes. If I plan on having to put up with her for a long time I'd prefer one that's nicer.

Just my opinion though.

Post: #7

Look at the women married to high powered guys. They don't land these guys without concerted effort and perhaps some ruthlessness. Wendi Deng Murdoch springs to mind.

Post: #8

Well, drama queens are often more 'exciting' in the short term and more assertive and attention seeking so they naturally see more action.

HOWEVER, this not the female's mating goal. Or at least not the traditional female mating goal which is to have a committed long term relationship with a high value male. In LTRs the good girls IMHO definitely fare better. From my experience, I would be much less likely (all else equal) to cheat, leave, etc. on a girl that treats me good than a drama loving shrew.

One example for all - one of my exes - a ball-busting feminist lawyercunt I have dated, when she broke up with since she found out I wasn't exactly faithful, she told me this:

"It's sad to know that every man I have ever cared for has betrayed me in some way"

Well, no shit, maybe if you weren't such a bitch they wouldn't betray you.

Post: #9

There's a difference between pussy nice guys and nice guys who get pussy. Essentially you don't want to be the guy breaking your back over her, moreso the leader who occasionally shows her you care.