Post: #1

Alright first off let me put all the facts on the table about me. Bash me if it makes you feel good..

I use to be a computer Information Systems Specialist and got laid off like it seems everyone is getting done to them lately. In any event, I was forced to move back home at the age of 33. I pay my folks rent but even still I'm living at home. It is only until I can get a better paying job or hopefully save up enough to buy my own place. As it currently stands I only work part-time because noone in the area is hiring and the ones that are are only hiring part-time. Roosh says what you have doesn't matter so with that being said here is my issue.

I have been reading the book just got it a few days ago. Anyway, I went to a bar that I usually hang out a lot and met up with a girl I have not seen in 15 years. I went to school with her. Anyway her neighbor was there with her and I think she is bangable. She is 40 and looks in her 30s.

Here are the cards that have been played so far... I'm trying to get her to date me or at least talk to me or something but I might have already screwed up.

At the bar she was asking me the stuff that Roosh stated was a sign that they are sizing me up. She asked how old I was and what I done for a living. I told her didn't lie about it. She mentioned that she sewed and I asked how long she had done that. She said 25 years so I came back with "You must have started when you were 5." Then she told me how old she was. So of course i hung around at the table talking with her and the rest of the group for a while. I thought she was dating the guy there but I don't think she is.

Well now on with the question and sorry for the ramble. I seen her on facebook thru my friends profile and i messaged her and said It was nice to meet you the other night had a good time talking with you. and left it at that
she replys and said yes it is always good to meet megan's friends. They should invite you to the next pool party!!

here is where I think i messed up. I replied back "Um don't know about that, seeing you in a bikini i might not be able to control myself." I didn't really mean it in a bad way was trying to pay her a compliment and i guess i shouldn't have done that either. So she replies back. "I am very modest, you wouldn't see anything anyway. Plus the pool is not heated.. Not sure what that means but anyway.. I respond yet again and say. "I was just kidding. I hear that Walking Sidewayz is playing down at the bar this saturday. I will be be heading down that way to watch them play. If you are free the company would be welcome.. "

She replies the good ol get lost drop dead type reply that I'm use to: "thanks but... " it was "Thanks, but I have to work"

I didn't reply and don't plan on it but did i totally bomb or is there something i should try ?

Post: #2

You could've shortened this story quite a bit.

Maybe someone creative could come up with something to resurrect this thread but I would drop it. It sounds like you come from scarcity without too many option. You also think too much.

Work on your confidence, get a job or be happy being a bum (it's fine). Then work on multiple chick threads.