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(01-20-2018 04:45 AM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  It is not about black or Indian- it is about the fact that this chick grossly overestimated her value and tried to turn a "bad date"(subjective based on her overestimated value) into "sexual misconduct "( subjective because she is unaware of plaine Jane status). No one in the thread has talked about this but it is likely the black dude was fucking her even though she was monkey baring at the event. This chick was fuck action for minor celebrity ( black, brown or otherwise) and when it became grossly apparent she was incensed. She is an LA 5-6 who thinks far higher of herself and one date dispelled that notion- so she lashed out. She ain't shit and everyone knows it, especially other women. #plainjane

She is a 6 without makeup due to her youth and big eyes. All dolled up she can be a 7.

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^ That is some milspec attention whoring.

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Quote:I wonder if his comedy will change after this incident -- becoming more of a Patrice type comedian.

He still says he is a feminist and supports women etc so I don’t think he is the next Patrice.

He has learned nothing. For better or worse, he doesn’t seem to be getting any career backlash (yet)

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He's too important, as an example of "Muslims are just like us."

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I didn't know at the time, but damn! She really does want a brown baby!

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(01-15-2018 02:23 PM)eljeffster Wrote:  I wish one of these "dates gone bad" pansies would tell "their" version of the story.

For example, Ansari has a huge platform to respond any way he wants:

. . .

Then she pushed me down and tried to mount me. She was hysterical screaming. "I want a brown baby" she tried to have sex with me without a condom. I was sick of her racist comments and asked her to leave. First she said "no sand[expletive] says no to me."

When I repeated my demand she get off and leave she burst into tears, said I was like all the others, and stormed off.

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You would think a guy with the success of Aziz would pick better. Dude is absolutely slumming it, this girl is hideous. I think most, if not all of these Hollywood types are just game-less extreme blue pilled weirdos.
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(01-18-2018 10:24 PM)SlickyBoy Wrote:  More cautious? If half of what that girl said is true - and as others pointed out, based on everything else Ansari demonstrates and represents, it probably is - he's a sexual retard in addition to a gameless beta. This wasn't as simple as identifying the crazy girl on Xanax.

He's probably fucked this up before with plenty of other women.
It was only a matter of time before one of them spoke out once the #metoo nonsense started.

The very first scene of his shitty show (Master of None) involves him awkwardly hooking up with a white broad. Disguised autobiography at its finest.

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Oh man, I just remembered a very relevant story about Aziz Ansari. I live in nyc. Last year I had a client that I was moving a puece if furniture to the curb, it stuck out because she hired me and another guy and it was still heavy as fuck, one of those giant credenzas.

While I was waiting for the other worker to show up, yhe client was telling her roommate and I about meeting Aziz Ansari the night before, she was a huge fan, she approached him in s bar and said the first season of his show got her threw some tough times and he was really funny etc. she got a photo of her with him. She said the women he was there in his entourage were really hot. The client in this job was 20 or so, an NYU student, blode and about an 8. If she is saying his girls were hot, they were probably Victoria’s Secret models or the equivalent. If you think about it they also probably approached him. If he banged any of them it’s because they gamed him because they wanted to say “I fucked Aziz Ansari!”

My point is Aziz likely has many awkward interactions while trying to close with women, unless they are actively gaming him.

I find it incredibly ironic that his career my be upended by a 6/10 snack_girl when he really should be swimming in top shelf pussy. Serves him right for being a male feminist and endorsing this insanity

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His career will be fine. If they haven’t announced that his show is canceled, it won’t be. Just a very slight hiccup for a darling of the left.
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^^ He is already skipping award shows where he is nominated, If another chick makes an accusation that snowball just gets bigger........

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Rollo Tomassi weighed in on it:

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Quote:I’m going to make a confession here; until a week ago I had no idea who Aziz Ansari was. I get he was some low limit comedian, and in today’s social environment that means he lectures an audience about social justice issues for an hour while trying to insert some humor into his act. I’ve pretty much given up on most comedians these days, and I’m a guy who used to love standup. However, my unfamiliarity with Aziz was actually a benefit in assessing his recent pillory in the mainstream. Had I known about him before all this, and his comedy activism, I likely would’ve just dismissed his case as the next guy to be put into the MeToo deadpool of celebrity men – and I’m being generous about the “celebrity” part.

I had actually resigned myself to blowing off his whole story until I started digging into the particulars of the ‘date’ he had with the anonymous “Grace”. On first pass this whole incident is easy to dismiss even for Red Pill aware men with better things to do than bother themselves with another Hollywood chump to go down to the open power grab that MeToo and TimesUp have become. There is, however, a lot to unpack in the whole thing though. If you want the whole story you can read about it here on Babe.net, the blog for “Girls who don’t give a fuck”, which is interesting because apparently they give a lot of fucks according to the story.

Just to break down some of the particulars here:

She (Grace) approaches Aziz in the beginning. Flirts with him and then goes back to her date she was with that evening. They would catch each other glancing at the other durning the night (IOIs). They ‘ran into each other’ later and he number closes.
Aziz Beta texts her almost immediately and tries to text Game/flirt with her before he asks her out
Before meeting Ansari, she tells friends and coworkers about the date and consulted her go-to group chat about what she should wear to fit the “cocktail chic” dress-code he gave her. She settled on “a tank-top dress and jeans.” She showed me a picture, it was a good outfit.
After the white wine she didn’t like, they end up back at his place. She complimented his marble countertops. Ansari turned the compliment into an invitation. “He said something along the lines of, ‘How about you hop up and take a seat?’” Within moments, he was kissing her. “In a second, his hand was on my breast.” Then he was undressing her, then he undressed himself.
Ansari tells her he was going to get a condom within minutes of their first kiss, Grace voiced her hesitation explicitly. “I said something like, ‘Whoa, let’s relax for a sec, let’s chill.’” She says he then resumed kissing her, briefly performed oral sex on her, and asked her to do the same thing to him. She did, but not for long. “It was really quick. Everything was pretty much touched and done within ten minutes of hooking up, except for actual sex.”
Ansari repeatedly attempts ‘The Claw’. on her “The move he kept doing was taking his two fingers in a V-shape and putting them in my mouth, in my throat to wet his fingers, because the moment he’d stick his fingers in my throat he’d go straight for my vagina and try to finger me.” “It was 30 minutes of me getting up and moving and him following and sticking his fingers down my throat again. It was really repetitive. It felt like a fucking game.”
Ansari physically pulled her hand towards his penis multiple times throughout the night, from the time he first kissed her on the countertop onward. “He probably moved my hand to his dick five to seven times,” she said. “He really kept doing it after I moved it away.”
Ansari presses her for sex. He asks repeatedly, “Where do you want me to fuck you?” while she was on the countertop. She says she didn’t want to fuck him at all. He keeps asking, so she says, ‘Next time.’ Aziz says, ‘Oh, you mean second date?’ and she says, ‘Oh, yeah, sure,’ and he goes, ‘Well, if I poured you another glass of wine now, would it count as our second date?’
She later says she doesn’t want it to seem forced and this wakes Ansari up from his sexual stupor. “He said, ‘Oh, of course, it’s only fun if we’re both having fun. Let’s just chill over here on the couch.’ Ansari instructed her to turn around. “He sat back and pointed to his penis and motioned for me to go down on him. And I did. I think I just felt really pressured. It was literally the most unexpected thing I thought would happen at that moment because I told him I was uncomfortable.”
Halfway into the encounter, he led her from the couch to a different part of his apartment. He said he had to show her something. Then he brought her to a large mirror, bent her over and asked her again, “Where do you want me to fuck you? Do you want me to fuck you right here?” He rammed his penis against her ass while he said it, pantomiming intercourse.
They got dressed, sat side by side on the couch they’d already “chilled” on, and he turned on an episode of Seinfeld. While the TV played in the background, he kissed her again, stuck his fingers down her throat again, and moved to undo her pants. She turned away. “I remember saying, ‘You guys are all the same, you guys are all the fucking same.’” Ansari asked her what she meant. When she turned to answer, she says he met her with “gross, forceful kisses.” After that last kiss, Grace stood up from the couch, moved back to the kitchen island where she left her phone, and said she would call herself a car. He hugged her and kissed her goodbye, another “aggressive” kiss. When she pulled away, Ansari finally relented and insisted he’d call her the car.


All of this detail is important to consider because Ansari’s actions here are classic Beta Game desperation tactics. It is literally one Beta move after another. Many of the reviewers of this incident like to point out that it was really a misunderstood date gone wrong, or else they use it as proof-positive of a sexual assault, but I’m going to argue something different here – Ansari is simply a Beta chump with very little Game savvy who, if he’d had even a hint of Game awareness could’ve had a good sexual experience both for himself and her.

As I’ve mentioned before, I’m not a proponent of men attempting to push past last minute resistance. For as much as “enthusiastic consent” will be used as a tool of fear to dissuade Beta men from even attempting to approach, I can’t say that I wouldn’t want a woman to have a genuine desire to fuck me in any sexual episode. I can remember in my ‘rock star 20s’ doing exactly this. If a woman wasn’t into having sex with me or she had some reservations or some hoops she expected me to jump through in order to get her to “come around” to fucking me I would simply excuse myself from the situation. I was at a point in my life where I had many other (proven) options, and if a new prospect wasn’t an absolutely ‘enthusiastic’ “Hell Yes!” girl I had at least six other women who were eager to come over and fuck me. This was just a subconscious awareness I took for granted at the time, but it was an attitude that stemmed from abundance.

That was essentially my Game back then. It was the natural reflex of an Alpha man and women responded to it. The behaviors and attitudes I exhibited just flowed from my unrehearsed subconscious. It was who I was. Dread is much more effective for a man when a woman sees that he’s oblivious to his causing dread.

Most men never really experience this kind of sexual abundance and as such it colors their outlook and how they expect sex to work for them. One big problem inherent to men’s Blue Pill conditioning is the idea that sex must be negotiated for a woman to feel comfortable enough to fuck a guy, but more importantly in this era, to avoid any misunderstandings that would lead to his getting a sexual misconduct allegation. The Blue Pill teaches men to respect women by default, for no other reason than she has a vagina, but also that open communication, full disclosure and negotiation are necessary elements of sex. We can see this played out in the ludicrous expectation that every sex action a man involves himself in requires vocal enthusiastic consent. This is the acculturation; men are expected to negotiate every sexual detail of a sexual experience.

Needless to say this is patently ridiculous, but it’s also the surest way to kill the actual enthusiasm a woman might actually have for a guy. One thing that will separate Alpha men from Betas in the future will be that man’s honed capacity to remove himself from any sexual situation that is negotiated. Women want to play the Game, they don’t want the Game explained to them. They want a man who Just Gets It and the men who don’t get it will be the ones whose dutiful Blue Pill conditioning prompts them to start any and every approach at intimacy by negotiating the terms for a woman’s desire.

You cannot negotiate genuine desire, but this negotiation is exactly what modern feminism simultaneously fosters and struggles against. The idea of ‘enthusiastic consent’ is really a want on the part of women to have the sex they genuinely have a desire to experience with a man. This is all women want to write about now and the Ansari incident is a textbook example of the kind of negotiated sex women don’t want to have, but sometimes go through with for transactional reasons. Remember, sex with Alpha men is validational for women – lackluster ‘meh’ sex with Beta men is transactional sex. If you only read what women are writing about sex today you’d think that transactional sex is all they’ve ever been having – and sexist men see women as ‘soft’ prostitutes. Now it’s suddenly some revolutionary act for women to have the sex Alpha sex enjoyment they’ve always “deserved” but have been repressed by transactional sex with Betas.

That said, I can’t disagree entirely with the want for an enthusiastic sex partner who genuinely wants to fuck me 12 ways to Tuesday. And this is women’s rationale today, “Don’t you want to fuck a woman who really wants to fuck you?” It’s hard to argue against the “Hell Yes” girl, until you realize that the sex they are describing is only reserved for the guy they really want to bang and mistakenly believe their overinflated self-value warrants.

Now, I’ve read the debate from PUAs who make the point that it is entirely possible to make a ‘No’ girl into a ‘Hell Yes’ girl. I’ve seen the infield videos so I’ll spare you the linking. My question then is, after deftly applying Game and calibrating all the minutiae to do so, how does this compare to a woman who has a genuine desire for you from the start? I think one huge hurdle for guys unplugging from their Blue Pill conditioning have to face is the presupposition that sex is only the result of a process of negotiation. That negotiation is what the Blue Pill teaches boys and men from a very early age.

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The Ansari incident has a lot of Red Pill lessons to teach. First and foremost is the fact that Ansari is a consumate Beta. Looking at the guy he resembles any number of Indian computer programmers frustrated by a want for the secret formula to make a gorgeous American blonde with big tits fall in love with him. Don’t get me wrong, I counsel these men personally, but he fits that schema. Next, Ansari is a vocal and outspoken White Knight for feminism and regularly proves his male self-loathing as part of his standup act. I mean, the guy wears a Time’s Up pin. But like most male feminists, he gets hung by his own Beta Game bullshit – this is the fate of all male feminists.

Lastly, Ansari is a Beta who made good. I’ve talked about the Blue Pill White Knights and self-righteous AFCs in many a post, but I’m not sure I’ve emphasized how dangerous this mindset can be for a Beta who has a combination of affluence, celebrity and social proof. There comes a self-validation in that Blue Pill mindset when women want to be associated with him. He develops a belief that it’s his Blue Pill conditioning, and his adherence to it, that is the reason for his relative success with women. This insulates these guys from ever disconnecting from that conditioning, but it also lessens an incentive to see women in any other perspective. The result of this is exactly what Ansari experienced in this incident. He was too comfortable in presuming his pro-woman, female identifying, Beta Game would make his sexual expression ‘Okay’ with any woman who gave him positive sexual interest.

Another big indicator of this, and really much of Beta Game, was his repeated pawing of Grace and repeated sexual expressions with her. It wasn’t working as he believed it should, so what was his solution? Continue with the negotiation and hope for a positive sign of reinforcement from her. Every act that Ansari attempted with Grace was a form of negotiation. I can’t get sex? How about a blow job? No? Okay how about if I go down on you? She feels forced? Woah, default to female identification persona. Presume the sale, “How do you want me to fuck you?”

This is all one big negotiation – there is no genuine desire and no enthusiasm of the part of Grace – but since Ansari has never had the incentive to learn Game he keep going back to what he thinks should work on her.

To wrap all of this up, I should mention that the reason this whole affair went viral is should really be no surprise. It’s one more example of everything MeToo has been harping on for almost 5 months now, yes, but it’s also an illustration of exactly this new sentiment of the “grey area” sex I brought to light in Dangerous Times – Part 2. It’s sex women have out of courtesy (Aziz got a courtesy hummer) or convenience or just as something to do. It is exactly the obligated sex I’ve been talking about since The Desire Dynamic. This incident is exactly the story this ‘grey sex’ sentiment had needed, but in the larger picture it highlights the difference between transactional sex and validational sex.

As Open Hypergamy becomes yet more normalized it’s now time that the Feminine Imperative acknowledges the type of sex women desire and enjoy, and the type of sex they feel obligated to perform as part of a negotiation or transaction. And naturally the need to define what women’s Hypergamy dictates becomes a new form of shame for men. Evil Patriarchal men are to blame for women having to openly acknowledge that they only want to fuck Alpha men with any real enthusiasm. Men are to blame for validational and transactional sex, and now absolved, women can take the next steps in consolidating on Hypergamy.

No, there’s no current legislation that makes ‘unenthusiasitc sex’ a sex crime (yet), but remember that the sexual arms race is always fought in the court of public opinion before anything is written in ink.

I missed somehow the recent articles by Rollo on the issue.

I think that he makes the point of transactional vs validational (actual passionate sex for the sake of sex). Almost all the blokes in the #metoo column fall on the line of transactional sex that somehow was not repaid in the expected coin - movie role, becoming the girlfriend of the bloke she forced herself to blow.

And Rollo mentions an important aspect - the Blue Pill Game-less shmucks who become famous, successful or powerful while women throw themselves at them for this transactional value. They honestly believe that their Blue Pill credentials and comical Game make those pussies wet, while in reality it is 100% his status - the women even take the bad Game in stride because of the status. If they were not famous and only rich, then they would not have even fucked them or would have demanded actual money or commitment.
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^ the error in translation here is that with transactional sex, women believe that putting out is equivalent to putting 20% down on a mortgage, while the guys receiving think it's a good will offering.

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RE: Who Taught Aziz Ansari The Zero Date Bang Recipe?
Rollo makes a lot of sense, as per usual.
But I'm wondering how his "real desire cannot be negotiated" mantra translates into concrete rules or heuristics for the aspiring player?

Is he saying, that a man should next every woman who doesn't put out on the first date?
And how does a man determine, if a woman simply has no real desire for him or if she is a little bit more on the k-selection side (ergo needs a little bit more work).
Does the "desire cannot be negotiated" viewpoint even allow for a distinction between r and k selecting women?
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(01-25-2018 03:03 PM)Macomber Wrote:  Rollo makes a lot of sense, as per usual.
But I'm wondering how his "real desire cannot be negotiated" mantra translates into concrete rules or heuristics for the aspiring player?

Is he saying, that a man should next every woman who doesn't put out on the first date?
And how does a man determine, if a woman simply has no real desire for him or if she is a little bit more on the k-selection side (ergo needs a little bit more work).
Does the "desire cannot be negotiated" viewpoint even allow for a distinction between r and k selecting women?

You should read his works for that - Rollo became quite a devout Christian after his marriage, so all he did after his wild 20s is basically flirting and using Game on his wife and the young women he works with.

In the US he recommends sex on date 3 at the latest. If a woman lets a man wait longer, then she is not into him.

But of course that assumes that you as the man already know Game and have applied it sufficiently to know what turns on a woman and how to recognize arousal. For example a k-selected woman may be super-horny and wet, but with great resolve does not fuck you on the first date or even holds out on the second. Sometimes women strangely hold out longer with a man they can imagine something more than a man they just want to bang - which is frankly an insult to a man. The future husband material gets sex on the 4th date while the barkeeper downstairs gets a sex within 15 minutes.

What Rollo means by negotiation of sex is the Game those famous guys sometimes do - a fat ugly guy like Weinstein asking a girl whether she wants to watch him shower, an Aziz guy stuffing his fingers repeatedly into a girl's mouth to create arousal and asking a girl where she wants to be fucked (pressure to get verbal consent). Essentially those men are unaware of the arousal level of those women and the women are only with them because the fame factor. To put it bluntly - if those blokes had wived up the women, then as wives they would find a myriad excuses for not fucking them. Since she had gotten what she wanted from them in the form a material marriage transaction, she would be free to withhold sex, because she would have no desire to fuck them in the first place anyway.
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I am sorry if this is a duplicate. Here is Molyneux talking with some guy named Owen Benjamin about the situation. He points out that Asari has been a feminist who makes fun of men. I think Asari dealt himself the cards. Now he has to play them.





More and more, Ansari should have been aware of the major red flag during his first encounter. This whore was on a date with another guy when he got her phone number. A guy like Sean Connery or George Clooney would have rejected her in a heartbeat.
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RE: Who Taught Aziz Ansari The Zero Date Bang Recipe?
Ansari was a victim of 2 things:

1. Not being into the girl enough
2. Believing his position as a famous dude could give him a free pass to not have to escalate

This wasn't rape, but he showed us a really shitty attempt at handling some last minute resistance.

I can't relate to celebrities using their fame on regular people to get laid. But, I've learned my lesson about going after girls I'm not really into. I'd rather be a sex camel and go sexless than half-heartedly banging some average girl. He wasn't into this girl and wanted to skip everything.

This has happened to me when I was on my plight to rack up notches. I learned that shit ain't for me, if the quality is low, like this girl. Just pass on it. You're doing you and her a favor to just go for someone you're actually into.

Feminists are up in arms and saying this is rape are exaggerating, but some have a point. The goal is obviously not affirmative consent, signing some waiver before sex. The goal should be 'enthusiastic consent.' On both sides.

If a girl is not enthusiastic, if not a little nervous, about banging you, you're doing something wrong.
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02-08-2018 04:14 AM
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RE: Who Taught Aziz Ansari The Zero Date Bang Recipe?
(02-08-2018 04:14 AM)Kamikaze Wrote:  Ansari was a victim of 2 things:

1. Not being into the girl enough
2. Believing his position as a famous dude could give him a free pass to not have to escalate

This wasn't rape, but he showed us a really shitty attempt at handling some last minute resistance.

I can't relate to celebrities using their fame on regular people to get laid. But, I've learned my lesson about going after girls I'm not really into. I'd rather be a sex camel and go sexless than half-heartedly banging some average girl. He wasn't into this girl and wanted to skip everything.

This has happened to me when I was on my plight to rack up notches. I learned that shit ain't for me, if the quality is low, like this girl. Just pass on it. You're doing you and her a favor to just go for someone you're actually into.

Feminists are up in arms and saying this is rape are exaggerating, but some have a point. The goal is obviously not affirmative consent, signing some waiver before sex. The goal should be 'enthusiastic consent.' On both sides.

If a girl is not enthusiastic, if not a little nervous, about banging you, you're doing something wrong.

Completely disagree. If you only bang girls that are already enthusiastic about banging you, you're walking away from a lot of potential pussy.

In many, if not most, cases of first-time sex there will be a struggle in the girl's brain between reason telling her to stay put and her monkey mojo telling her to spread her legs. Your goal is to make monkey mojo overcome reason, if even by the narrowest margin - the thin close.

Again, if you only bang the girls who are already enthusiastic, because reason and mojo monkey agree you are the bee's knees, then she is probably convinced already that your SMV is higher than hers. Maybe that's the case, maybe you gamed her well in the early phases, but still: you are basically giving up on any girl who is NOT convinced yet. Why?

Some of those girls will put out, and some of them will come back enthusiastically next time. What kind of basketball player only shoots if it's a lay-up? I don't understand this mindset.
02-08-2018 01:28 PM
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RE: Who Taught Aziz Ansari The Zero Date Bang Recipe?
Guess I should clarify: in some cases the scenario is the opposite - girl wants to have sex with you for some non-sexy reason but the gina is not tingling. Obviously that was the case with this girl and Ansari.

Also, saying feminists who call this rape are just "exaggerating" and "have a point" doesn't sit well with me. The girl willingly sucked the guy's dick, twice. Whether she was "uncomfortable" or whatever the excuse is, there is no reason for men to go along when women as usual fail to take any responsibility for their own stupid actions and blame it all on men, or, in this case, an IRT feminist cuck non-funny comedian.
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RE: Who Taught Aziz Ansari The Zero Date Bang Recipe?
(02-08-2018 01:28 PM)Akwesi Wrote:  if you only bang the girls who are already enthusiastic... you are basically giving up on any girl who is NOT convinced yet.

You based your two posts on the premise that this is what I meant by my post. It's not.

As you and I both said, hesitation and nerves are a normal part of first-time sex. But in my view, it should not predominate. It's a gradient. And positive enthusiasm and willingness should clearly overtake regular first time jitters.

We all have different thresholds for this stuff. I've only had sex with a seriously drunk girl a handful of times, and it's always been with a girlfriend, never first time sex. I want to feel like I won her mind over with no performance enhancers, apart from perhaps a drink or two as a simple social lubricant.

To me a victory is not the notch. A win is when the girl is truly into me, when I specifically did several things to gain access to a sopping wet, willing, yet slightly nervous pussy. At some point I stopped counting how many pussies I've been in. I just remember the ones that were worth it.

I want to MAKE a girl enthusiastic about getting fucked by me. That's the whole point of this shit to me. If enthusiastic sex is not your goal, we're not playing the same game.

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Also, that basketball analogy was terrible. If I can score 50 ppg off just layups, you bet your ass I'll only shoot layups. That is, if I was naturally attracted to girls who were easy for me to get, I would have no problem banging them endlessly. To be even more concrete, yea, it'd be pretty fuckin great to be Leo DiCaprio.

On a related note. Steph Curry can shoot from 3 feet inside half court and no one thinks twice about it.

But if DeAndre Jordan shoots from the same spot...
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02-09-2018 12:53 AM
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RE: Who Taught Aziz Ansari The Zero Date Bang Recipe?
A woman I know just doxxed someone on Fetlife. She basically complained about the fact that she fucked him and then learned that he had a girl friend. She wrote two long posts about him to warn everyone else. She also went so far as to give out his first name.

In this BDSM community, this is a major taboo. You do not give out personal information that people do not want revealed.

Anyway, her post was as much a confession as anything else. She basically told everyone this:

"I am easily manipulated. If you are a good manipulator, I will fuck you. I will fuck you even if I don't know you well. My relationship failures are not my fault."

I suspect Ansari is inspring more women to make these big declarations on sites like Fetlife. I wonder if it will find its way over to Facebook.

This woman happens to be 35. She's showing the emotional maturity of a teenager.
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02-09-2018 01:12 AM
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Hah - cannot disagree with him. Game certainly makes those kind of accusations far less likely. And this guy is more of the MGTOW slight Game-affirming variety - even he can see the power of Game and how creating real arousal and attraction changes how women view sex. Contractual sex or quid-pro-quo sex must be reciprocated with a relationship, marriage, movie contract, career help, fame, money etc.
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02-21-2018 01:18 PM
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RE: Who Taught Aziz Ansari The Zero Date Bang Recipe?
Looks like he's upgraded his taste in women...

EXCLUSIVE: Aziz Ansari's mystery new love is revealed to be Danish physics PhD student, 29, who expressed doubts about the #MeToo movement
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Quote:The 'mystery brunette' spotted getting cozy with comic Aziz Ansari is a physicist from Denmark who has spent ten years living in London where she is studying to get her PhD, DailymailTV can reveal.

Serena Campbell, 29, a Kings College, London, academic, was pictured with the comedian taking in the action from the plum seats at the U.S Open Tennis Championships at Flushing, New York, last Monday.


Serena's mom Kirsten, who lives in Denmark, has confirmed to DailyMail.com that her daughter was in the picture – but declined to comment on the nature of her relationship with the star.

'Yes, it is my daughter, but I don't want to say any more,' she said.

Campbell is a researcher studying for her PhD at London's King's College, one of the world's top-ranked universities. She is specializing in plasmonics, the study of electromagnetic fields.

And Campbell is also a mentor to a British project to launch a satellite which will seek to find out the weather patterns on planets outside the solar system using the ultra-violet light spectrum, part of her expertise.


Last year she she told her Facebook friends she was traveling from London to South Korea in July last year for what's dubbed the world's leading conference in her field.

A day later, friends told her how proud they were when she posted pictures from the event, with one commenting: 'Proud of how far you have traveled in your life. Well done.'

Another called her a 'superstar', saying: 'Looks like an amazing event and we'll (sic) done on all your years of learning to get you there.'

Ansari, 35, did not appear intimidated by her academic achievements as the pair were pictured smiling and laughing, with the Master of None star whispering in her ear and waving at the crowd at the U.S Open last Monday – indicating he appears to be moving on from controversial sexual misconduct allegations earlier this year.

The physicist also seems to be unfazed by the allegations leveled against her new beau and was seen holding hands with him in New York City in early August.

Campbell often shares pieces of her academic work on her Facebook page, and ironically, she once shared an article questioning the the MeToo movement, a few months before Ansari was himself accused of sexual misconduct.


In October 2017, she shared an article titled, 'Literally, Why Can't I Say #MeToo?' by Total Sorority Move, in which the female author says she struggles to identify as a victim because she feels her own experiences with sexual misconduct, are not 'bad enough.'


In January, Ansari was accused of sexual misconduct when an anonymous 23-year-old woman from Brooklyn claimed he ignored her verbal and non-verbal cues and repeatedly tried to pressure her into having sex with him after they went on a date last September.

The accusations were made in a story on Babe.net, where the woman, under the pseudonym 'Grace' alleged that she had felt 'violated' by the comic's overly-aggressive gestures.

Ansari responded saying they'd 'ended up engaging in sexual activity', which by all indications was completely consensual.

Ansari said that the woman subsequently texted him that 'she felt uncomfortable' which left him 'surprised and concerned' in hearing her sentiments.

'I took her words to heart,' Ansari said, and 'responded privately' after taking the time to process what she had said.

He added that he supported the #MeToo movement, and says he feels that it is 'necessary and long overdue.'

The story, however, was met with mixed responses with some criticizing the reporting of the incident and the woman's narrative.

Critics of the self-identified 'feminist' actor claimed his actions were misogynistic, lacked affirmative consent and furthered the cultural subordination of women.


Others, however, were critical of his accuser's narrative saying their encounter did not constitute sexual misconduct and also trivialized the larger #MeToo movement.

Ansari stayed off the stage for four months until May, when he performed a set at New York City's Comedy Cellar, a move replicated by Louis C.K. last month amid his own sexual misconduct scandal.

The Emmy-winning star been touring his new show, Aziz Ansari Working Out New Material.
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(09-12-2018 01:27 AM)WalterBlack Wrote:  Looks like he's upgraded his taste in women...

That dude still has some serious crazy eyes, but I cannot knock his taste in women now. VERY NICE.

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