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RE: Women without kids tend to go batshit insane
(12-31-2017 11:01 AM)questor70 Wrote: There's a part of me that harbors the fantasy of an older woman who has never had kids. In theory it would mean she's far less encumbered and can focus more on the relationship. In practice it's turned out to be red-flag, not that single moms are great either. Older women in general are a basket of issues.
This is metaphor for life in general. After 60, things tend to go in one direction. And it's not up.
Think about life: We all wanted to marry the beautiful but low-drama, surprisingly-normal "girl next door" type. Few of us did; some of us thought we did but it turned out her "family values" were a predilection for frivorce.
But let's pretend you did land the beauty next door AND she was a good wife and mother: She stayed more attractive than most into her 40s...and sometimes even her 50s. But her time and energy went into the kids not you. Giving birth to 2-3 children stretched out her vagina to a point where it was hard for you to come from having sex with her. By her 60s, her looks are completely gone and you realize her personality, while better than most women, was never as good as your guy friends. You're basically tethered to an old lady the rest of your life. Your (and her) health becomes increasingly compromised until one or both of you is in a nursing home at 90. Ever been to one of those places? They are DREADFUL. The main joy you get out of life post-60 is watching your now-28 year old kids tackle life the way you once did. You're proud of the way they do this. And grandkids - those are a lot of fun! They're cute and when they start to crap their pants or cry, you hand them off to the parents to deal with it  So in a nutshell, in old age, the biggest thrills come from...vicariously watching others enjoy the thrill of youth.
So yeah, women go from being exciting and fun and playful and a thrilling challenge, to being a shit-show over the course of 20-30 years. And so does life, basically. Not that i'm being a pessimist. I'm going to try to find a way out of that paradigm. Not sure exactly how yet.
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RE: Women without kids tend to go batshit insane
(12-31-2017 03:48 PM)IvanDrago Wrote: That post was a joke. But if given a choice between hanging around in a bar with older women who dress and look like in the pictures above or going home alone, I'll go home alone
Of course. Ugly is ugly. Those pictures are dreadful! But don't have a knee-jerk reaction that says because a woman is over 40, she isn't fuckable. I did that several times. One time, i was in a bar with a group of friends, and one of their friends was HOT. I was probably 35 at the time. And Barb had not only a cute face, but a killer body - thin, with the biggest natural tits! But she made the mistake of telling me she was 45. And my ego said "i do NOT need to stoop to fucking a 45 year old woman!". She made some pretense to ask me to drive her home, so i did. She invited me in. I TOTALLY could've smashed that cute girl, who looked 32, and her tig ol' bitties. But i passed, my ego insisted on it.
I still look back on it in regret. You just do NOT see natural boobs like that too often! And she was hot enough to get me hard - who cares what her birth certificate said? Sofia Vergara is over 40, and she could still get me off in a heartbeat! Some people just have good genes. And do you know what? That women is mid 50s now. And STILL looks bangable! You just don't know.
The moral of the story, boys, is: Don't listen to the calendar. Listen to your dick - it always knows!
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RE: Women without kids tend to go batshit insane
(12-31-2017 02:43 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote: (12-31-2017 02:30 PM)The Father Wrote: When you hit your late 40's, your interaction with 20-something broads becomes more limited. And not just because the girls are only interested in you for money, which is something of a boner-killer. It's also because listening to the relentless prattle of a 20-something woman is unbearable for a mature man, like the proverbial nails on a chalkboard (ask your dad what a chalkboard was). The 8 seconds of pleasure isn't worth the 8 hours of bullshit. So yes, I actually talk to women within 10 years of my own age - and what do you do?
I am in my early 40's and I understand where Father is coming from. I primary have sex with women in their 20's and listing to them prattle on about nothing while on Snapchat is torture. My problem with older chicks is they just do not have that glow younger girls do, and they are bitter. But Father is right, once you are in your 40's you have to really work at being around young women, they truly have nothing going on upstairs.
I just turned 35 and I can't stand vapid girls in their 20's. It is really a severe pain in the tit to have any kind of conversation with them because they are empty-headed morons. I know plenty of men who have zero intellectual interests whom I can still talk to about abstract things or at least can hold a conversation beyond trifling junk. But the young female mind is nothing but trifling junk. It's all about the guys who want to fuck them or their friends-- breathless humblebragging if the guy is "hot" or grossed out "OMG look at what I put up with" if he's "creepy"-- or which celebrity is fucking which other celebrity, or shit movies or shittier pop music. Even university educated girls. You see that vid of the young girls dancing outside to the dirty rap song in Roosh's twitter feed? I'd fuck each one of those girls till her pussy broke or my dick fell off. The effort to get any one of them would damn near kill me, though.
To game them I'd have to summon my clowniest clown game. Make sure I wear a tight shirt that shows off my muscles, turn off my brain, do not even attempt to say something that may construe I've ever read a book in my life, attempt to say things they find funny (what does a retard find clever?), and sometimes I say something "deep" (banal quotes from instagram pass for wisdom in a retard's mind). Eight hours of pain for a couple hours worth of having my way with some tight and firm vagina, if I don't fuck it up. And it's painful and grating and I somewhat hate myself for it.
Not that women in their 30's are immune to this. The aging process applies to dummies too. A couple of years ago I was banging a 38 year old MILF. Had a young daughter and all, but her mentality was pure high school. Introspection, abstract thinking, questioning and searching for truth and wisdom. Women don't do those. Any of them.
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RE: Women without kids tend to go batshit insane
I've noticed many quality women staying single not necessarily due to partying, but due to arrogance. They think they're better than every guy.
They're legitimately hot and have some brains, are educated, but they become so stuck up and self-centered they continually turn down solid options with men because they think they're too good for every guy out there.
Some old school woman did an interview explaining that paying women more would lead to this. Women will now view most men as beneath them and end up alone. At age 32 it's still fresh in their mind of how much they got hit on when they were 17-23.
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RE: Women without kids tend to go batshit insane
Regarding younger women:
I was recently hanging out with a young couple, having a couple of drinks and wings, and I was thoroughly impressed by how "woke" they were; it gives me some genuine hope for the future, the second-half of the Millenials is very much earning the nickname "Generation Zyklon".
But that said - Good God, they were naive! It was like a young kid walking up to a Chess Grandmaster and trying to tell him about the game. Every conversation topic I had to bite my tongue - something that was brand new and exciting to them was something I'd been through a dozen times, and analyzed from every possible angle. They need to figure this stuff out on their own - all I can do is provide leading questions to challenge their prior assumptions.
Contrast that to my girlfriend, who's 27. I can bring up something like the Westphalian system of international diplomacy, and she knows what I'm talking about. She's experienced, without being rode hard and put away wet. The female half of the young couple was attractive, no doubt - but there was no way I could have had any designs on her. The experience gap is just too vast.
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RE: Women without kids tend to go batshit insane
45 year old Cameron Diaz frustrated she can't get pregnant:
http://www.msn.com/en-us/movies/celebrit...id=UE07DHP
Quote:Since tying the knot three years ago, the actress, 45, and the Good Charlotte singer, 38, have tried everything from IVF to acupuncture and supplements to conceive — to no avail. “It’s been a long, hard struggle with many ups and downs,” says the source. “Cameron would love more than anything to be a mom.”
Did she skip freshman biology? There's something about fertility... (pun intended).
Hope all those shitty romantic comedies were worth it. 90 minutes of horseshit filming in your "career" was more important than losing your figure with a pregnancy now you're going to pay the piper.
Too bad she has great genetics that will go the way of the dodo bird.
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RE: Women without kids tend to go batshit insane
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RE: Women without kids tend to go batshit insane
(12-30-2017 01:00 PM)The Father Wrote: It's as if nature (which is very, very efficient) says: "Well you no longer have a role in perpetuating the future (unlike men, who can reproduce until old and who also protect the tribe from outside attack), so...not much point in wasting any more resources on you!". And their minds and bodies break down and the elements recycled into the universe.
There was, is and always will be one insurance policy for this - a woman who marries early, raises great kids, keeps a tidy home, maintains her body and stays an enthusiastic sexual partner earns her "retirement" later in life.
Women realize this equation too late in life and it drives them insane. Feminists HATE this because they know the only way to be relevant after 40 is by being attached to a man.
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RE: Women without kids tend to go batshit insane
I find it hilarious when guys talk about how they can't talk to young women because they're so vapid and stupid.
Do you really think they get better with age? No, they do not. They just get crazier.
Unless you're a retard, stop looking for your equal. You won't be happy if you find it, and you'd be better off with a different frame. They're childlike, irresponsible beings that need your guidance. Stop trying to have good conversations with them, that's what your male friends are for.
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RE: Women without kids tend to go batshit insane
(01-04-2018 03:20 AM)Malone Wrote: I find it hilarious when guys talk about how they can't talk to young women because they're so vapid and stupid.
Do you really think they get better with age? No, they do not. They just get crazier.
Unless you're a retard, stop looking for your equal. You won't be happy if you find it, and you'd be better off with a different frame. They're childlike, irresponsible beings that need your guidance. Stop trying to have good conversations with them, that's what your male friends are for.
I think many men, even here, are still subconsciously programmed to follow the equality model in relationship instead of the biblical "man is the leader, woman is the helper" model. The equality model is insidious, it is everywhere in our modern culture and sometimes it's hard to see how much it's invaded every part of your life and thoughts.
If at some level, you still think your woman is your equal, you will try to talk intellectually to her as if she is your male friend. And that is the road to disappointments and bitterness (especially for men around this part of the Internet) and ruins (for blue-pilled betas that wife them up).
A woman is a childlike being that needs your leadership and guidance, as said above, and her childlike silly nature is also your retreat and source of amusement. Never treat her as your equal, she would hate and destroy you for it.
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