Quote:Childlessness And Premature Death Link
Published Thursday 6 December 2012 By Joseph Nordqvist
People who have never had children are more likely to die prematurely and develop mental problems than those who have had children, researchers from Aarhus University, Denmark, reported in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health.
The authors added that the link between shorter lifespans, mental health and childlessness is particularly noticeable among women.
Quote:A separate Danish study reported in July 2012 that females with fertility problems who remained childless were much more likely to have psychiatric problems than their counterparts who had at least one baby.
Quote:The authors also found that:
Premature death risk from accidents, cancers and circulatory diseases was four times greater among childless women than women who gave birth to at least one child
Premature death risk from circulatory diseases, accidents and cancer among childless women was twice as high compared to women who never had biological children but adopted at least one child
Science!
As for the 'cat lady' thing, single women fail to land a man and buy a cat. Why a cat?
- Aloof
- Doesn't really need her
- Just uses her out of convenience
- Comes and goes at it wishes
- Gives affection rarely but gets it on demand
- ZFG
- 11/10 Alpha as fuck
Nothing to read into there, I'm sure.
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(12-31-2017 04:23 AM)Kapanda Wrote: Not ashamed to admit I banged an over 40 childless chick at a club.
You went after a woman over 40 who still goes out to clubs at that age ?
Didn't go after her, no.
I would (and did) bang a chick that looks mid 30s, no problem. Would you not?
Your first post clearly said you banged over 40 childless chick at a club.
So, if you didn't go after what was likely the club's oldest female customer (whose ovaries are about to expire from non usage)..then what happened ?
Did she trip on the dancefloor and land on your dick ?
12-31-2017 09:41 AM
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There's a part of me that harbors the fantasy of an older woman who has never had kids. In theory it would mean she's far less encumbered and can focus more on the relationship. In practice it's turned out to be red-flag, not that single moms are great either. Older women in general are a basket of issues.
12-31-2017 11:01 AM
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(12-30-2017 01:58 PM)Ski pro Wrote: After a certain age one of the things that women hate most is that they effectively become invisible to men. No IOIs, no attention, nothing. Drives them insane.
Every woman I know who is childless and beyond 40 is nuts. It's the sudden awakening that they've pissed away their prime years to attract a mate and they are doing this mad trolley dash around the market looking for a man, men they wouldn't have even considered years ago, desperate for someone to knock them up and take their very slim chances that they can pump out a defective baby.
I know two women like this, one is 48 and beyond the range if having kids. She spends her time getting drunk and fucking any guy drunk enough to have sex with her. Engage her in a normal conversation is impossible, she's just crazy.
The other is 43 and still on the dating scene in Geneva, endlessly swiping right, going on dates, looking for someone. Anyone. 10 or 20 years ago she probably would have made someone a great wife and mother as she's pretty caring but she pissed that away for a corporate career and drinks with the girls..
It's just sad.
I would say any woman north of 35 who is not married AND has no kids will be showing these signs/red flags to any man who has his eyes open.
12-31-2017 11:34 AM
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I am 42, I find women my age to be disgusting. Women over 35 are a crime against humanity-If drunk I will still fuck them. I did not invent the ravages of time, do not judge me.
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(12-31-2017 12:33 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote: Women over 35 are a crime against humanity.
I wouldn't go that far. I know a lot of older women who help raise grandchildren, volunteer at nursing homes, homeless shelters and churches. They are generally pleasant to be around and definitely not the types who get drunk in clubs with their flabby arms and gut folds hanging out of skin tight dresses like in the photos above.
12-31-2017 01:09 PM
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The fact is when you don't have kids there's no clear signal to stop behaving like a young adult. It's just that over time it starts to look weird to keep doing it because if you start to look your age people assume you're married with kids and those types of people should be home and not riding the carousel.
BTW, this is purely an isolated anecdote, but the nurse I dated who had paid her way through nursing school by stripping was 39 and she was totally into modern dance music and clubbing. I'm sure part of her interest in dancing was the residual effect of the stripping (as strippers hamster the shame away by calling it 'exotic dancing') but another part of it was her trying to avoid facing the aging process for as long as possible. Of course, all these things come to an end which is why when she dumped me she said she was dedicated to getting married within a year, and she did, to some homely FOB African immigrant. BTW, she also had a cat that she treated like a child. She even insisted on holistic vet care for him (she was big into new-age ala The Secret).
That was one of two relationships I was in with older women who hadn't had kids and they both had gotten to that point due to "issues".
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(12-30-2017 04:48 PM)IvanDrago Wrote: You guys associate with childless women beyond their early 30s? That's weird dude.
When you hit your late 40's, your interaction with 20-something broads becomes more limited. And not just because the girls are only interested in you for money, which is something of a boner-killer. It's also because listening to the relentless prattle of a 20-something woman is unbearable for a mature man, like the proverbial nails on a chalkboard (ask your dad what a chalkboard was). The 8 seconds of pleasure isn't worth the 8 hours of bullshit. So yes, I actually talk to women within 10 years of my own age - and what do you do?
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(12-30-2017 06:23 PM)El Chinito loco Wrote: Since women tend to live way longer than men the west will have a whole legion of these ancient purple haired cat ladies
(12-30-2017 03:57 PM)Captain Gh Wrote: I vividly remember the advise The Father gave in one of his thread about working with women. The solution was simple! TRANSFER TRANSFER TRANSFER if you want to stay with the company, or find another job. Boy oh Boy was he right! Not only have I one female manager that's insane , but her boss is also on the verge of losing it. These women will use absolutely every interaction to pass on the repressed anger they have. The worst part is they have no Goddamn clue why they're so angry, while every one else's just watching the train wreck! Needless to say, exit plan is in the Work!
Good advice. I will add by pointing that every so often you do run into an older woman with kids who is great to work for. Most of them are mid-level administrators or managers with a good home life who are just there because their family needs the cash. Not all of them good to work with(some are just OCD or otherwise nuts), but all the women I've known who were great to work with were of that type. It can be especially beneficial to have them on good terms if they're recent empty nesters and you're either the same age or a bit younger than their youngest kid. If they like you instinctively slot you into that "part of the brood" category and can become extremely strong career boosters.
(12-30-2017 06:20 PM)Pancho Wrote: I mean Ann Coulter is what? 56?
She's never had a kid, yet she keeps talking about the importance of the traditional family and what not.
Because Ann Coulter is a cynical opportunist. Never forget that she shilled for cucks like Romney and McCain.
And Bush.
Never-married, childless career chick in her 50's who likes Bush...hmmm...
(12-30-2017 04:48 PM)IvanDrago Wrote: You guys associate with childless women beyond their early 30s? That's weird dude.
Not ashamed to admit I banged an over 40 childless chick at a club. She was hot, tits were perky. Would not have guessed if she hadn't told me.
I've known women as old as 47 who had banging-hot bodies. It's the great exception, of course, just like Bernard Hopkins was fighting competitively to 50. But it does happen.
(12-30-2017 04:48 PM)IvanDrago Wrote: You guys associate with childless women beyond their early 30s? That's weird dude.
When you hit your late 40's, your interaction with 20-something broads becomes more limited. And not just because the girls are only interested in you for money, which is something of a boner-killer. It's also because listening to the relentless prattle of a 20-something woman is unbearable for a mature man, like the proverbial nails on a chalkboard (ask your dad what a chalkboard was). The 8 seconds of pleasure isn't worth the 8 hours of bullshit. So yes, I actually talk to women within 10 years of my own age - and what do you do?
I am in my early 40's and I understand where Father is coming from. I primary have sex with women in their 20's and listing to them prattle on about nothing while on Snapchat is torture. My problem with older chicks is they just do not have that glow younger girls do, and they are bitter. But Father is right, once you are in your 40's you have to really work at being around young women, they truly have nothing going on upstairs.
(12-30-2017 04:48 PM)IvanDrago Wrote: You guys associate with childless women beyond their early 30s? That's weird dude.
When you hit your late 40's, your interaction with 20-something broads becomes more limited. And not just because the girls are only interested in you for money, which is something of a boner-killer. It's also because listening to the relentless prattle of a 20-something woman is unbearable for a mature man, like the proverbial nails on a chalkboard (ask your dad what a chalkboard was). The 8 seconds of pleasure isn't worth the 8 hours of bullshit. So yes, I actually talk to women within 10 years of my own age - and what do you do?
I am in my early 40's and I understand where Father is coming from. I primary have sex with women in their 20's and listing to them prattle on about nothing while on Snapchat is torture. My problem with older chicks is they just do not have that glow younger girls do, and they are bitter. But Father is right, once you are in your 40's you have to really work at being around young women, they truly have nothing going on upstairs.
The only way i get through it is to pretend they are little kids...you've hung around little girls, who prattle on about their dollies or stuffed horses. It's mind-numbingly childish, but because it's what a child is SUPPOSED to do, you smile and go humor them. Well, i don't happen to think a 26 year old should be as immature as western women are (because i've met 21 year old eastern european women who were NOT immature). But, i pretend they are little children and smile and nod and humor them, and that's the only way i can date a 20-something american girl. But even then, i can only handle that 2-3x a month.
(12-30-2017 04:48 PM)IvanDrago Wrote: You guys associate with childless women beyond their early 30s? That's weird dude.
When you hit your late 40's, your interaction with 20-something broads becomes more limited. And not just because the girls are only interested in you for money, which is something of a boner-killer. It's also because listening to the relentless prattle of a 20-something woman is unbearable for a mature man, like the proverbial nails on a chalkboard (ask your dad what a chalkboard was). The 8 seconds of pleasure isn't worth the 8 hours of bullshit. So yes, I actually talk to women within 10 years of my own age - and what do you do?
I am in my early 40's and I understand where Father is coming from. I primary have sex with women in their 20's and listing to them prattle on about nothing while on Snapchat is torture. My problem with older chicks is they just do not have that glow younger girls do, and they are bitter. But Father is right, once you are in your 40's you have to really work at being around young women, they truly have nothing going on upstairs.
The only way i get through it is to pretend they are little kids...you've hung around little girls, who prattle on about their dollies or stuffed horses. It's mind-numbingly childish, but because it's what a child is SUPPOSED to do, you smile and go humor them. Well, i don't happen to think a 26 year old should be as immature as western women are (because i've met 21 year old eastern european women who were NOT immature). But, i pretend they are little children and smile and nod and humor them, and that's the only way i can date a 20-something american girl. But even then, i can only handle that 2-3x a month.
Easter European women who are 16 are like American women who are 36. Eastern Europe offers a hard life and those women mature quickly, they know struggle and are better for it.
(12-30-2017 04:48 PM)IvanDrago Wrote: You guys associate with childless women beyond their early 30s? That's weird dude.
When you hit your late 40's, your interaction with 20-something broads becomes more limited. And not just because the girls are only interested in you for money, which is something of a boner-killer. It's also because listening to the relentless prattle of a 20-something woman is unbearable for a mature man, like the proverbial nails on a chalkboard (ask your dad what a chalkboard was). The 8 seconds of pleasure isn't worth the 8 hours of bullshit. So yes, I actually talk to women within 10 years of my own age - and what do you do?
That post was a joke. But if given a choice between hanging around in a bar with older women who dress and look like in the pictures above or going home alone, I'll go home alone unless they have a circle of younger friends that I run in to routinely. In that case, I try to be charming and and flirt a bit with the old leather while not paying much attention to the younger women in the group and see where that goes over time.
I still have good luck with women who are recently out of college (or similarly aged) who have older female friends. Of course it never happens over night, the chick I'm banging now was friends of some non trads at her school. A couple years ago while in school, she wouldn't talk to me or even sit at the same table as us. Out of the blue one night a year after meeting her, she texted me to come over and it was off to the races. The only thing that sucks about it is it has to be on the DL or the old hens would go nuclear.
I am sure my mindset is going to change over the next handful of years though. I have been fortunate to not have any hair loss or grey yet but I know that wall is right around the corner.
As far as it goes talking with young vs. older women, I find I don't have anything more in common with older women than I do young women. Sure, the older women might be able to quote something from Seinfeld or some 80s movie but that's where it usually ends. As long as a younger women is fairly intelligent and can hold a conversation about something without looking at her phone, I enjoy their company. Even if the topic of conversation is lame, at least there is some passion and life in the conversation.