Post: #26

hey dash, im new to this forum. Im a hispanic american (speak perfect spanish) who has lived in colombia (especially medellin) and has visited and stayed in other cities there. currently im in joao pessoa brazil. I'm actually planning on going back to colombia (this time bucaramanga and it will be my first time) next august for a couple of months and like you have the feeling that a 2nd tier city in colombia is where its at. However, i dont think based on the criterion you mentioned Pereira is such a good fit. I only stayed there 5 days but it had more of an ugly town vibe. Sure the women seem slutty and accesible( i only banged one and kissed a few)and love to party. However I didnt find them as physically attractive as paisas. Also, (since im in my mid 30's) it seems more like a place for a young 20 something gringo who speak some spanish to party and slay for a couple of weeks. I'm betting on Bucaramanga being my 2nd tier colombian city for the long haul.

Post: #27

Just sent out an ASS LOAD of messages to chicks 7+ on ColombianCupid from Pereira and Bucara.

Will be having to turn off my wall and ability for girls to leave picture comments and shit within a few days on Facebook.

Them bitches will blow up your shit and too many at the same time from the same town will look suspicious! lol

Post: #28

doing some research ive heard women from bucaramanga are the most bravas or stubborn in colombia. i dont know how that would translate in trying to bang them.

Post: #29

(09-18-2011 03:37 PM)chochemonger1 Wrote:  doing some research ive heard women from bucaramanga are the most bravas or stubborn in colombia. i dont know how that would translate in trying to bang them.

from what I gathered it doesnt really play any roll in fucking them as long as you stay on their good side and dont piss them off. lol

Bout to start getting gathering intel on Pereira. Report will follow!

Post: #30

I am having some strange occurrences on ColombianCupid.

There has been a number of girls that have NOT responded to my messages.

I have a great pic of myself, young, goodlooking ect and just dont get it. Maybe im over analyzing things. It has been only 2 days....

This is perplexing the hell out of me!

On another note: Looks like ill be choosing between Pereira, Manizales, Armenia, and Cali. Backup options include Bucara and Quilla.

Post: #31

Ok well i am in Medellin as i type this, and this is about my 15th visit to Colombia and almost every major city, the only other person I defer to on here in Mixx jejeje he knows his shit. I hesitate to post what city I would recommend, but pm me. As for choch periera girls ARE paisas, as are people from armenia, manizales and Medellin and all of the antioquia region and a few others. I should know I have lived here twice for short periods. Girls from periera are great, and hot, and obviously you didn't go the the right spots, there is a great, clean safe upscale zone rosa area there that is amazing, but I'm not telling JA!

Bello, BAD idea. Still dangerous for a gringo. But does have a lot of hot girls, and it's just a barrio of Medellin. Right now I live in a barrio of Medellin. People associate Medellin with parque lleras and nothing else. Medellin is so much more and most girls are pretty easy to fuck, my 2 friends that live here have about a 85% first date lay. Of course they aren't shaggin 10s but hey...

I hate being around gringos too, but think about how big a city like new York city is, now imagine if every tourist only hung out in the meatpacking district consisting of 8 sq blocks, that how lleras is with the gringos. A few more sometimes go to envigado but No one ever goes to calle 33 or rarely sabaneta, or Belen, or barrio Colombia, if so it's that one cool gringo who doesn't want to be around other gringos jajaja

If you want the hot ones you definitely need to get out in the community and play social circle game and really just meet girls during the day, but that's a whole other topic.

Santa Marta has a LOT of hot girls, just don't go to la puerta! I have a few girls there now that are stunning and great girls. Cali is great for just getting laid girls are hot, dress sexy, and love to fuck just too hot for me. Shit this girl nearly killed me yesterday, all colomianas are cliente.

As for colombiancupid, JAJAJAJAJAJA lets see, there really are only 20 or so girls who go out and live in Medellin, funny how many my Buddy and I shared after we compared stories, it's all the same girls 90 percent are gringo chasers.

Plus Dash USA rules don't apply here, a 22 yr old girl doesn't want a 28 year old guy, she wants a 35 yr old guy or older, I'm 34 this month and I tell girls I am 38 here in Medellin.

Post: #32

I found the Santa Marta chicks to be ugly by Colombian standards. Must have diff tastes lol

Clr, I thinks its best to break it down like this as far as the females preferences.

They seek / go after older guys because they will be more financially stable most of the time. I wouldnt necessarily say they LIKE older guys better. Yea for marriage and stability sure, but the other.......?

I guarantee they are fucking younger dudes on the side 85% of the time.

Post: #33

hey dash, how did bucaramanga go from the favourite to a backup?

Post: #34

@CLR


Hey, PM me your phone no in Colombia man...I could use a good day-game wing in Medellin and we can exchange some secrets. I want to take a quick trip to Manizales and Pereira too very soon.

Mixx

Post: #35

(09-20-2011 01:56 PM)chochemonger1 Wrote:  hey dash, how did bucaramanga go from the favourite to a backup?

Isolation to the major cities and the better weather of the coffee region.

Assuming you live in Pereira you just cant beat being a short bus ride from Cali, Medellin, Bogota, Armenia, Manizales, and Ibague.

Post: #36

Dash they fuck primes on the side, but the reality is ime that they like how they are treated by older guys and a million other reason, much less it's cultural, they are raised being more attracted to older more secure guys. Second, great time with Mixx today, all hell is about to break loose on Medellin tomorrow Mixx n clr style, third, you must not have gone to the right spots in Santa Marta there lots of gorgeous women, from blondes with fake tits to morenas with big asses, all flavors.
Damn it won't me add a pic from my iPad or I would show the girls, my friends from Santa Marta

Post: #37

(09-20-2011 11:53 PM)clr Wrote:  Dash they fuck primes on the side, but the reality is ime that they like how they are treated by older guys and a million other reason, much less it's cultural, they are raised being more attracted to older more secure guys. Second, great time with Mixx today, all hell is about to break loose on Medellin tomorrow Mixx n clr style, third, you must not have gone to the right spots in Santa Marta there lots of gorgeous women, from blondes with fake tits to morenas with big asses, all flavors.
Damn it won't me add a pic from my iPad or I would show the girls, my friends from Santa Marta

I'm 27 years old and live in Medellin for a year and banged many chicks there and guess what colombian chicks tell me that there disgusted by older guys 40+ and use them cause they pay for everything. now i know this is bs cause there gonna tell the older guy that there not into young guys cause there immature and players. the reality is most young guys can't even take them out to a nice place cause there dead broke. even if they bang you the same night its a future investment and the for them which many older gringos i know have fallen for and start taking care of the bitch. talk to any taxi driver they will tell you 60% of the hot chicks in medellin are pre-pagos and many girls from college say the samething. so don't take anything they say seriously cause its most likely BS they will tell you what they think you wanna hear.

Post: #38

Clr,

What are the right spots in Santa Marta?

Post: #39

Carl, there is a huge difference between a 22 yr old prepago girl dating a fat nasty 55 yr old pervert and a 22-25 yr old preferring a guy who takes care of himself that's 35-45. I have hung out in the Colombian community both in the USA and in Colombia for 10 years now, and I have lots of Spanish friends. The girls( friends so i know they are not lying) have told me numerous times, 2 things, A. They like older men because they treat them right, are stable, and are serious (that younger guys just want to fuck, and rarely want a serious relationship) B. If a guy has a SMALL belly they don't care, it's not a big deal like it is to an American woman.

Obviously this does not apply to all. I was getting laid by plenty when I was 27 by spanish girls, but I can tell you it's easier now that I am older. Also it depends on if the girl is a 22 yr old party chick that just wants to fuck, or a 22 yr old that decides she wants a serious relationship.

As I said, on a whole, and assuming all other things are equal(guy is still fun, takes care of himself, looks good) I find Colombian chicks prefer a guy 10 years older. I am just saying that I have been blown out before for being too young at 30.

Still don't believe it, go to a spanish dating site(not colombiancupid), most girls who are 22 will be searching for a guy 30-40/45 ime 45 is the general cut off for girls in their 20's who are NOT gold digging.

Post: #40

Id say that they would prefer a good looking young responsible, financially stable guy that treats them well over an older responsible, financially stable guy that treats them well.

Only problem is the first is hard to come by in Latin America jaja

Post: #41

Dash can't remember the name but I know how to walk there, all the gringoes go down town,but there is this big ol group of clubs by the water where the locals go. I met a girl on a Chiva bus and dated her for a while, that's how I met the real Santa Marta, also there is this really nice bar up on a hill where the hot locals go, mostly with guys.

When I was there is was poor back packers going to the cheap spots, you want nice hot girls go to nice better scale spots. Just like in the USA, hot girls go to the hot spots

Post: #42

But dash remember they have learned that it just doesn't happen, young good looking financially stable guys want to play the field, older guys have already gotten that out of their system. Plus they know young Colombian guys generally don't stay around if they get a girl pregnant, they ditch.

American girls want it all which is why so many are single now in their late 30s and 40s and american women's happiness level is the lowest in 60 years.

Post: #43

(09-21-2011 09:22 AM)clr Wrote:  But dash remember they have learned that it just doesn't happen, young good looking financially stable guys want to play the field, older guys have already gotten that out of their system. Plus they know young Colombian guys generally don't stay around if they get a girl pregnant, they ditch.

American girls want it all which is why so many are single now in their late 30s and 40s and american women's happiness level is the lowest in 60 years.

thats my main point, they prefer older guys cause they can get what they want most of the time like money, visa and a relationship meaning they can get those things. put its this way who do you think would be banging more a girls a broke 25 year old Colombian or a broke 42 years old colombian. most of these older gringos in medellin see it as a dream to have a 22 year old girlfriend and pay top $ by colombian standards but for them they see it as chump change sending a girl 400$ month.

Post: #44

CARLOSG -

You said:

"and guess what colombian chicks tell me that there disgusted by older guys 40+ and use them cause they pay for everything."

"so don't take anything they say seriously cause its most likely BS they will tell you what they think you wanna hear."

In the same paragraph, so you completely refuted your own point.

(Not a good way to build a case).

Until you have experienced both (being younger and being older) and get back to us you should defer to:

(09-21-2011 09:06 AM)clr Wrote:  I was getting laid by plenty when I was 27 by spanish girls, but I can tell you it's easier now that I am older.

Post: #45

(09-21-2011 05:20 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  CARLOSG -

You said:

"and guess what colombian chicks tell me that there disgusted by older guys 40+ and use them cause they pay for everything."

"so don't take anything they say seriously cause its most likely BS they will tell you what they think you wanna hear."

In the same paragraph, so you completely refuted your own point.

(Not a good way to build a case).

Until you have experienced both (being younger and being older) and get back to us you should defer to:

(09-21-2011 09:06 AM)clr Wrote:  I was getting laid by plenty when I was 27 by spanish girls, but I can tell you it's easier now that I am older.

it might be easier to get laid but as i stated before older gringos are much more likely to be betas and give them what they want money/visa not because they prefer them

Post: #46

(09-21-2011 05:20 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  CARLOSG -

You said:

"and guess what colombian chicks tell me that there disgusted by older guys 40+ and use them cause they pay for everything."

"so don't take anything they say seriously cause its most likely BS they will tell you what they think you wanna hear."

In the same paragraph, so you completely refuted your own point.

(Not a good way to build a case).

Until you have experienced both (being younger and being older) and get back to us you should defer to:

(09-21-2011 09:06 AM)clr Wrote:  I was getting laid by plenty when I was 27 by spanish girls, but I can tell you it's easier now that I am older.

G,

He might of meant

"If your an old guy, dont take anything they say seriously because more than likely they are after your money and are looking to use you."

Is this correct Carl or are you talking about ALL guys regardless of age, money, and social class?

Post: #47

(09-21-2011 09:06 AM)clr Wrote:  Carl, there is a huge difference between a 22 yr old prepago girl dating a fat nasty 55 yr old pervert and a 22-25 yr old preferring a guy who takes care of himself that's 35-45. I have hung out in the Colombian community both in the USA and in Colombia for 10 years now, and I have lots of Spanish friends. The girls( friends so i know they are not lying) have told me numerous times, 2 things, A. They like older men because they treat them right, are stable, and are serious (that younger guys just want to fuck, and rarely want a serious relationship) B. If a guy has a SMALL belly they don't care, it's not a big deal like it is to an American woman.

Obviously this does not apply to all. I was getting laid by plenty when I was 27 by spanish girls, but I can tell you it's easier now that I am older. Also it depends on if the girl is a 22 yr old party chick that just wants to fuck, or a 22 yr old that decides she wants a serious relationship.

As I said, on a whole, and assuming all other things are equal(guy is still fun, takes care of himself, looks good) I find Colombian chicks prefer a guy 10 years older. I am just saying that I have been blown out before for being too young at 30.

Still don't believe it, go to a spanish dating site(not colombiancupid), most girls who are 22 will be searching for a guy 30-40/45 ime 45 is the general cut off for girls in their 20's who are NOT gold digging.

Absolutely. I'me 29, admittedly with a slight babyface, and i had 16-17 year olds shameless;y make their intentions known.


All things being equal, given the choice between a 30 and a 20 year old, they will go for the 30 year old every time.

Colombia is the only place where i have been where i still consider myself as being too much of a young un approaching 30.

Damn it! Neeed to get back pronto!

Post: #48

(09-21-2011 07:21 PM)Dash Global Wrote:  

(09-21-2011 05:20 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  CARLOSG -

You said:

"and guess what colombian chicks tell me that there disgusted by older guys 40+ and use them cause they pay for everything."

"so don't take anything they say seriously cause its most likely BS they will tell you what they think you wanna hear."

In the same paragraph, so you completely refuted your own point.

(Not a good way to build a case).

Until you have experienced both (being younger and being older) and get back to us you should defer to:

(09-21-2011 09:06 AM)clr Wrote:  I was getting laid by plenty when I was 27 by spanish girls, but I can tell you it's easier now that I am older.

G,

He might of meant

"If your an old guy, dont take anything they say seriously because more than likely they are after your money and are looking to use you."

bingo as a younger guy they probably think you don't have money and most likely they just wanna bang cause they really want you. that's why its easier for the older gringos in Medellin to get laid cause most of them marry the bitch or send 500$ a month and buy them as girlfriends. medellin woman in general are the most materialistic money hungry hoes in the world that's why its the only place where people think they like 40+ guys the most in reality they prefer a guy that's older then them by 5- 8 years just like anywhere in the world but not by 15 or 20. i hear the story from almost very gringo i come across. colombian girls prefer older guys while teh gringo is paying her bills. no they just prefer money.

Post: #49

(09-21-2011 09:19 AM)clr Wrote:  but there is this big ol group of clubs by the water where the locals go.

there is this really nice bar up on a hill where the hot locals go, mostly with guys.

not the best directions I have heard. Hope you can remember.

Aside from La Puerta most of the other bars downtown have very few if any gringos. The gringos are in Taganga.

Regardless the girls in Santa Marta are not hot in my opinion.

They usually fall into one of these 4 categories
1) fat
2) ugly
3) fat and ugly
4) nice body but with braces

obviously some attractive ones, I met a model there and her body was ridiculous, but overall i was VERY unimpressed.

Post: #50

just got back from 4 days, 5 nights in cucuta (i know that was originally on your list but wisely was dropped)......skip it, skip it, skip. i don't think i'd even visit unless you're curious about jumping over to venezuela to take advantage of the conversion rate.