Post: #26

One more:

- have you ever spend significant time reading and/or posting on a forum dedicated in large part to getting laid abroad?

Post: #27

(11-22-2009 04:35 AM)Whoremonger Wrote:  @speakeasy

Or, maybe they fuck you out of duty? Anniversary sex? The frequency of sex diminishes and so too does the desire for it, especially on her part. Not to mention those who also fuck you because they have ulterior motives. Most women are quick to use it as a means to get what they want and have a habit of denying men who are not acting in a way they want them too. Prostitution is honest in its transaction, and its cheaper than marriage.

http://ryaninja.blogspot.com/2005/05/mar...ution.html

Im not advocating using hookers over traditional relationships at all, Im just saying that the stigma associated with it actually holds little to no weight. Most men with a mistress support her. That in itself is an exchange for sex. Women are more liberal these days and quicker to fuck, but they also come with twice the headache and are more demanding. Not to mention they have the protection of the law in almost every instance, something we do not have.

So, going overseas to chase ass is no different to going to a club to chase ass. The only reason its shameful is because you are not chasing the local women who take offense to the fact that you are showering others with free drinks and attention. While I agree that the chase in itself is fun, Im realistic enough to know that it can also be a time consuming waste of my time better spent on more productive activities. The chase is worth it IF you think you may enjoy the company of the woman too. If she is on the radar as nothing more than a fuck and chuck, whats the difference?

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying I don't want to get any ass abroad. I'm talking about making pussy THE ONLY reason you are going. I mean there is other stuff to check out in a foreign countries. Not to mention some countries, like Bolivia don't have good looking women most guys would want to bang, but have a lot of amazing places to check out nonetheless. Sampling the local women is like sampling the local food. So do it if you can, but I went to S. America for way more reasons than to look for girls.

Post: #28

Partytime, I don't see how you are confused by what I am saying.

I do go to clubs when I travel, I also go to museums, and I also walk around the streets and boulevards taking in the sights and sounds of the city. Am I going to a museum to get laid? No. Am I walking around looking to approach girls. No, that's not my intention, although if I see a girl who is attractive I will approach because of my nature.

You are distorting my intentions. When I go abroad, it is to travel. When I travel it is for experience. Is sex on my mind? I will say that sex is always on my mind, so sex while traveling will be natural. What percentage of my travel will be because of sex? Not a majority of it, which is what it sounds like you are assuming.

I have many hobbies besides sex. I have many things I want to do besides bang a local girl. If your only goal in life is sex, then that is unfortunate. There are many things more to life than procreation and that physical release.

Post: #29

(11-22-2009 04:52 AM)kerouac Wrote:  There are many things more to life than procreation and that physical release.

Exactly. Get sex, learn game, get shit handled for sure, but at the same time, don't think the purpose of life is a pink hole.

Post: #30

kerouac, I will use your own words to prove my point:

Everything in Green shows you do travel (to some degree) for pussy.
Everything in Red shows you try to rationalize this & hide it from yourself.

(11-22-2009 04:52 AM)kerouac Wrote:  Partytime, I don't see how you are confused by what I am saying.

I do go to clubs when I travel, I also go to museums, and I also walk around the streets and boulevards taking in the sights and sounds of the city. Am I going to a museum to get laid? No. Am I walking around looking to approach girls. No, that's not my intention, although if I see a girl who is attractive I will approach because of my nature.

You are distorting my intentions. When I go abroad, it is to travel. When I travel it is for experience. Is sex on my mind? I will say that sex is always on my mind, so sex while traveling will be natural. What percentage of my travel will be because of sex? Not a majority of it, which is what it sounds like you are assuming.

I have many hobbies besides sex. I have many things I want to do besides bang a local girl. If your only goal in life is sex, then that is unfortunate. There are many things more to life than procreation and that physical release.

Notice how everytime there is some green (proof of travel for pussy), immediately afterward there is some red (rationalizing). The rationalizing is the feminist brainwashing coming through.

Also notice that in your earlier post, "If you are going abroad to get laid, good for you, it doesn't mean everyone is going abroad to get laid. I'm not going abroad to get laid" you strongly denied traveling for sex at all. You are now admiting that you travel abroad to get laid to some degree. All this wishy-washy, back and forth, yes but no, green then red, rationalizing is feminist socialy learned mentality.

kerouac, I am not trying to pick on you here. I am only pointing these things out to make the point that Feminism has on a very subconscious level made us feel wrong for wanting sex, like we have to explain ourselves (red parts).

I used to be the same way, and still am to a much smaller degree. However I can stand up and say "I travel because I enjoy banging foreign girls" without rationalizing and qualifying myself with a list of other reasons i travel, or by saying "but getting laid is just ONE of the reasons why i travel"

Post: #31

(11-22-2009 04:46 AM)kerouac Wrote:  Whoremonger, there are so many assumptions in your posts that are taken out of thin air... although I think it is because of a generational gap.

I'm 25, and I can seriously say that I have never paid any amount for a girl to have sex with me, unless you consider the alcohol I already have my place as "paying for her". I am not going to get married for any reason other than to start a family, and when I get married it will be with a very feminine woman who will make a good mother. That is all. I am not getting married for sex, because I know I will get plenty of it outside of marriage. I am very open about this with girls I date, and because I am open about my expectations, girls know what they're getting into.

Getting a whore is fine, if that's what you want, but I know I can get more from a regular girl (and more) without having to put myself through all of the trouble that is associated with whores.

I dont know why you assume I am older. I am in my mid 30's.

You ALWAYS pay for sex. Time, emotional involvement, there is a payment of some sort. That is not an assumption, that is a fact. I value my time and as I have aged I have realised that chasing pussy can cost you a small fortune in time and effort. I have spent a fortune on clothes, club and bar entrance, drinks, etc. That is a cost associated with getting leg over, and everytime you go to a club its money out your pocket and time you could have spent doing something else. I have other interests these days. I would rather go an play a round of golf with a few mates than go to a nightclub chasing skirt.

I would not marry for reasons other than family either. I just dont believe that western women make good wives or mothers and the laws make it the biggest risk ever. I believe in calculated risks, and I believe that marriage is a big one that does not suit men.

The only time I would ever use a hooker at home is if I am married or in my late 50's and still wanting to tap young tail. At my age, there is no real need to use escorts or hookers because I dont find it that difficult to get laid. Where the appeal comes in is that it comes with ZERO COMPLICATION. You talk of the trouble associated with hookers? Wait until you reach the stage in your life where getting rid of the women you fuck is the problem, not landing them.

I like to travel, and travel frequently. But my reasons for travel are quite simple. Ill see the sites, but Im going there to eat, drink and fuck. Sometimes Ill pay for it, sometimes Ill land a freebie. Any single man who says he is going to Argentina, Brazil or Russia for anything other than wine, women and song is only lying to himself

Post: #32

"The world is a book and those who do not travel only read one page". St. Augustin.
Here´s my two cents:
For me it depends on the destination. If I go to eastern europe or lately when I went to Iceland, 95% of my motivation is to meet local women (I guess brazil will fit in this category also). If I don´t at least get a kiss from a local girl, my trip is ruined. When I go to a country like France, Italy or Germany my pussy motivation goes down to 75%. Besides pussy there´s a lot you can see and do on those countries. Places like India and China my pussy motivation probably lowers to 50%. If I visit any arab country it goes to 25%, because I know how hard and not so my type the local women are, so it will be more for the culture.
I have a plan to visit all countries in Europe till I´m 30yrs old, and at least get a kiss from each country, so that in the end I can elect the best kissing nationality. Till now the advantage goes to Spain.
If I think on a determined country the first idea that comes to my mind is what defines if I´m travelling only for the pussy or not.

Post: #33

PartyTime it's not so black and white.
Back at home I spend X% of my time getting laid. Abroad I spend just about the same percentage. Therefore do I travel to get laid? Sure you can argue that if you want, but I don't think I'm in Brazil right now JUST BECAUSE i want to fuck a brazilian girl.

Truth is if you travel and pay for whores, you are definitely traveling just to get laid. But for other guys like us who travel and try to get laid at the same time while working and learning the language, it's not clear cut. In the end who cares why people do it.

Post: #34

I travel to get laid.

Post: #35

i like to travel for Adventure and sex with good looking locals .

Post: #36

A wise man once said, "Do what makes you happy".

I like to travel, and swoop girls.

To me, they both fall under what I call "enjoying life".

Post: #37

"He's moved on to bigger and better things, like money and power."

I wouldn't necessarily call money and power bigger and better than women.

All three are equally important in a well balanced life.

And all three are very intertwined.

Post: #38

(11-22-2009 07:07 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  "He's moved on to bigger and better things, like money and power."

I wouldn't necessarily call money and power bigger and better than women.

All three are equally important in a well balanced life.

And all three are very intertwined.

Good point.

Post: #39

I've found that the more travel I do, the more laid I get.

Chicks like to hear about that stuff.

Aloha!

Post: #40

"I've found that the more travel I do, the more laid I get.

Chicks like to hear about that stuff. "

Yep.

Its a self fulfilling prophecy.

G Manifesto Destiny.

Post: #41

Every day I go out of my house I seek out the flirt possibilities and the game options, not that it rules my day, but it is omnipresent, whether I am driving or at a restaurant, I inspect the girls and if the opportunity is good enough, I apply my charm at least for the sake of the thrill..

Now, when travelling, I always have better reasons than plainly go and chase women, but very few things are as pleasurable as getting laid, so my antennas are always ON.

It just comes to how you are, really. I am a sexual being and I like women, hence I chase at every opportunity, women don't rule my world, but if going from point A to B I have to invent a point C because I saw some tail I want to touch, you bet I will take that road, for me is that simple.

Post: #42

To all the guys who think its wrong/strange or unethical to go on vacation and chase girls......here is my advice.....DON'T DO IT....STAY IN YOUR CITY AND GAME ALL THE GIRLS WHO LIVE THERE......i will be on a tropical beach somewhere with a barbeque going, a few drinks and a cute local girl in a bikini.....i know that sounds crazy but i enjoy that sort of thing. I realize that its not for everyone. If you do go on vacation, maybe you should go somewhere where there are NO GIRLS...that way you won't have to worry about being like one of us guys who enjoy the company of beautiful women....no matter where we are!

Post: #43

Giovonny wins.

Post: #44

Giovonny,

That comment made me laugh.

Post: #45

(11-23-2009 01:24 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  To all the guys who think its wrong/strange or unethical to go on vacation and chase girls...

I think you're preaching to the choir! Well put, though!

PS- mmmmm BBQ