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How do you balance the line between ignoring/not being needy and showing interest?
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How do you balance the line between ignoring/not being needy and showing interest?
Scenario: You meet a girl at the bar who you find attractive.


How do you show interest in her while at the same time being not needy? I've seen men have success by completely ignoring women. I've always seen men have success by showing 100% attention to women. When should you ignore vs showing a lot of interest?
10-14-2017 11:49 AM
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RE: How do you balance the line between ignoring/not being needy and showing interest?
Can this thread be moved to the Game section? Thanks
10-14-2017 12:03 PM
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RE: How do you balance the line between ignoring/not being needy and showing interest?
Lean back in your chair.

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10-14-2017 12:10 PM
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RE: How do you balance the line between ignoring/not being needy and showing interest?
If you have to even think about this the best solution is to increase your options so you are genuine in showing less interest and not pretending
10-14-2017 02:47 PM
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RE: How do you balance the line between ignoring/not being needy and showing interest?
I had this dilemma at an upscale-ish bar once (where MDP and I later recorded a podcast) . I was having a drink and a girl came and sat one barstool away and waited for food she'd apparently ordered.

The food arrived fairly quickly but she ordered a glass of wine and I could pretty much feel some palpable interest coming from her. I sat there for a few minutes thinking I had to say something or be forever a bitch, but I couldn't think of anything except a quote from Bang that said something about leaning back when sitting at the bar.

So that's what I did.

A few seconds later I just made a random comment about her wine and we started talking.

I fucked her on and off for about a year. Hands down best titties I've ever busted on.

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10-14-2017 03:27 PM
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RE: How do you balance the line between ignoring/not being needy and showing interest?
(10-14-2017 12:10 PM)Suits Wrote:  Lean back in your chair.

Thanks for that suggestion. I tried it last night and it seemed to be more helpful. I didn't appear as needy.
10-15-2017 11:11 AM
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(10-15-2017 11:11 AM)Iso Wrote:  
(10-14-2017 12:10 PM)Suits Wrote:  Lean back in your chair.

Thanks for that suggestion. I tried it last night and it seemed to be more helpful. I didn't appear as needy.

Ya, my game is super tight.

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10-15-2017 12:35 PM
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RE: How do you balance the line between ignoring
(10-15-2017 12:35 PM)Suits Wrote:  
(10-15-2017 11:11 AM)Iso Wrote:  
(10-14-2017 12:10 PM)Suits Wrote:  Lean back in your chair.

Thanks for that suggestion. I tried it last night and it seemed to be more helpful. I didn't appear as needy.

Ya, my game is super tight.

Buy my e-book for more easy game hacks.

Never face her directly. Face away and look over your shoulder.

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10-15-2017 01:10 PM
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RE: How do you balance the line between ignoring/not being needy
When rollin solo, you don't want people at the bar to know you're alone. That looks desperate.

That is why you should improvise by bringing a "friend".

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