Post: #26

(09-15-2017 11:25 AM)captain_shane Wrote:  

(09-15-2017 09:45 AM)TimePlayer Wrote:  

(09-15-2017 03:24 AM)XXL Wrote:  

Quote: Is gaming an interested girl necessary? I’m realizing that the longer I chat with a girl the less likely she will bang me.

This is very telling. It should be exactly oposite. Time is your on your side. The more time you spend with a girl the more attracted she is. Therefore I'm guessing there is somerhing off about you how you come across in general.

Exactly the opposite? Really? If there is one thing more consistent than anything else in my dating life, it is this: the longer I chat with a girl the less likely I bang. The hardest thing is finding what truly is off. Directly asking girls brings an uncomfortable conversation. Escalation? Confidence? Logistics? Eye contact? To just STFU? I’m going through all of the above suggestions.

Get a small hidden camera and record your interactions. That should help you figure out what's going wrong.

You are onto something. I was doing a snap chat earlier today and caught a clip of myself as I was looking at cute girls walking in. My eyes almost jump out of their sockets? lol. I was unmistakably excited to see them. Not attractive.

Post: #27

(09-19-2017 05:10 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  If you are actually good looking (and when I use the term "good looking" I'm going to assume top 20% of looks) then your appearance is doing a lot of the initial work for you. You don't necessarily need to convince a girl to sleep with you, just play don't-fuck-it-up game. If you are genuinely good looking then the rule of thumb is less is more. Try not to reveal too much about yourself to keep up an air of mystery about you; don't talk too much. Let her do a lot of the talking it will make her feel more comfortable.

A lot of guys think they are good looking and that might be true but for the purpose of threads along the lines of 'Good looking but...', there has got to be some general guidelines so that people can accept something close to reality and thus work on self improvement avenues instead of spending time thinking why things are not working out for them when they are good looking. Game for good looking guys can be different than for the average joes out there. Maybe things like height, maybe how many women give IOIs/eye contact per 20 women you pass by on the street, do store assistants flirt/converse at length with you during your interactions etc. Something that girls do when they sense an attractive guy without the guy doing anything. Guys who have had much success at game and attribute most of this to looks can contribute here.

GS, assuming that the guy is good looking, what kind of material should he be using to keep her talking? There are things like jokes, teasing, kino, asking personal questions used in game. How would he structure his approach and the subsequent interaction. Lets assume that this is a daytime scenario.

Post: #28

How many points does grooming and clothes add? With the right type of dressing and personal hygiene a 5 can bump themselves up to a 7.

Post: #29

(09-11-2017 02:05 PM)TrifeLife Wrote:  Read Models: Attract Women Through Honesty by Mark Manson

I highly recommend this book for guys with looks who aren't getting the results the should be. This was the most helpful 'game' material I ever read.

Beyond that, I saw better results when I simply started saying less. Like 50% of the things that come to mind and I would normally say I just filtered out. Especially witty shit trying to be funny. Most girls can't match a lot of guys wit for wit and I realized it could make them feel uncomfortable.

This post changed my life. I will always remember.