Post: #1

It feels good for a change when plates call you up and want sex. It let's you be on the reactive side for once instead of always having to initiate. It kinda makes you feel like a girl in the fact that you can call the shots in terms of when/where/etc. And you know it will be straight sex and nothing else more like dinner/small talk/hanging out after/etc. All guilt free.

Just got reminded of this feeling after one of my longer term plates had a date last night and told me how she thought his game was very weak and thought he might even be gay. I just laughed and told her that's pretty typical of hipster dudes that try to be something they're not. His failure was trying to be alpha, then having a few drinks which put him back into beta mode when he was more relaxed.

I'm sure you guys, especially the experts and long term veterans run into this a lot. It's definitely a good ego booster for us guys.

"Don't get pussy whooped, whip that pussy!" LOL

Post: #2

It is a great feeling and an ego booster, but it goes against the tide of natures way. The man is meant to be the hunter....

I think its an indicator that you are batting below your SMV average.

You should be chasing higher SMV girls, to keep you bettering yourself, keep yourself a hunter, and always be raising the bar.

Post: #3

(07-14-2017 10:05 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  It is a great feeling and an ego booster, but it goes against the tide of natures way. The man is meant to be the hunter....

I think its an indicator that you are batting below your SMV average.

You should be chasing higher SMV girls, to keep you bettering yourself, keep yourself a hunter, and always be raising the bar.

Not at all on the SMV. We started off as dating and I transitioned her into a FWB after I decided I didn't see anyting LTR with her. We just have a good understanding that I will be her FB until she finds someone worthwhile. PM me if you wanna see a pic of her.

Post: #4

The pleasure of being pursued by your victim can often surpass the thrill of the hunt. -Robert Greene

Post: #5

(07-18-2017 02:13 PM)Uhondo Wrote:  The pleasure of being pursued by your victim can often surpass the thrill of the hunt. -Robert Greene

Not for me. I'm getting tired of initiating all the time. It's refreshing once in awhile.

This was her text from last week. Made her wait almost a week. Going to see her tonight.

Post: #6

Quote:I'm getting tired of initiating all the time. It's refreshing once in awhile.

I think that's what Greene is talking about. Once you have your claws deep inside your victim, its time to make a calculated absence, a strategic withdrawal, which will undoubtedly cause your victims to come back for a "fix."

Quote:It feels good for a change when plates call you up and want sex. It let's you be on the reactive side for once instead of always having to initiate.

Greene goes on to say "If your targets become too used to you as the aggressor, they will give less of their own energy, and the tension will slacken.."

And;

"..Once they are under your spell, take a step back and they will start to come after you"

It sounds like you been hitting the right buttons bruh. Have some fun tonight.

Post: #7

(07-19-2017 11:46 AM)Uhondo Wrote:  

Quote:I'm getting tired of initiating all the time. It's refreshing once in awhile.

I think that's what Greene is talking about. Once you have your claws deep inside your victim, its time to make a calculated absence, a strategic withdrawal, which will undoubtedly cause your victims to come back for a "fix."

Quote:It feels good for a change when plates call you up and want sex. It let's you be on the reactive side for once instead of always having to initiate.

Greene goes on to say "If your targets become too used to you as the aggressor, they will give less of their own energy, and the tension will slacken.."

And;

"..Once they are under your spell, take a step back and they will start to come after you"

It sounds like you been hitting the right buttons bruh. Have some fun tonight.

Thanks for the clarification man. I'm a sucker for all those nice quotes.

I managed to meet right after work at her place and avoid having to go to dinner. woohoo!

Post: #8

It's a good feeling isn't it? Proof is in the pudding that your progress in game is paying off a little bit when your bangs are hitting you up. Now go out and get some more girls in your roster.

Post: #9

(07-14-2017 10:05 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  I think its an indicator that you are batting below your SMV average.

Agreed. Initiation frequency or even text response time always seems directly correlated with attractiveness, at least in the early stages of the chase. This phenomenon helps for online endeavors as well: If a girl who looks attractive on the surface sends the first message, or responds super fast, it's a major red flag and a sign she's likely either a SIF, has kids, a disease, or something negative.

Post: #10

Nope.
Proof? Then hit on a chick who is below you in every possible way. (face, body, job, clothes etc) I bet it will be so easy then?

It's true guys are not used to (at least for me) getting hit on by a woman.
I remember acting really awkward when a girl was staring at me crazy and I just didn't know what to do. I could've initiated the conversation if I looked at her first and she looked back but it was out of blue and I got caught off guard.

You are just her type. that's all.

I think how young guys fuck it up is they don't appreciate those attractive chicks coming after them (it makes you feel like you can do better whether she is 7 or 9) and get blown out at the end.
And they look back thinking about that girl while chasing an uglier chick who's got an attitude.

The same type of girl goes through d-bags and will eventually put up a profile saying 'I've dated too many d-bags, no d-bags please' on their online profile.

(07-19-2017 11:42 PM)Synezthetic Wrote:  

(07-14-2017 10:05 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  I think its an indicator that you are batting below your SMV average.

Agreed. Initiation frequency or even text response time always seems directly correlated with attractiveness, at least in the early stages of the chase. This phenomenon helps for online endeavors as well: If a girl who looks attractive on the surface sends the first message, or responds super fast, it's a major red flag and a sign she's likely either a SIF, has kids, a disease, or something negative.

Post: #11

Quote: If a girl who looks attractive on the surface sends the first message, or responds super fast, it's a major red flag..

Female responsiveness is just a reflection of your game/ability. You would be surprised just how fast girls respond to tight game.

Weak game leads to weak responses, not only at the start, but also throughout the relationship - if the weak gamer even manages to get that far

Post: #12

(07-20-2017 01:20 AM)Uhondo Wrote:  

Quote: If a girl who looks attractive on the surface sends the first message, or responds super fast, it's a major red flag..

Female responsiveness is just a reflection of your game/ability. You would be surprised just how fast girls respond to tight game.

Weak game leads to weak responses, not only at the start, but also throughout the relationship - if the weak gamer even manages to get that far

x2

I definitely had moments where I had weak game before and definitely leads to weak responses.

LOL at these negative nay-sayers. I don't need to argue anything or prove anything. It is what it is and I'm just posting the fact that it's refreshing for once to be on the other side of things. Some of you may come across that at some point or not.

BTW, last night was ideal as I went over after work but she ended up apologizing to me for having to end it early as she got invited to watch a play. Deep inside, I was saying "YES!!!" in only having time to have sex but not hang out afterwards yet having the girl feel guilty about it. This is truly Bizarro world for me. LOL