Post: #1

Hi there, first of all I just want to thank everyone who contributes to this forum as this is my favorite forum, this is my first post, so don't be too hard on me

And now for introductions:
I'm José, i'm a 19 year old "guy" from Norway. I have embraced the lifestyle of a professional DJ.. (Which is relevant as it gives me a huge advantage with the ladies - especially the attention seeking, naive, 1,80cm tall, blonde, fake titty ones.)

From the day I lost my virginity (14), I've been rapidly developing into a player. From the years 14-17 i had shitloads of fun, and by the time i reached 18 I used my game to land me a couple of hot girlfriends, which was great while it lasted (don't worry, this is not gonna turn into a sob story, I hate them myself.), but after some months with the last one, I got the opportunity to take my carreer to the next level, which involved me moving 5 hours away and never being available, needless to say, it ended quickly. I'd chose my carreer over Teen "love" any day.

When I'm out clubbing, or at a party... generally, drinking alcohol, I'm a cheetah when it comes to game, I analyze and research the field as quickly as I can, find my prey, and attack. Basic 101 stuff, but however:

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Problem 1:
Ever since I moved, I feel both my game has been off for some reason... I do get laid, but just not as often as I want.

Theories of cause.
First: she was one of those teen "the one" girls, it took me like a year to get over her.

Second:
Complete lifestyle change, moved from the countryside to the biggest city in the country, complete change of daily routines, different types of people around me etc.
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Problem 2:
Seeing as my carreer is going so well, I'm spinning at clubs at least every friday and saturday, which are the official party days of Norway.. For most people at least.
When I'm spinning at a club, I get alot of looks, alot of eyes meet, and alot of smiles are exchanged and some confident douchebag winks here and there from me... The problem here is, I don't have alot of time to work the girls, I've got tops 1-2 minutes when they're asking for their track, and there's alot of girls I've had ready to go to an afterparty with, but alot of the times they end up getting wasted and some other guy swoops in for the kill.. Plus, as a DJ, I'm the last guy leaving the club.. (excluding staff of course.)

I'm not ripped at all, but I'm not chubby either, so lets say average.
For some reason, I also get the feeling that my facial expressions and body language is really off game, and I find it kinda hard to control when my mind is in my DJ set, the crowd and whatever I'm thinking of.. + alcohol...

I do get lays of course, but It would help with some pointers to help me ensure a win every gig

I feel I need some gamechanges that adapts to my timeframe...
Any tips, pointers, anyone been in similar situations before, or any missing info?

Post: #2

I don't have any advice to offer, as I've never deejayed, except to edit the thread title to something like: "How do I use my position as a nightclub DJ to get laid?"

Post: #3

I can't edit it though..

Post: #4

Jose, I think I am the only other DJ on the forum. I feel your pain. We have a huge logistic barrier that most guys do not. They can leave at any time.. I some times have to wait until 3 am to get paid (last call being 2, lights at 2:20). I guess the good news is we have a status level that most guys at the bar can't compete with. I have had girls stick around for me other other DJs but they are inexplicably DTF from the start. I feel like it is very tough to go through the traditional steps of the game while working.

I saw a girl last week that was one of the first girls I have really been drawn to in a long time.. I hesitated and she was gone. I tried to think of what I could do differently, and the best I got was: "Hit me up if you want to party late night..." and then hand her my card with a written message on it / phone number. This is pretty direct game, but what other choice have we? We can't exactly escalate / build rapport?

Post: #5

Firstly, you should have the manager pay you right before you go off, or right afterwards.. thats what i do in cash payment gigs..
I found that the most effective way is to merely stare at them, and look devilishly sexy, they will eventually bite
To top it all off, give her your card so she has your number

We have no other choice than to be the typical artist: alpha male with a hint of spontinuity... i guess..