Post: #26

No offence Rex pal but your threads are rather depressing to read. The advice given to you is not going to change, just get cut, and go and fucking meet people.

I have no idea how one cannot even secure dates with women, if they are not autistic or have a complete disfigurement. Facially I'm only average but when I was going out and doing stuff regularly (which I'm not currently doing) then I would always find opportunities with women, just by talking to them and charming them. It's not rocket science.

If you have to, shag a fatty or even an absolute hambeast worthy of a place on the 'Most busted lizard you ever poked' thread. Or even buy a prostitute.

Post: #27

(06-24-2017 03:17 AM)Suits Wrote:  I don't think Rex should be afforded any more advice until he's worked off the weight, has built a respectable amount of muscle and has fucked 10 women.

Do prostitutes count? Otherwise, that obviously ain't gonna happen!
That's more than my lifetime lay count GOAL, lol
And i'm in fairly good shape!

Keep fighting the good fight, Rex!!

Post: #28

(06-24-2017 10:47 AM)subterfuge Wrote:  

(06-24-2017 03:17 AM)Suits Wrote:  I don't think Rex should be afforded any more advice until he's worked off the weight, has built a respectable amount of muscle and has fucked 10 women.

Do prostitutes count? Otherwise, that obviously ain't gonna happen!
That's more than my lifetime lay count GOAL, lol
And i'm in fairly good shape!

Keep fighting the good fight, Rex!!

Are you trolling?

Post: #29

Has OP been to a psychologist to try and tease out what's making him so averse to sticking with any given woman?

If he's 42, and he knows he should've had a girlfriend by now, but he hasn't, this isn't a Hit the Gym!™ and Approach 10 Women!™ thing.

I don't think an internet forum is qualified to fix this for you, OP. You need to go try 3 different psychologists, who know the human brain, and have direct one-on-one live conversation with them, choose the smartest one, and then spend a bunch of hours with him trying to tease out what the root of the problem is.

Have you done that? If so post here why you felt it wasn't successful.

Post: #30

Post: #31

But I guess too answer your question, do you work with a lot of girls?
About 80% of the guys I know got their girlfriend through work.
I guess just be friendly and fun with every girl you know, and ask them out for a drink at some point. Show your intent, hope they find you attractive looking and try to sleep with them, and then just 'fall' into a boyfriend/girlfriend situation?

Post: #32

(06-24-2017 11:25 AM)subterfuge Wrote:  But I guess too answer your question, do you work with a lot of girls?
About 80% of the guys I know got their girlfriend through work.
I guess just be friendly and fun with every girl you know, and ask them out for a drink at some point. Show your intent, hope they find you attractive looking and try to sleep with them, and then just 'fall' into a boyfriend/girlfriend situation?

This might be the worst game advice I've ever read.

Post: #33

haha! It's just what worked for most guys I know.

Post: #34

I have no idea about Rex's financial status. But this is a prime case of a guy who needs to move to a third world place and just get easy lays for a long period of time.

Post: #35

Quote:Has OP been to a psychologist to try and tease out what's making him so averse to sticking with any given woman?

That last (and only) girl left me, because I was against teh gheyzzz.

Post: #36

(06-24-2017 12:49 PM)lavidaloca Wrote:  I have no idea about Rex's financial status. But this is a prime case of a guy who needs to move to a third world place and just get easy lays for a long period of time.

How exactly is this a prime case for easy 3rd world sex? He's complaining about not having a girlfriend, not about getting laid.

Post: #37

(06-24-2017 02:58 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  

Quote:Has OP been to a psychologist to try and tease out what's making him so averse to sticking with any given woman?

That last (and only) girl left me, because I was against teh gheyzzz.

Well the last girl I was with frowned upon me for being too tolerant of them. Me. Maybe you should visit Mexico.

Post: #38

(06-24-2017 02:58 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  

Quote:Has OP been to a psychologist to try and tease out what's making him so averse to sticking with any given woman?

That last (and only) girl left me, because I was against teh gheyzzz.

Using speech like that is another reason why she probably left. Not the idea itself but the way it manifests itself from you. Rather unpleasant .

Post: #39

(06-24-2017 02:58 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  

Quote:Has OP been to a psychologist to try and tease out what's making him so averse to sticking with any given woman?

That last (and only) girl left me, because I was against teh gheyzzz.

^ Rex if you are serious and not trolling, I'd suggest combining a counselor and meeting up with RVFers. Face-to-face community, feedback, and accountability will get you where you want to go.

Post: #40

(06-24-2017 10:47 AM)subterfuge Wrote:  

(06-24-2017 03:17 AM)Suits Wrote:  I don't think Rex should be afforded any more advice until he's worked off the weight, has built a respectable amount of muscle and has fucked 10 women.

Do prostitutes count? Otherwise, that obviously ain't gonna happen!
That's more than my lifetime lay count GOAL, lol
And i'm in fairly good shape!

Keep fighting the good fight, Rex!!

Shit I live in The Worst City In North America as a Black Man, and I'm Above That count! You gotta raise that Lay Goal Playa!

Post: #41

^ Hundreds of lays "under your belt" has never been an antidote to loneliness.

Post: #42

Just make women (and men) feel comfortable around you, no stupid jokes and stupid arguments. Easy as that. I reeinforce that you might have to rethink about your social skills and do something about it. But I understand it is easier said than done. There was some hatred towards a thread about "most guys are not made for the player lifestyle", but it is an interesting perspective, while in your case being a player is not what is in question, I see a pattern with many guys nowadays who have authistic tendencies, this is probably due to very protective upbringings, safe spaces, tv, videogames and overall nowadays enetertainment. Not saying it is your case, but any individual with some social skills, and like I think it is your case, in reasonable shape and not bad looking, should not have issues to find a woman once in a while. You can skype me, or whatsapp or viber whenever you want. And maybe I can give you some better advice and tips, from the perspective of an european guy.

Post: #43

You seem to following 'game' too formulaicely and it looks to me like you dont really understand and havent really experienced many of emotions and dynamics behind the interactions. You say in your other threads you met some girl and the interaction went in such and such a way. Thats too general.

You dont even know, or just havent told us what went wrong with the girl you mentioned in the OP. What happened there? That is more important that all the little one-time interactions you've had because you both knew each other for a few months. You should know what type of girl she was, what she wanted in her life, how you fit into that, can she get better than you, is the relationship progressing etc?

I mean, didnt it even hurt when she broke it off? Didnt that hurt your ego? If it didnt then I think you might have some serious issues. Ego is big part of it and the desire to preserve your ego is what pushes us to dominate girls emotionally and psychologically. If you can do that, or atleast want to do that, then you are on the right track.

Post: #44

(06-24-2017 02:58 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  

Quote:Has OP been to a psychologist to try and tease out what's making him so averse to sticking with any given woman?

That last (and only) girl left me, because I was against teh gheyzzz.

That girl from that other thread was the only girl you've ever had sex with?

Post: #45

No, she was the second of two.

Post: #46

(06-24-2017 03:17 AM)Suits Wrote:  His starting of these identical threads is his way of achieving absolutely nothing while pretending that he is making an effort.

This, 4500 posts without any progress is masturbation. Still, on the plus side, he's open about his inexperience, far better than someone who claims to be a SuperAlpha who's fucked a conga-line of supermodels without any proof.(theredpill on reddit is notorious for this)

10 girls may be a bit high as game is becoming too much of an all or nothing thing. 1 should show progress

(06-24-2017 08:06 AM)RexImperator Wrote:  

Quote:I don't think Rex should be afforded any more advice until he's worked off the weight, has built a respectable amount of muscle and has fucked 10 women.

Just to be clear, what are the bodyfat%, bodyweight, and powerlifting totals I should hit before asking another question?

Bodyfat: having a lower BF% than the previous month.
Powerlifting: Progress, it doesn't need to be huge, but keep pushing yourself a little further each week.
Bodyweight: Each of girls must weigh less than you.

Post: #47

(06-24-2017 02:58 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  

Quote:Has OP been to a psychologist to try and tease out what's making him so averse to sticking with any given woman?

That last (and only) girl left me, because I was against teh gheyzzz.

Can you expound on this? Why did she consider you to be that?

Post: #48

Hey Rex,

I'm basically the same age as you, and I've never really had a girlfriend either. So cheer up.

Now, in all the threads and whatnot, I don't see anyone giving you this most crucial piece of advice:

Just be yourself!

Thank me later.

Aloha!

Post: #49

(06-23-2017 03:08 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  Thread title about says it all. I dated a girl for a few months last year but we broke up just a week after I thought to myself, "Hmm, I guesss we're girlfriend and boyfriend now..." That was my only "relationship".

I'm thinking I probably should take up some activities that might lead to something. Otherwise I'll be 50 and nothing will have changed.

You don't give us much information.

What is your SMV? It would be good if you explain how you argue to come up with the value.

What do you do to get girls? Where do you typically fail?

Post: #50

Quote:Can you expound on this? Why did she consider you to be that?

She didn't. It's all in the other thread. I said I was against gay marriage and she didn't like that.