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RE: Using money and other ways to improve the quality of my game
(06-13-2017 03:09 PM)Zelcorpion Wrote: (06-13-2017 10:11 AM)crdr Wrote: (06-13-2017 10:10 AM)churros Wrote: I love how dudes are putting on the kid gloves for cdr because he claims to have cash. This seems to happen a lot here. But it's just standard game denialism and low-post trolling. I don't see why this debate needs to happen again.
Where am I? lol. What's so wrong with wanting to be successful with Women and Money? Wow.
Nah - Churros is right.
As a rule of thumb - the younger the girl is, the higher her tolerance for the no-money-no-success bang. It also is dependent on your age to a degree. She has higher tolerance for a broke 25yo than a 45yo man, even if you are in excellent shape.
The older a woman gets, the more she is looking for the Beta provider and that the age range you suddenly see the 8s and 9s pair up with well-off man. She is not going to bang the ex-con or the struggling artist too long.
And here is where the misconceptions start - you see successful men being married to hot girls past the age of 26-30. What you don't see is the assortment of low-life Alphas, losers, fuck-ups and drug addicts she fucked in her hotter tighter years:
![[Image: smv-timeline1.jpg]](https://rationalmale.files.wordpress.com/2014/03/smv-timeline1.jpg)
I get decent women. I'm not a fuck up or a loser or a drug addict. Quite the opposite.
Nice graph.
I think you guys are really misunderstanding me. I make money for myself and myself only. I like making money and having sex... I am on this forum because I find Game and Making money one in the same... I own and have reviewed all of Roosh's Books. I run day game every day. I know for a fact you don't need money to impress girls. Game is also great for marketing strategies. I know I need money to afford the finer things in life and to achieve freedom for myself. That's my definition of game. I want the complete life. Game doesn't buy infinity pools. Yet, it fills the infinity pool. I AM NOT ARGUING WITH YOU GUYS!!! Ironically and indirectly I'm learning more that I wouldn't know. But I play both sides of the table. My money game is tight and my Game can always use tightening because it makes me more money!!!
Thank you for the graph. It just gave me much more marketing firepower... Very good.
Can someone explain why the Sexual Peak for Men is 37?
(This post was last modified: 06-13-2017 03:43 PM by crdr.)
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Ultimate Wingman
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RE: Using money and other ways to improve the quality of my game
Before the 2007 subprime crisis, I was making decent bank (5 figures a month) but my game was weak as hell. I would pay for expensive dinners, have nice clothes (these are necessarily bad) but I would DEPEND ON IT and had very few dates. Contrast this to after the economic crisis, I've living on the floor of a relative, and I'm killing it in day game, getting multiple instadates, paying little no money at all on cheap ass yet interesting dates and the girls are enjoying spending time with me more! I end up getting into a long term relationship but that's another story.
Point being, money is a tool but should not be used as the crutch.
With all this being said, guys who are good at making money generally tend to be good at other things that relate to being good with women. Example: sales. To be good at sales, you have to be a people person and know general psychology/intuition. Which BTW, is what is required to not only be good at getting girls, is mandatory to being able to deal with them AFTER you've slept with them and are now in a relationship (even purely sexual relationships are a form of a relationship) Another example is logistics. If you own and run a business, you have to be good at managing a million variables. Look at Roosh and his websites/books. There's a lot of thought and effort put into that. That sort of personality will translate well to dating where you need to have condums and wine ready at your place. Good lighting. Proximity to date location, etc. Women know this instinctually and that's part of the reason they like "rich guys" not so much because they're rich but because they're "successful" which translates to being a good father for their kids, good husband, good boyfriend to deal with their crazy ass mood swings.
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RE: Using money and other ways to improve the quality of my game
(06-13-2017 07:33 PM)Ultimate Wingman Wrote: Before the 2007 subprime crisis, I was making decent bank (5 figures a month) but my game was weak as hell. I would pay for expensive dinners, have nice clothes (these are necessarily bad) but I would DEPEND ON IT and had very few dates. Contrast this to after the economic crisis, I've living on the floor of a relative, and I'm killing it in day game, getting multiple instadates, paying little no money at all on cheap ass yet interesting dates and the girls are enjoying spending time with me more! I end up getting into a long term relationship but that's another story.
Point being, money is a tool but should not be used as the crutch.
I think race factors into this as well. I read a study somewhere where white women only considered dating black and asian men who made over 150k, but white men only needed to make 60k to be considered a prospect.
This issue is a a lot more multi-layered and complex than simply "just have confidence bro!" or "money is a crutch". The effective use of money depends heavily on your particular circumstances. I think a black guy will benefit much more and gain much more ground from having money than a fit, normal, decent looking 29 year old white guy with a middle class job.
I know for a fact sites like SA exist because money works. And I (being a black dude) did a hell of a lot better on SA than any dating site I've ever been on (outside of night game).
Which is one of the main reasons why I disagree with so many on this thread.
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RE: Using money and other ways to improve the quality of my game
(06-13-2017 10:18 PM)Ouroboros Wrote: (06-13-2017 10:00 AM)crdr Wrote: (06-13-2017 09:54 AM)Ouroboros Wrote: (06-13-2017 09:47 AM)crdr Wrote: Can somebody please explain why all the rich guys got hot chicks and all broke guys I see in grocery stores have hogs for girlfriends?
(06-13-2017 09:47 AM)crdr Wrote: Everyone knows that Fortune 500 CEOs marry low maintenance spouses who will mother their children. Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, you name a WEALTHY or POWERFUL man, he's mostly got a motherly wife and a young side thing. Jeff Bezos wife isn't that bad. But this is nothing new...
Who ends up marrying the hot chicks then?
Successful men... Entrepreneurs, Athletes who make over $500K aka guys with Game and Money.
google: Trophy Wife
Successful men end up marrying the hot chicks, you say. So an athlete making over 500K is more 'successful' than the corporate billionaires and politicians who often have extremely homely wives? I don't see how this makes any sense if your definition of success depends so highly upon an individual's net worth or power, which a politician or CEO has to a far greater extent than an athlete (or even most entrepreneurs).
Athletes/Celebs can get away with more "shenanigans" than politicians or CEO's, because CEO's/politicians are expected to behave accord to public standards of conduct. So in reality, any sufficiently famous dude (any guy on forbes celeb 100 or TMZ) would have a lot more power than a politician and could rail much more pussy.
This paradox is because of how the public and people in general puts public figures in certain "boxes" due to the expectations of their jobs.
Power is not money, it's how you are perceived.
If the billionaire "rebranded" himself from a "business" guy to a globetrotting playboy with an insane lifestyle (ala Dan Bilzerian) he could also get much more pussy.
It's for the same reasons a famous porn actor fucks more girls than a regular famous actor, even when their not doing porn.
(This post was last modified: 06-13-2017 11:08 PM by BossOfBosses.)
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RE: Using money and other ways to improve the quality of my game
(06-12-2017 02:12 PM)jselysianeagle Wrote: I've been good friends with guys who were near broke and could still pull solid 8s and 9s every now and then. The one thing they *did* have in common, was above-average looks, solid confidence around women, and yes, being broke or near-broke.
This is what I'm saying. Although, I think being financially secure (don't have to be rich) helps a lot.
When you have moderately attractive looks combined with solid emotional control and having your shit together financially on some level, there shouldn't be any major barriers to getting the 8-9 level girls.
The one thing though is that internal mental block. That's what I have been thinking about lately. I can get dates with those upper level chicks and even get them back to the bedroom, but not closing. Either I get anxious and the girl picks up on that and drops me or I give up prematurely because I don't want to face the idea that I failed with a really goodlooking chick.
I think the last piece of the puzzle to getting 8-9 level chicks is having that internal killer instinct where fear or anxiety doesn't lead to you fucking up. Being a closer so to speak.
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RE: Using money and other ways to improve the quality of my game
My keyboard jockey sense is tingling.
"Better weird than celibate"
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