(06-12-2017 05:19 AM)ksbms Wrote: (06-11-2017 09:38 PM)StackGsMan Wrote: I've gotten lots of numbers out of the gym. It really helps if you are in the top levels aesthetically of your city and that particular gym though.
Usually you can approach in any way that works for you with day game.
If you want and know how to be funny about it you can wait until she is done with her set and joke about how she is totally doing it wrong, then take the conversation from there.
I've been to a lot of gyms across the US and some in Europe, and I should say that most gyms aren't pure day game, they are like a hybrid of day game and social circle. A lot of the fit chicks that go to a gym do so very regularly and often times they are "gym friends" with a lot of the better looking guys.
Your best bet is to first off be in really good shape, then treat the gym like a bar or club that you are a regular at. You certainly can just go for the number and proceed as usual, but if you want to be with several different girls at the gym over the course of time it helps to create a sexually charged friendship without being overtly sexual in any way.
Also you can agree to meet a girl at the gym and work out together instead of trying to go on a date somewhere else. If you know your stuff and look good and if she is a fan of working out this will be more fun and sexual for her then going out for drinks or whatever.
So in summary, direct or indirect day game style approach or something cocky funny, and transition it into a "friendship".
One of few places I still haven't approached in, is the gym. Although I'm short, my physique is pretty good so I think I can try to run 'gym game', perhaps this evening.
Any particular, successful examples that you'd remember?
Yeah I can try to recall my most recent gym approaches. Keep in mind that for the most part I treat gym game just like day game even though I would recommend something closer to a social circle day game hybrid. Also keep in mind I am 6'2'' but was 310 lbs recently, just having made it to 268 over about two months. I'm muscular, but still fat and nothing like my best shape years ago.
1. Vietnamese woman sitting in the sauna. It was full of people so some people were even standing. I waited her out and when she walked out I followed within seconds. Asked her where she was from and she said Vietnam. I talked about how I was planning to go to Ho Chi Minh City and blah blah about Vietnam. She offered to take my number and give it to her niece in HCMC to be my tour guide. I had her call my phone with hers. There was more to it but that was the gist.
2. Mexican with a body that was 9 was working out next to me. I was doing the laying down hamstring curls and she was working legs as well. After I finished I walked over, signaled with my hands that I was talking to her so she'd take off her headphones, then opened with a direct "you're attractive so I just wanted to tell you that". She acted as if she didn't know much English so I quickly threw out some Spanish that I've been learning. Soon after handed her my phone and she put her name and number.
3. Dominican woman with very light skin. Looked more like a Columbian mestiza. "Hey I was just curious, where are you from?" She answers and I started throwing out a bit of Spanish. She said she wasn't single though, no number.
4. African-American woman working on her legs. I spotted her after coming into the gym. As my friend was doing his squats I walked over and told her that she was too good looking to be working out so much. We got to talking and she gave me her number.
There are more but I can't really recall them as I'm sleepy. Right now I am one of the stronger guys in the gym, but my body isn't very aesthetic. When I had a top 10% body I would have girls interrupt my workout by doing things like asking how many sets I have left or for help with moving something or using the proper form. All of these things were of course gym girl moves to open me, including the asking how many sets I have, because since I got fat this NEVER happens.
The key in my opinion of years of being in gyms is to be very fit and just be that social guy. Then get them to meet you at the gym for a workout together. For girls that really enjoy the gym working out with a fit and knowledgeable man gives them the same or a similar rush as dancing well does with women that want to dance. The blood gets to flowing and both of you get a pump that leads to a high. This is the most natural way to get the hormones working.
In a lot of cases I believe this is the best way to get with those very few super fit and hot chicks that can be found at many gyms around the country. Not saying you can't do a direct approach with them and have it work, just that this is more of a sure fire way of either getting with her or else becoming a part of her social circle and having access to her friends.