Post: #1

Just more pussy? If so how much?

You know the old saying "if ain't broke don't fix it?".

Let me explain my current situation so you can see where I'm coming from.
I'm currently living in Ibague, Colombia and in an *"open" relationship with a pretty cool chick . I also have a U.S. job I can do from HOME. Unlike the typical Colombian bitch, she's cool about me being a "perro" (dog) and messing around with other women.

*Of course she's free to do the same, so this type of relationship isn't for anyone who is the jelaous type or possessive (read oldnemesis post to get an idea how it works).

Even though the relationship is "open" we do a lot of shit together AND enjoy it. We recently went to a couple of world cup (U-20) here in Colombia and she enjoyed the games as much as I did. Actually, it would be pretty pathetic to have an "open" RELATIONSHIP and NOT do anything together.

So since I have a "good" relationship and have the option to screw other bitches if I want, I just want a moderate increase in the number of times I get sex from outside without investing large amounts of my money and time (a good ROI).

This site (to me) is really about reading your stories, theories, philosophies, etc to help me increase my "game" and sharing my findings with you. Something tells me I'm "average" and those guys who aren't seeking orgies every week might appreciate my posts (only time will tell).

Goal: Cut my closing time by 50% (or increase ROI by 100%). Having free time while getting more pussy would be ideal as I want to have a life outside of it.

First mission: 3 day weekend in Cali (this weekend). I have two solid dates set up with a couple Caleñas that want to "meat" me so I'll report on that when I get back.
Potential deal breakers: They figuring out I'm seeing more than one woman (Colombian women hate that even if you don't have anything with them yet). Another thing is that Colombians are flaky, but I have experience setting up these type of meeting so hopefully that experience will pay off...

Btw, I selected Cali because I know too many people in Ibague already so I'll rather not start any rumors here where I'm trying to live a peaceful/lay back life. Ibague is also know as the capital of gossip in Colombia so figure it out....some might not give a shit about that, but I'll rather avoid it...

Post: #2

Ok I'm figuring "what you want to get out being a player" is a subject that probably has been discussed a lot before so would appreciate any advice you have on the last part of it:

First mission: 3 day weekend in Cali (this weekend). I have two solid dates set up with a couple Caleñas that want to "meat" me so I'll report on that when I get back.
Potential deal breakers: They figuring out I'm seeing more than one woman (Colombian women hate that even if you don't have anything with them yet). Another thing is that Colombians are flaky, but I have experience setting up these type of meeting so hopefully that experience will pay off...

You guys have any experience doing short weekend "runs" to meet 2 or more women? If so how did you manage it so they didn't figure out you were there to see more than one of them?

Post: #3

For what's worth...

Just came from a relative successful trip in Cali and would like to write a lengthy report but I was only there 2 days so it was quick, but it was fun.
I stayed here >> http://www.iguana.com.co/services.html. The Hostel is nothing to write home about but its value goes way up when you consider that is near everything in Barrio Granada (bars, restaurantes, night clubs) . Actually, you don't need a taxi at all to get to this spots as they're 4-5 blocks away. Iguana gave me a map of all of the spots so that made it even easier to find everything.
The only place I visited was "Juan Valdez Cafe", but I'm making a promise to return to "Pamperos" Argentian restaurant on my next trip.
I should mention that I don't consider this rich places too much of a hunting ground for me. The bitches I saw were model like but you could tell something was up their arse as they wouldn't talk to anyone but their company. Note: I also had 4 bitches I had met online who wanted to meet me already so I thought going after tough bitches would have been a lot of effort with probably very little in return.
Btw, I ended up with plan A (a hot MILF) but could not close her because of her cockblocking kid and her babysitter being busy that night (although she might have been using that as an excuse).

She did make an effort to keep me around (kissing whenever the kid was watching cartoons (thank you Discovery kids!) or asleep). Had the kid not waken up I would have closed her since things went from cold (hand holding) to warm (kissing) to hot (touching parts) in about 15 minutes of constant playing around...

The bus ride from Ibague to Cali was great and so was the bus ride back, but I need to cut on those 6 hour trips so I'm still considering Armenia (3 hours away from Cali) to be a wise move...I do have to confess that after being in Cali and seeing all the action in "La Sexta" and Granada and the high number of hot bitches walking around I would probably exchange putting up with hot weather for getting some caleña action more often...

Oh fellas if you want to come and live anywhere in Colombia I recommend you use this site >> http://www.compartoapto.com/ to find a "room" for rent and enjoy the country at a non-tourist cost. I just can't see myself paying 1.5 to 2 million pesos for a furnished place but my budget is not as large as others so I need to find ways to cut cornes without cutting down on the fun.
Btw, I saw an ad for furnished "room" (with all services included) in el Poblado Medellin (richest section in Medellin) for $600,000 COP (about $340).

Post: #4

I want freedom and choice in women, which taken together are happiness. I used to feel like I am at the mercy of a strange, incomprehensible force buffeting my life from one end to another, particularly in love. My goal: no more.

Post: #5

Threesomes

Post: #6

I asked myself this very question recently. I have achieved most of the goals I set out for myself when I got into the game. I have achieved the goals that I set out as in turn when I completed the first set of goals. Nowadays I'm just tweaKING, trying new stuff, checking new venues (such as online dating) and gaming in new locales. Still it's all starting to feel like work and/or textbook.

Post: #7

(09-09-2011 07:49 AM)Riker Wrote:  Threesomes

Right on! I have had a few of these and it normally takes getting a girl to confess she is bisexual. Once I have a girl confess so that I tell her that it would be great for both of us to find another girl to bang so she can enjoy both sides of her sexuality...not as simple as just saying that as I build it up, but you get my point...

Post: #8

(09-09-2011 08:53 AM)Vicious Wrote:  I asked myself this very question recently. I have achieved most of the goals I set out for myself when I got into the game. I have achieved the goals that I set out as in turn when I completed the first set of goals. Nowadays I'm just tweaKING, trying new stuff, checking new venues (such as online dating) and gaming in new locales. Still it's all starting to feel like work and/or textbook.

I'm guessing that this is like a drug...your first hit is always the best and after that you keep on getting high just to avoid withdrawals or you find a new/stronger drug? The question is how do you keep the game exiciting after x years of getting what you want? Any new challenges?

Post: #9

What do I want from being a player?

I want to ability to attract, seduce, and bang a wide variety of women for as long as I can.

Post: #10

I still prefer the term, Ladies Man.

Quote:I want to ability to attract, seduce, and bang a wide variety of women for as long as I can.

Pretty much sums it up for me as well.

Post: #11

Short-term, I want to bang a lot of hot girls.

Long-term, I want to build a skill set that will give me freedom and choice with women no matter what I ultimately decide to do. People change and my goals 10 years down the road may be completely different from what they are now, so I'm going to make my game as good and as versatile as it can be. Options=freedom.

Post: #12

Simply put: I want the freedom and ability meet and seduce women in all types of places and environments and not be reliant on anyone else but myself to make it happen.

I want to meet and be with women on my terms.

As gringonchileno put it - Options = Freedom.

And of course I want to bang a boat load of hot chicks while I'm at it