Post: #1

I was wondering if any of you guys had any game tips for me concerning a situation, I met this woman at a bar a few weeks ago and I've been running game on her since then (calls, texts, i even met up with her twice).

Roosh, it's kind of like your "sour dick sucking lips" 5-page story. Very similar to that in fact. This hasn't happened to me since I started to get really good at game, I get all positive signals from her that I'm creating attraction, but then when it's time to get physical I get totally rejected.

She texts/calls/wants to hang out with me all the time. But she hasn't given me the lets just be friends line, else I would have been out. Is she leading me along fearing being pumped and dumped? Does she think I'll leave once I've hit the pussy because that's the only thing keeping me there? Am I in the friend's zone?

I was teasing her and I told her that I'd adopt her as my "bratty little sister" as a joke, and she LIKED the idea. Then I told her she has to pose as my girl to help me pick up other girls, then she says that she already knows "of a girl that wants me." (her, it has to be). Whatever game she's playing, it sure is working on me. An older woman too... anyways, I'm thinking about just laying down the law - "listen I'm not into 'just friends'" and telling her goodbye and moving on? Any other ideas/thoughts?

Post: #2

i ran into the same shit a few weeks back in medellin. dont try to reason with her-- women arent rational. just keep going for the kiss and when she leans back, you lean further until she meets you.

(03-14-2009 10:38 PM)incident Wrote:  I was wondering if any of you guys had any game tips for me concerning a situation, I met this woman at a bar a few weeks ago and I've been running game on her since then (calls, texts, i even met up with her twice).

Roosh, it's kind of like your "sour dick sucking lips" 5-page story. Very similar to that in fact. This hasn't happened to me since I started to get really good at game, I get all positive signals from her that I'm creating attraction, but then when it's time to get physical I get totally rejected.

She texts/calls/wants to hang out with me all the time. But she hasn't given me the lets just be friends line, else I would have been out. Is she leading me along fearing being pumped and dumped? Does she think I'll leave once I've hit the pussy because that's the only thing keeping me there? Am I in the friend's zone?

I was teasing her and I told her that I'd adopt her as my "bratty little sister" as a joke, and she LIKED the idea. Then I told her she has to pose as my girl to help me pick up other girls, then she says that she already knows "of a girl that wants me." (her, it has to be). Whatever game she's playing, it sure is working on me. An older woman too... anyways, I'm thinking about just laying down the law - "listen I'm not into 'just friends'" and telling her goodbye and moving on? Any other ideas/thoughts?

Post: #3

You can try Mojodrew's suggestion but its more of the same - you pursuing her, she is pulling back.

Thats why we turn to pua material, to avoid that paradigm.

Is she doing some kind of gift to let you sleep with her when she relents? Thats a bad frame to have.

Lots of people don't give you the lets just be friends line. You can't rely on them to give you clarity. You have to create the clarity.

Ignore her a little and increase your options with other women. Thats evolutions way of saying to her primal brain 'get his genes or someone else will', and its the strongest persuasion you can send. In the wild, those who mate give offspring. Those who hold hands and share jokes don't. If the prospect of you impregnating some other girl doesn't get her into the sack with you, perhaps nothing will.

Post: #4

The title says it all - "Weeks of work" - it shouldn't feel like work, and it definitely should not take weeks.

The organizing principle of your date must be, how am I going to get from 'hello' to sex?

Post: #5

just move on dude, seriously.

Post: #6

Moved on. Thanks for all the help guys. I would have liked to hear what Roosh had to say about this. Probably move on as well.

Post: #7

You know occasionally a girl gets under your skin, and you begin what is an unhealthy relationship with her. Something you can't be very proud of - because there is duplicity, dishonesty, no-clarity, loss of control...

This weekend was a complete write off for of depression and pills due to this one girl who comes in and out of my life to wreak havoc.... love like no other... then she goes back to her long term marriage and her kids.

I have tried everything I know, but sometimes you hit rock bottom. The good advice is still good advice, but I can't follow it and I will pay for it... and maybe next time I will be mature enough to listen.