RE: First major Red Pill moment
I used to be the SJW type who would support "equal rights" and the right to do everything we want.
When I first arrived in Thailand, it was only for a trip. I met a girl who I liked, and started dating her. However I pedestrialized the pussy and always let her know how she was "the one" and how lucky I was. She got the cue and became dominant. She stopped making food for me, giving massages, and started getting more and more frequent mood jumps. At that time, I was quite poor and she always joked about "I need a rich boyfriend.. just kidding, you know". After a while, I realized that it was true, because often, we would check the menus in front of restaurants and walk along because it was too expensive. Since she was becoming dominant, she expected me to pay for everything and would never offer to share the bill. She started refusing sex and refusing to give me blowjobs. At the end, she was the boss and if I didn't follow what she wanted, she would give the silence treatment until I changed my mind, and after that too to punish me.
Part of me always thought that men need to faithful to their girls, but I was looking for something different, so I started looking on Thai dating sites for other girls. I was looking to get away from something that wasn't for me, so I searched for "easiness of girls around the world", and the TargetMap by Roosh linked here. I started reading, lurking anonymously, then decided to register. This blown my mind and I took the red pill. I decided to try reframing my girl rather than dumping her, since her becoming this way was my fault for having a weak frame.
I was also starting a business with 3 of my home country buddies and I told my girl that if she wanted a rich boyfriend, she should give me at least 2 years in order to let the business take off. I thought she would be patient considering that I've been with her for 2 years, but her answer was:
"Everyone wants to be rich. I don't believe you can do it, because you talked about that countless times. Stop dreaming, I want an older man who succeeded already"
Things went downhill from there. Mainly because I was focusing on the business rather than her, and because I wasn't reframing the relationship like I should have been, so she started "going out with friends" many times. I once got suspicious and asked a school buddy to follow her, and she went on a dinner date with a man that was halfway between dad and grandpa. There was the shock:
My girl started seeing other men because my frame was weak and because I was too lazy to make the business grow like I should be. I was too focusing on party and forgetting to build a foundation for a solid future.
When I was about to have that discussion with her, she said she was coming home to pick her things because she wasn't dumping me but "needed to find herself". When she came to pick her stuff, there was another man waiting in the truck - and it wasn't a Thai. I know it was my Eskimo brother. The other guy had a nice truck, was good looking, and spoke Thai. I had no car, was skinny, and spoke "nid noy" Thai. He was just better than me.
That was the red pill truth forced down my throat. The red pill was hard to take but it happened this way.
I decided to improve myself and go all-in on self improvement. I put those rules in place:
1) Studying Thai in school 3 hours a day
2) Working on the business 10 hours per day
3) Maximum 2 girls per week
Everyday, I went to school, then went to my office and worked on the business. Everyday was mostly talking to suppliers, coordinating employees, and talking to my home country partners about future plans. Money started coming in more and more everyday. When I reached my financial goal, my mind changed on many things. First, I wasn't finding my girl attractive anymore. Second, I realized that my blue-pill pink glasses were hiding the fact that she had been cheating for a while. And third. I realized that I was the only responsible for my success or misely, and that it was my job to develop a solid frame and use it with girls.
I first met my current wife along the way when building the business, and was seeing her only once every 2 weeks. I promised myself to hold my frame all the way. The green flags were:
- Aged mid 20's
- Virgin and was willing to undergo a virginity test (we didn't do the test for real but her willingness was a good sign)
- Complete family with mother and father
- Good looking and well-preserved
- University diploma with musical and art skills
I now get a massage everyday, sandwiches everyday, and not a single complaint. The red pill allows you to build a frame and to hold it in any situation.
Taking the red pill and being with a girl who didn't respect me helped me to realize how the West is a broken society and how feminism is bad - this is a way of thinking that comes with the red pill too.
Optimist: "The glass is half full." Pessimist: "The glass is half empty." Feminist: "The glass has been raped."
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