Post: #1

My father told me a long time ago that he learned how to cook so that no woman could ever hold that over him (i.e. he wouldn't be stuck with a woman just because he needed someone to cook for him). It makes a lot of sense. Could this kind of mentality backfire though? I guess if you cook to impress a 1-2 week fling, it may not be such a bad thing. If you're looking for a girlfriend, wife, or long-term fuck-buddy then I would think cooking too frequently may not be advisable though. It would be better to put her in the subservient, more traditional role, no? What do you guys think?

Post: #2

Cooking for a girl is a great tool.

It serves two purposes, it puts you at the centre of her attention and also gets her over to your place for a few hours.

Add alcohol and some good music or a film, you should get the lay.

Its a good way to showcase you have more to offer than other guys.

Post: #3

Yay. Yay. Motherfucking yay.

Its a perfect low cost date that gives women plausible deniability.
I wish I could find some of those deleted texts but I think setting it up went something like this.

Me: SO whats your favorite food
Her: Blah blah
Me: Word? Ive got this great recipe, Although I must warn you its so good it will make you slap yo momma
Her: Ha ha is that so?
Me: Yea my place [x] nite at 9. Bring wine
Her: ok

Thats more or less a paraphrase and works with girls with most girls but works the best with dating apps girls

Subconciously she knows whats up if she goes to your house for the first date.
I cook, put her to work with string something or watching something cook while I do my thing in the kitchen.
When stuff is almost ready I take back over her part and have her set the table
I serve it up and she has a mouthgasm

me: wanna slap yo mamma dontcha
her: haha yes its good

Im very hospitable offering her water and what not.
When we are finished I begin cleaning up--hopefully she offers to help clean, don't bet on her entitled ass tho...
this may be bad game: I try to avoid small talk deliberately. While this typically would send her ASD up since she is probably thinking about what will happen next I see it as the opposite.
If I have provided enough funny, sexuallity, and comfort in my mind she is wondering if I am a man of my words--am I a real man who will make a move on her or am I all talk.
I avoid the conversating while washing the dishes to let this run a few laps in her head.
Then I move it to the couch for some netflix and chill time.

From there its just textbook escalation.
Some girls have denied me sex but fucked later on. I think its just a test to see if I have the balls to try and fuck and once I past the test they will fuck eventually.

Just make sure you don't fall asleep durring the movie. That has blown up my spot a few times lol

Post: #4

Yay.

Save money.

Good food.

Great logistics.

DHV.

Plus, cooking is way too important to leave to bitches.

Post: #5

I was always very wary of cooking for women; that's her job. She needs to bring something to the relationship besides the spreading of her legs. I can get that from any floozy. Love is about action and action speaks louder than words.

We can twist anything around...it would be great if she doesn't do laundry, because then I can learn to wash my own clothes, etc. But that's a slippery slope. Eventually you're sitting at home, cooking your own dinner, and wondering where the hell she is. Oh yeah, she's off somewhere else..."finding herself." And that "finding herself" is usually on top of Chad ThunderCock's penis - and she loves cooking for Chad, mind you.

If you want the bang and nothing else, then I'd cook for her. If you want something more, then she needs to cook for you.

Post: #6

Cooking a meal for a date is not bad. I married a girl that I made a fancy dinner for early on. 14 years later, she does 90% of the meals, but I can from time to time if circumstances favor me doing it. Just don't let it become a habit.

Post: #7

Definite yay from me. "Let's cook dinner together" sounds a lot classier/higher value than just "let's hang out at my place".

Teaching a girl to cook something (I always have the girl help me) is actually kinda fun for me.

After you're done cooking you have something good to eat, then watch a movie together, then probably end up banging.

Obviously if you're in something long-term you don't want to be doing most of the cooking, but for a first or second date it's a lot of fun.

Post: #8

As has already been mentioned, an advantage of it is that you get her in your house immediately. From there you can get her to help you, turn it into a game with flirting, touching and the rest. You see how she acts in a kitchen which is important if you're looking for something more long term. If it goes well you can smoothly transition to dimming the lights, putting on some music to set the mood and go for the smash.

Your place also speaks volumes about you. If your place contains interesting stuff that demonstrates value, shows you have done and do interesting things and live an interesting life, these things work in your favour.

Post: #9

I can't think of a single downside of cooking for girls. Saves money, is healthier, don't need to take her out, win win win.

Post: #10

I personally love to cook, so it's a yay from me. If the girl offers to do dishes after that's what really makes my heart pound.

Feed them well, entertain them, and escalate. I don't think I've ever cooked for a girl and she didn't put out.

Post: #11

It's one of those things that has benefits all around if you learn.

You learn to cook, which you can do for yourself, and eat healthier and save money.

And it's an easy excuse to get the girl over to your place, so that you can do it without interrupting your life too much.

Wins all around.

Post: #12

YAY

As long as you can cook even if it's just one dish.

Think of it this way. She's already at your house. You just gave her a meal. People trust and like people that give them food.

Pour her a few drinks on top of that. She's thinking she might as well drink an extra one or two more than she planned. Why not? She trusts you after that meal you fed her.

Next thing you know things "just happened" and your dick is in her pussy.

Post: #13

Yep, I got great feedback from a hottie that she found it really attractive to watch me work in the kitchen and prepare a meal for her.
It's something I already enjoy doing.

As has been pointed out, it shows you're creative. You can include them and give them an activity. It's pretty much customary to drink while you cook. They're already at your house.

Otherwise you can use these skills to throw a feast.
http://www.returnofkings.com/92509/4-rea...st-a-feast

Post: #14

Yes.

All the reasons mentionned above applies. I would also add that a lot of girls think that a man cooking is sexy.

As for me, I cook for myself and for others, I trust what I cook more than anything I can get in restaurant these days. I'm becoming pretty good so I have fun with it and lead the intereaction.

Post: #15

This is how I get girls to my place.

Post: #16

My girl and I cooked for steak and blowjob day.

She blew me, then I showed her the proper way to cook a steak while she made the sides.

I also like giving girls tasks. "Here: find something out of this cookbook that you want and make a grocery list, I'll be back in an hour"

Let her have some responsibilities and ownership of the kitchen.

In my experience, if she doesn't try to keep the kitchen tidy or is total cooking fuckup, you're going to have a bad time long term.

It's a good way to test girl for long term potential that way.

I've also had one night stands from offering to cook something back at mine. But, for the reasons I listed above, I lost interest in most of them after the orgasm because they really had nothing to offer other than getting my rocks off.

Post: #17

I have some simple recipes like spaghetti with clams that sound very classy but are easy to make and cheap. Girls really like that as many of them don't know how to cook, and cooking man looks awesome.

Sometimes I don't even finish when I see bored look at her face and go for sex immediately.

Post: #18

Kind of confused by the all the thumbs up here. Ive done it in the past, so Im not going to pretend im some alpha personality over the internet, but in my journey to grow and build myself, Ive realized early on that cooking for a girl is just a degrading thing to do as a man.

Guys should know about nutrition ie. calorie counting, types of carbs/fats/proteins, macros, meal planning etc. Naturally cooking is a big part of nutrition.

Sure learning to make various high quality meals is rewarding, I enjoy it myself. But cooking for a girl is that do anything for sex mentality. If youre looking for a relationship, she should be demonstrating some cooking ability. For ONS, ill stick to offering vino or marijuana...

Post: #19

(03-22-2017 03:20 AM)mickeyd Wrote:  Kind of confused by the all the thumbs up here. Ive done it in the past, so Im not going to pretend im some alpha personality over the internet, but in my journey to grow and build myself, Ive realized early on that cooking for a girl is just a degrading thing to do as a man.

I get what you say, but cooking for a girl at your place is one of the best logistical moves you can make.

Post: #20

It all depends what your preference is.

Personally I have relatively little interest in a notch count for the sake of it. I'd rather fuck a couple of girls a year, and lock down some top tier pussy for a 6 month stretch before sending her on her way, than fuck many more girls (some of inevitably dubious quality). The time investment required for regularly fucking and chucking a lot of girls is prohibitive in my life as I choose to lead it. It disrupts my sleep, generally requires I drink more than I enjoy, and removes a significant amount of my lifting/business building/cat videos time.

I like cooking for girls for a number of reasons:

1. I control the environment - I don't have to drink more than I want, I don't have to travel to talk to some chick to maybe then travel back to fuck her, I can control the lighting, music, etc to create the right atmosphere.

2. I really love food, and enjoy cooking. This is time spent in a chick's company that is not complete torture. Even if she is telling me something completely inane, I can turn her down to a dull hum, and concentrate on my sauteeing, without looking bored or frustrated.

3. It's a good excuse to try out new things from a culinary perspective. I work pretty hard, and train regularly, so I tend to do the same sort of healthy stuff for myself most evenings.

4. As has been said, it gives girls an innocuous, socially acceptable way of inviting themselves over to fuck you. I missed out on so many opportunities when I was younger. A girl would have been hanging around in my company, wondering why my spergy arse wasn't making any move on her, then she'd find out I could cook, and literally immediately ask if she could come round for dinner sometime. I'd think she was just being polite and say sure, then never get in touch with her. Many a fine piece of pussy was lost to the game this way in my youth.

Post: #21

most guys are beta chumps. most guys dont know how to cook. every guy on this board should learn how to cook. remember to add salt and taste as you cook.

also: sous vide is the panty dropper

Post: #22

NAY

I can cook for myself and at a decent level.

If a woman cannot cook, which is common these days. It is a major red-flag and she better make it up in other ways (not sex).

I don't mind cooking for a woman once in a blue moon, but it will never be a regular thing.

My last serious girl wasn't a great cook, but she cleaned, did my laundry and gave me manicures etc. In this case, I didn't mind cooking.

Post: #23

Cooking for girls is a win, and not because she "can't hold it over you". It doesn't even have to be fancy: Delicioustacos claims to make chicken baked in BBQ sauce and girls go wild over it.

My wife LOVES that I'm a better cook than she, and she also loves to brag to others about it. Agreed that it's DHV.

Get at least one or two solid dishes figured out, and you'll have better options for both dating girls and entertaining friends.

Post: #24

(03-21-2017 01:39 PM)Steve McQueen Wrote:  Cooking for a girl is a great tool.

It serves two purposes, it puts you at the centre of her attention and also gets her over to your place for a few hours.

Add alcohol and some good music or a film, you should get the lay.

Its a good way to showcase you have more to offer than other guys.

^This. Cooking is genius. "I want you to come cook with me. You bring the wine." Throw in a little pre-game texting to get the mood set and half the time you can hit it before dinner. And of course, after.

Post: #25

Yay.... but

Depends how you word the invite.

You aren't cooking for her. You're cooking for you. But, since we all gotta eat, she should stop by and make a plate. She brings booze. Or a side dish. Or dessert. Whatever. I rarely make it feel romantic- no candles or any of that crap- focus on fun instead.

Also, if you aren't doing this, it's mind blowing how many girls haven't had a home cooked meal in a long time. Something simple like grilled/ baked salmon or chicken, steamed jasmine rice, and sautéed vegetables or a salad are pretty simple and go over well with most girls. Don't make a big thing of pasta unless you want her to feel fat as shit as you're about to try to sweet talk your way into her pants.

Give her something to do to help. Have her hand wash dishes as you go, set the table, chop veggies. Make her feel important to the success of the dinner-experience.

It also sets the expectation that this is how it's going to be- when she cooks the meal next time at her place or yours, hamburger helper isn't going to be good enough.

Edit: addressing the longer term scenario- men work the grill while the girlfriend/ wife run the kitchen. Man can also prepare breakfast food on weekends as long as it's not muffins if he's an early riser and likes to run the stovetop.