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RE: Girl wearing choker refuses to leave Uber car
(03-13-2017 05:49 AM)GlobalMan Wrote: It is simply not human or reasonable to say "a man should always keep his cool no matter what", or give a lecture on "frame" like he's trying to bang this whore or close a high level business deal. That just isn't reality.
The first words out of her mouth were "Don't fucking cancel on us, you weren't at our location, Jesus Christ".
That translates as "You are a piece of shit robot who is here to serve me, shut up and do what I say". And that is just the intro.
He says get out. She won't get out of his car.
"Oh, okay." Then you go into "toddler mode." Everything grinds to a halt.
Put car in park, turn off engine. Check email or have a sandwich.
"When you're ready to be polite, we can go."
They'll yell and cry like toddlers, but if you don't respond they'll get bored in about a minute, and be out of the car a minute later. Touch me and you're going to jail - it's all on camera.
I don't know why you say it's not reality to maintain frame in these situations. I worked in the "service industry" for many years, dealt with my share of histrionic assholes, and maintaining "frame" and treating them like the misbehaving toddlers they are worked a charm about 95% of the time; women, men, little old ladies, whoever.
It is difficult, yeah, but the right call often is. By losing it in a situation you can very rarely get a better outcome, and very often do a lot worse.
(03-13-2017 08:03 AM)Zep Wrote: Girl on the left is going to pay for her behavior socially when someone doxxes her.
Too much estrogen in the men at this nerd-convention or whatever. Brats like this are desperate to learn some respect.
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RE: Girl wearing choker refuses to leave Uber car
(03-13-2017 05:49 AM)GlobalMan Wrote: Sure, it's always best to keep your cool, but I can understand how he lost it.
He's driving people around in his personal vehicle in the hopes of getting $20/hr, he likely needs the money and already bites his lip day after day eating shit in order to pay his bills.
He's trying to balance maintaining a semblance of self respect and dignity with being worried about his income, no doubt this is not the first time he was treated like this. It's not difficult to imagine reaching the end of your rope at some point under those circumstances.
It is simply not human or reasonable to say "a man should always keep his cool no matter what", or give a lecture on "frame" like he's trying to bang this whore or close a high level business deal. That just isn't reality.
The first words out of her mouth were "Don't fucking cancel on us, you weren't at our location, Jesus Christ".
That translates as "You are a piece of shit robot who is here to serve me, shut up and do what I say". And that is just the intro.
He says get out. She won't get out of his car.
Has any man here had a woman refuse to leave your house all the while insulting you? It is about as infuriating as it gets, given that you dare not manhandle her out of your property for fear of going to jail, in this country at least.
This cunt then questions his sobriety for fucks sake, who apparently has been on the wagon for years.
I cannot blame him at all.
"She's just a dumb drunk woman, he needs to be able to take it."
No, he does not.
Not only that- these women should receive even fewer allowances compared to a sober woman.
We are not talking about encounters most of us have had with girls out at clubs or other circumstances where a drunk cunt is insulting you for no reason. Obviously you laugh it off and walk away, you have no reason to care and you don't. You are out chasing pussy and it doesn't always go well.
This is not that. Here is a guy working. Further, he's providing a service as a self employed worker, using his own vehicle.
Correct - some Uber drivers are making a few bucks on the side while others are literally fighting for liberty, because the next missed alimony check will get them to jail.
I do think that her behavior wants to be dominated, but also it shows the innate desire of women for drama. Women in the West have way too much delusions of power. I basically never see this kind of behavior in poorer countries. Sometimes you even see a loud group of girls prancing around through Eastern European towns and you know instantly that they are from the West, because EE girls have way less female empowerment. Most of them cannot survive on their own and they haven't been told 24/7 that they are the mistresses of the universe.
In a way the system has somewhat made them more submissive and demure. That is utterly lacking in the West with the US and UK being the worst of excesses.
Still - while she desires to be dominated, if the driver had pulled her out violently, then she may have reacted by calling the cops on him. Women have no trouble being manhandled, but only by men they consider deserving of that. I doubt she viewed it that way.
It would be another matter if a Red Pill men joined the conversation instead of a feminist White Knight - and HE TOLD HER TO SHUT THE FUCK UP AND GET THE FUCK OUT OF THE CAR - then proceeding to drag the bitch out. Well - then tingles would ensue and she would get truly wet.
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RE: Girl wearing choker refuses to leave Uber car
http://www.standard.co.uk/news/crime/pho...89036.html
Reminds me of this ^^
'A photography student who went on the rampage after being turned away from a Notting Hill club for being too drunk was spared jail after a judge told her: “I’m not sending a lady to prison for something like this”.
Karolina Szumko, 18, had drunk half a bottle of vodka when she attacked staff at the Notting Hill Arts Club, hurling racist slurs at police officers and aiming kicks and punches as she was dragged away in handcuffs.
Even after her arrest, Szumko, who is in her first year of a photography degree at Kingston University, continued to rant at police, calling them “British p*****s” and telling them: “You are going to f***ing die, f***ing racists, pretend to be white but wish Merry Christmas to Muslim people.”'
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RE: Girl wearing choker refuses to leave Uber car
(03-14-2017 08:51 AM)Constitution45 Wrote: http://www.standard.co.uk/news/crime/pho...89036.html
Reminds me of this ^^
'A photography student who went on the rampage after being turned away from a Notting Hill club for being too drunk was spared jail after a judge told her: “I’m not sending a lady to prison for something like this”.
Karolina Szumko, 18, had drunk half a bottle of vodka when she attacked staff at the Notting Hill Arts Club, hurling racist slurs at police officers and aiming kicks and punches as she was dragged away in handcuffs.
Even after her arrest, Szumko, who is in her first year of a photography degree at Kingston University, continued to rant at police, calling them “British p*****s” and telling them: “You are going to f***ing die, f***ing racists, pretend to be white but wish Merry Christmas to Muslim people.”'
Interesting - Polish SJW who obviously came to the UK too early and already got a good dose of progressive brainwashing. Yup - put all the EE & FSU girls into the West young enough and you have the same rotten fruits coming out of it.
Also big surprise that the judge spared her..... a man would be going down for hate crime and assault of police officers.
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RE: Girl wearing choker refuses to leave Uber car
(03-14-2017 10:51 AM)Zelcorpion Wrote: (03-14-2017 08:51 AM)Constitution45 Wrote: http://www.standard.co.uk/news/crime/pho...89036.html
Reminds me of this ^^
'A photography student who went on the rampage after being turned away from a Notting Hill club for being too drunk was spared jail after a judge told her: “I’m not sending a lady to prison for something like this”.
Karolina Szumko, 18, had drunk half a bottle of vodka when she attacked staff at the Notting Hill Arts Club, hurling racist slurs at police officers and aiming kicks and punches as she was dragged away in handcuffs.
Even after her arrest, Szumko, who is in her first year of a photography degree at Kingston University, continued to rant at police, calling them “British p*****s” and telling them: “You are going to f***ing die, f***ing racists, pretend to be white but wish Merry Christmas to Muslim people.”'
Interesting - Polish SJW who obviously came to the UK too early and already got a good dose of progressive brainwashing. Yup - put all the EE & FSU girls into the West young enough and you have the same rotten fruits coming out of it.
![[Image: karolinaszumkoa.jpg]](https://static.standard.co.uk/s3fs-public/styles/story_medium/public/thumbnails/image/2017/03/14/09/karolinaszumkoa.jpg)
Also big surprise that the judge spared her..... a man would be going down for hate crime and assault of police officers.
A lot of the EE girls who moved to the U.K from a young age, especially London tend to be damaged in one way or another. This girl actually looks similar to a Polish girl I know who at the age of 20 years old, already has a five year old. Needless to say the father is a criminal who has been in and out of prison for the last ten years.
Interesting that they put this story on the front page. The evening standard is a paper that is usually full of stories hating on men. Due to their readership consisting mostly of middle class English women who like to believe that they have problems in life. And most likely despise their weak, supplicating English husbands.
I suppose this is probably a dilemma for them. Are we going to side with one of our "sisters". Or those dirty unwashed working class men that got assaulted trying to restrain here without causing too much pain, in case she sues them. This would most likely be a no brainer but it seems that at least two of the victims were ethnic minorities.
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RE: Girl wearing choker refuses to leave Uber car
^Videos are now deleted but it did appear they came walking from up the block, and looked back out the rear window when they were explaining where they were. Could they have put in the wrong address? Yes. Could he have been sitting there for 10 minutes while they were casually closing a tab, or talking to friends? Yes. Could there have been more to the video? Yes. But if there was, he should have released that. The videos were several minutes long anyway, including quite a bit of time before they got in the car.
But the driver still sat there getting pissed off instead of just picking up the phone and calling them to find out what's up.
If he had called and they said they weren't willing to walk or hurry up, ok, cancel the ride and move on. The desire for confrontation was apparent from both sides and could have been a non issue with better communication. If the driver said he was there, the girls could have called him and said they didn't see him or whatever the case may be.
The girl actions were worse for just sitting there like an entitled cunt, my point is a good uber driver could have avoided this situation completely.
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RE: Girl wearing choker refuses to leave Uber car
(03-12-2017 07:48 PM)Steve McQueen Wrote: I dunno guys I thought the uber driver was a bit over the top, we've all been out and had one too many on occasion, dude needs to chill out.
Not siding with the girl on the left but I used to be like he is, no patience for drunks if I was sober, one night that all changed for me when I met a laid back dude and two chics he was rolling with. Was not an alpha, more a beta hippie type but guy was funny, had charisma which is probably how he had these girls with him but I was fairly hammered so it could have been his sisters for all I knew.
I was trying it on with one of the girls but rather than cock block me, ditch me or tell his girl to blow me out the guy invited me to tag along with them to a casino uptown and then back for a party, me a complete stranger. They could have ditched on multiple occasions when I was smoking or went to the toilet but they never did. If it had been me in his shoes I'd have been trying to ditch the drunk guy at first opportunity.
Same thing with an over aggressive bouncer trying to pick a fight with me one night at closing because I wanted to go in and retrieve my jacket, it had my wallet and phone so it was important for me to get it. Some guy stepped in at the exact moment this cunt was going to deck me, said he saw the guy hurt people before, he was a dangerous fker and I needed to let it go. This guy diffused the situation, brought me along with his group of friends to another place they were headed, no questions asked.
Dude then gave me some money to have some drinks, a few cigarettes, no questions asked, we never even spoke on the night in question. Im not religious, not hung up on the whole angels walk among us stuff but I will say that this guy was like an angel on my shoulder that night honest to God, sure makes me think looking back on it, I never forgot it or saw him again.
Those nights left an impression on me and honestly made me realise that being chill is the most important thing. Be the guy who wants to help people, not the overly aggressive wanker who is having a bad day and wants to take it out on others because he's feeling pissy.
No white night, just saying the driver was a dick imho, he tries that on the wrong person he's going to get a rude awakening some night.
This^
Guns, germs and steel. Keeping ones cool is why we all don't live in Brazilian style favelas. I recently re read Jack Dononan's way of men and I'm surprised the book doesn't get more scrutiny on this corner of the interwebz.
It's easy and intellectually lazy to say that he should have gone total GTFO my car,fuck you you mother fucking cunt ect.
Glorification of violence and aggression when not necessary is the manosphere version of "muh feelz"
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RE: Girl wearing choker refuses to leave Uber car
(03-14-2017 01:55 PM)Gustavus Adolphus Wrote: ^Videos are now deleted but it did appear they came walking from up the block, and looked back out the rear window when they were explaining where they were. Could they have put in the wrong address? Yes. Could he have been sitting there for 10 minutes while they were casually closing a tab, or talking to friends? Yes. Could there have been more to the video? Yes. But if there was, he should have released that. The videos were several minutes long anyway, including quite a bit of time before they got in the car.
But the driver still sat there getting pissed off instead of just picking up the phone and calling them to find out what's up.
If he had called and they said they weren't willing to walk or hurry up, ok, cancel the ride and move on. The desire for confrontation was apparent from both sides and could have been a non issue with better communication. If the driver said he was there, the girls could have called him and said they didn't see him or whatever the case may be.
The girl actions were worse for just sitting there like an entitled cunt, my point is a good uber driver could have avoided this situation completely.
He definitely could have handled the whole thing a lot better
Being a Taxi or Uber driver requires thick skin and a cool collected head. Uber especially. It's not just insufferable cunts; its drunken morons, people who are loud and wont shut the fuck up, older people who are wealthy and other people who are entitled you need to deal with.
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