Post: #1

Guys

Its my first post and glad to be here. Looking forward to contributing with my experience and benefiting from others.

I went SOLO first time in my life saturday night and it turned out great. Hit two venues and got 4 numbers.

At end of night I met two girls. One indian one california born asian. I stopped them as they were leaving the lounge saying "you cant leave yet as you havent introduced yourself to me" and took them back onto the patio and talked to them for 30 minutes. Great energy. I made fun of them being medical students or doctors (which they werent) and they kept insisting I was a doctor(which I am not I work in paper business and handle starbucks account) Asian one was laughing more at our jokes and poking fun at each other. Indian one was being sarcastic and had negative energy. I was giving more attention to the indian as I am a brownie myself and somehow felt obliged to solicit her but the asian was 5'2 100 lbs and funnier. As place was shutting down I asked the indian chick to give me her number and I would take her to out. At that point asian chick asked me for my number and said she is the assistant to the indian chick and i need to go through her. She took my number and called me so i got hers. we joked out another 5 minutes on date ideas and I told asian chick i would take both of them out on my friend's yacht cook for them and then seduce both of them. Hugged them and they left and I followed after few minutes of scanning for more potentials.

I didnt do any KINO with indian chick but some elbow touching with asian chick...anyhow next day i said fuck indian chick they think their pussy is made of gold and i wanted to bang the asian chick bad...realized that i hadnt had one in a long time...so i texted her this after waiting 48 hours....

me: "this is the universe texting you....to hangout with the interesting brown guy later this week"

30 mins later she txts back
her: " its not in the cards....the universe sometimes works in mysterious ways...she is already seeing someone....goodluck with the paper business....i enjoyed my starbucks this morning"

so i texted her back an hour later

me: " the universe was addressing you....the california transplant...you need to hangout with the brown guy"

NO reply for 24 hours. They are best friends. So i am thinking she didnt like fact that i gave attention to her best friend and now switching game to her....

Is it lost cause...I am not too worried about it but need to know if its possible to focus on one chick and then switch to another?

Post: #2

Should probably be moved to the Newbie section?

Don't worry about them so much, move on. You're too invested in this particular girl.

Even when you're doing well half the numbers you get will not go anywhere. There's not much you can do to rescue this one if she doesn't get back to you after the last message.

It was a mistake not to make a clear decision as to which one you were going for. You should have made your intent clear to the Asian girl.

Post: #3

The most incredible thing about this is that despite being funnier and showing better signs of interest you snubbed the asian chick for the indian.

You have some racial self-esteem deprogramming to do before anything else.

Post: #4

I think you took the whole universe thing too far with the second text. Shoulda gone more direct after her response, but in a funny way.

Post: #5

Live and learn. Thanks guys.